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Well , I have figured out that I'm bi... and i think im pushing a little more towards the gay side right now.. I mean, i never liked any guys until this one... he is my best friend, and this is terrible because I really don't want to end a friendship but I hate hiding how I feel and who I am from him. Should I come out and just talk to him and tell him about it? This is bothering me so bad, I'm afraid I'll lose my best friend and I don't want to freak him out. The other thing I was wondering.... how much difference is there in having sex with a girl and having sex with a guy? When you get ready to have sex what should you do to prepare for it? I've heard its not like anything "porno" , that it is nasty in the real world. I NEVER really plan on doing this with a guy but.... just curious on what whoever and I should do to prepare for it.... Help, I really feel like I need to break the news to him. I don't know what to do at all.....

I have been in love before, I loved this girl for 6 years and she would never give me the time of day, not even the darkness of night.... but I always found it that , friends (if you could find one who is trustworthy - which is hard to find these days) are usually there for you more, and if they are a good moraled person, then they care for you and the both of you can share feelings instead of feeling all "oh god thats so weird and i cant do that or ill look like a sissy". But , to be in love gives you that special feeling.... but maybe its just because its so hardto find a good friend? You can hang out with a friend and be stupid and have a whole lot of fun together, but when you're with a girl you have to act more mature and such. Still its fun, but you can be yourself easier in front of a friend. Plus, there's not as much pressure inbetween. Does love last forever? Do best-friendships last forever? There is a LOT of difference between having a GF/BF , and actually being in love... but theres also a lot of difference in having a FRIEND, and a BEST FRIEND.

I was just hoping for everyone to share their thoughts and feelings on this subject. Have you ever TRULY been in love? Have you ever had a best friend? What do you like about having a girlfriend/boyfriend, how do they make you feel? What dont you like? What do you like about having a best friend... if youve ever had one? Were they trustworthy? How did they make you feel? What kind of betrayal problems have you been through and what kind of pain has been brought about? Which would cause more pain -The loss or a bf/gf or a best friend, who may know you even better. What can you share with both of them? I mean sure there is one obvious thing that you do with your gf/bf , but what about your best friend? I mean... isnt it just more a lot of times to run around with a friend than w/ a gf/bf? I guess it just depends on how close you are to the person? I hope someone will share their thoughts.

What would you suggest us doing? What do you think about guys with like really hairry bodies and all? I dont see how girls would really like that - what you suggest them doing?

oh good... but... im sure most have seen a porn video , I dont watch them but I saw some stupid ad on the net when I had spyware and it showed this guy and a girl and he went like .... forever like 10 times..... anyone care to tell how many times they 'shoot'? .... cause i feel like im being cheated out sorta... if you know wut i mean.

I dont know , but I was talking to my friend and he said when he orgasms he "shoots" 8 to 10 times.... Im lucky if I hit 4... usually its 3..... is that odd? Im worried.

I've heard several rumors about when guys masturbate too much that it causes them to go blind, and that is also the reason for prostate cancer..... anyone hear that? Plus I was just wondering if some of you would share with us what is supposed to be the "AVG PENIS SIZE" of 18 year old guys? and maybe some of you would share what you are yourselves. lol this is an odd topic I do agree but its a question. I'm 7 1/4 - and im almost 16

Hey everyone, Ok im having a friend problem. I'm sort of selfish over this friend that i have, but we are like brothers. He lies to everyone a lot,and he tries to suck up to everyone. All he wants to do is be popular. Sooooo in public if its me and him and someone else he will always try and suck up to them and THEN IF HE HAS TIME talk to me. But in private we talk and its all good. This is WRONG, and he says he will stop. He acts like a manho, he goes around flirting with every girl he can, its terrible. Everyone's parents cant stand him but still hes my best friend. I need some advice.... this is killing me

Wow - It's really hard to tell exactly what you should do - it sounds to me like there may be something going on . He is probably hiding the way he feels. It also sounds to me like you are wanting to "try" it to see what it is like. If so... just ask him - sounds like he may just do it. Someone else please post some advice lol...

I agree - its immaturity , you cant even tell your friend you love them or hug them or be nice to them because someoen will say its "gay". People are weird and I wouldn't worry about them because it doesn't matter what others think , what is important is what you think about yourself.

the std's that are spread through oral sex are more than likely treatable if the initiative is taken soon correct? and condom use also prevent that i would believe? thanks for the info waterboy - ive been wondering that for a long time

good topic - ive been wondering the same thing - here is something to add to it.... Ok , Two friends of mine are wanting to engage in oral/anal sex. They are both clean and have never done ANYTHING not even kiss with a partner - so there is still a chance of getting HIV and STD's? (they are gay... does that increase their chances? they use condoms) could the STD's pass through? This is a scary situation - hopefully someone could fill me in on this? They are 2 really close friends and they were wanting me to do some research but I couldnt really find anything on the net.

I feel for ya - ive been in that same posistion - and yes , you WILL find out who your true friends are , as I am 15 and the time will come, hopefully soon. I have observed many relationships with different people and in the end - you are lucky to have ONE really good friend that you could consider *a best friend*

Gosh - im sorry for all of you but I know how this is also - in life all you could really ask for is ONE GOOD FRIEND and if you ever find that ONE GOOD FRIEND then you should fight for him/her with all you've got .... i had this best friend for 3 years and the whole entire time he was talking about me behind my back and using me for what I had and could do (it really is depressing). About when I was just ready to give up... along comes the last person in the world I would imagine - now we're the best friends in the world (only took about 3 months) I just encourage you to find someone with the same interests as you and most importantly - SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST - and that is a VERY HARD thing to come accross in a person - but best of luck to all of you I'll keep you in my prayers

oh - maybe you guys have a good way that i should "start the conversation about this"? what exactly should I do? i dont want to mess up but i really dotn know how to bring it up.