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  1. we went to planned parenthood today and explained what happened. they told us we were fine and didn't need the ec. my gf takes yaz and it says on the insert that she's covered 7 days after the sunday start. we had sex 14 days after she started it and even though she missed the day before she was still covered.
  2. the only problem is that planned parenthood is closed tomorrow (sunday) so we'll have to get the prescription on monday, which means she might not get the actual pill until tuesday, and by then it's been three days. we figure we have until 10pm on tuesday, which is 72 hours. i heard somewhere that you can take a few regular birthcontrol pills to equal one morning after pill since the pills are so similar. is this just a myth? why does planned parenthood have to be closed on sundays..
  3. she did read the directions and she told me it starts working after a few days. she takes yaz
  4. i really need some advice here, it might be an emergency. my girlfriend and i just recently started having sex (we were both virgins up until a few days ago). she's been on the pill for about a week and a half, but last night she missed her pill (she had it the night before) and she took her pill just now (11pm is when she usually takes it) we just had sex about a half hour ago, and the condom broke. i didn't ejaculate inside her, i pulled out because i felt it snap and i ejaculated a second or two after i pulled out and moved away from her. i need some advice here, what are the chances that she could get pregnant? she missed her pill last night but i didn't ejaculate inside her but ive heard there might be small amounts of sperm in pre-cum, which might have rubbed off when i was still inside her. could she get pregnant from this?? i really need some help, we're panicking here. thanks
  5. maybe her job is particularly stressful on mondays and tuesdays? i know my girlfriend is always a little bummed on certain days in her school schedule rotation.
  6. thank you both for the words of encouragement. passion, after reading what you wrote about how my insecurity would be what ends the relationship, it sort of made it clear to me that you are absolutely correct. her being around other guys isn't going to end our relationship, but rather me being afraid of herr being around guys will push her away because she will be aware of my insecurity. thanks for the thoughts!
  7. hello everyone, another relationship query for you and yours to ponder: i have been in a committed relationship with my girlfriend for 11 months now. 7 of those 11 months have been long distance, as i went to college 7 months ago, and she stayed in my hometown as a senior in high school. i'm 19 and she's 18 now, and we're getting closer to the summer when we'll be together consistantly again. we have a great relationship and we talk on the phone every night when i'm away. we love each other very much and tell each other so everyday. we have our small troubles whtat pop up every now and then, but nothing out of the ordinary of "normal" relationships. however, she's starting to receive, happily, college acception letters and, unfortunately, some rejection letters. and it got me to thinking about what will become of our relationship next fall when she goes off to college as a freshman. most likely, she will attend a college that is close to mine, and in one case right up the street from me, so the distance isn't the main issue. what i'm concerned about is whether or not she'll want to stay with me after she goes to college. i realize that it would be selfish of me to think that she has to stay with me even if she doesn't want to, and i more than anything to be happy, even if she's happy with someone other than me. but sometimes i lay in bed awake at night seeing next school semester as being the painful death of our relationship. i'm in college right now and i don't have any other girls i can imagine myself being with. additionally, (and i don't mean to sound arrogant), but my girlfriend is a very pretty girl by anyone's standards, so i know she's gonig to get a lot of attention from guys when she goes away to college (she goes to an all-girls high school so she's not used to being around boys very much) and i feel like it's just a matter of time before she finds someone new and i get replaced. i know she would never cheat on me, so i fear the long drawn out process of her drifting away until she finally drops the bomb on me. i've brought this up to her actually, and she's told me that she doesn't want to hurt me, and she told me she's very happy with me and thinking about the future is useless. i realize that i sounds very paranoid to be thinking about this now, with next year being so far away, but i am just so happy with her and i am afraid of losing her. i know that relationships at our age aren't supposed to be long and committed, but we care about each other so much. any advice or calming words?
  8. i've had the same issue in a previous relationship actually. i'm like you, i am a more quiet dude. my gf at the time was also a little on the quiet side, so maybe it's just both of your personalities? anyway, the girl i'm dating now is more outgoing and talkative. she usually is the one who brings up topics of conversation, and i haven't the problem these days, for the most part. however, she seems less engergetic and talkative around me as opposed to her girl friends. i've brought this up to her, curiously, to make sure she wasn't for some reason bored with me (you and i aren't so different i see) and she said that she realizes she's less bouncy around me but it's because i'm not so energetic and hyper, so she's adjusting her tempo to match mine more. i think you should bring this up with your girl. it will let her know that you've noticed it in case she hasn't noticed it. i think in general, though, girls are always more talkative with their girl buddies than with their boyfriends.
  9. hey this is a quick question. i have had my left eyebrow pierced for about 4 months now. in the lasat week or so my left eye has been twitching every now and then. it ususally happens about a dozen times a day, and it stops twitching after about 10 seconds each time. i'm worried it might have something to do with my piercing, considering it's only the eye that has the piercing over it. i took care of and cleaned the piercing pretty well for the first month or so, but for these past 3 months i have only been cleaning the piercing maybe once a week. i've never removed the piercing, but i sometimes play with it with my fingers. not the best habits, i know. anyway, could my piercing be causing my eye to twitch? it doesn't hurt but it's annoying and i want to solve the problem before it might get worse. thanks.
  10. i go to a small school with one main cafeteria and two small cafes that only serve coffee and pastries and stuff. there is a whole foods store about a 20 minute walk from my campus and i don't have a car or bike. i have a bottle of multivitamins which i take spottedly at best, it just seems to slip my mind when i''m rushing out the door to class and such. and i am a guy, elektrahere.
  11. hi, i'm a college student and i'm in my first year. so i've recently come to the realization that it's very difficult to eat healthy here. i find myself eating fried foods all the time and generally not getting all the vitamins and stuff i should be. our healthy food selections are not very appetizing most of the time and the only grovery stores around are quite a far distance from our campus, plus i'm strapped for cash. not only that, i can't cook to save my life so i am essentially a slave to the school cafeteria where i continue to eat burgers and fries. does anyone have any suggestions? are there any tips or tricks i can use to get out of this unhealthy habit?
  12. hi, having trouble growing up again: i'm a freshman in college. i'm home now for thanksgiving and today my high school had a small reunion breakfast thing so we could see everyone from our class. i saw all my old friends which was cool i guess. however it was also very awkward for me. i felt like while they were friendly to me, they didn't really care that much to see me. like sure it was nie to see me, but it's not like they missed me. the only conversation i made to my friends was small talk about college and stuff. yet all my friends seemed to be reminiscing and hugging and were dying to see each other. i just felt left out. it made me feel pretty worthless. i feel kinda ostracized because while i was friends with a lot of the people in ghigh school, i never had any class with them (they were all in advanced classes that i couldn't get into). in addition, i think tey know me as the kid who hasn't started drinking yet, while they all have, so they probably either don't want to include me or they don't know how to treat me anymore. on saturday we're supposed to all hang out and get dinner and stuff. i just worry that it will be the same thing, they'll all have a lot of fun and i won't know how to participate. also, my girlfriend is going to be there, and while she and i are very close and things are fine with her, i feel like they'll be more happy to see her than they will me, even though they've known me a lot longer and know me better (she didn't go to our high school) what should i do? am i being paranoid? how can i change this frame of mind i have?
  13. when i first asked me now-gf out, it was a long time ago when we were just friends. i also was like "we should hang out" and she was like "sure" thinking it was not a date. then later i was like "oh yea, this is a date" it was a little awkward. haha. so i know how that is man. but anyway. i think you should tread softly here. you already made the first move by asking her out somwhere casual (which is good, it eases on the pressure - dinner and a movie on the first date sometimes is too much i've noticed) and she's clearly not been avoiding you like some girls do after a guy they're not interested in asks them out. so i think you just need to play the game a little... you've cast the line in, but you know you'll never catch a fish by throwing tons of chum into the pond and splashing your rod around (haha that could be taken wrongly...) but yea. she knows you're interested obviously, so if she is too then she'll reciprocate since it's now her move. this is just my opinion though. best of luck my man.
  14. you guys are right. an to be honest, no i don't want to be friends with him. but the problem is, my group of friends back home essentially centers around him, so if i just dump him off then i risk being ostracized from some of my other friends; like if everyone is going somewhere and he's going to be there, i either not go or go and have things be awkward. plus, if anyone gets on his bad side, he is viscious. he would talk smack about me to everyone, diliberately invite my girlfriend or my friends places just to exclude me, and i wouldn't be surprised if he even tried to get my girlfriend to dump me. i know she wouldn't do that, but it's the fact that he would even try to do that is disguysting. she's still friends with him, and doesn't like the fact that i don't like him anymore, because she says it puts her in an awkward spot. she used to say she was like a child and that me and my ex-friend were like divorced parents exchanging custody of her. honestly, that's what it's like sometimes. sometimes it's like he he literally competes for her time and friendship, its part of his goal of pushing me away from her because as her boyfriend, i've reached a point with her that to him, as a homosexual, is unattainable and i guess that makes him feel useless or unimportant. he can't stand the fact that she might want to go out with me instead of hanging out with him. like i said, he's the most selfish person i've ever met. and my girlfriend doesn't want to believe it.
  15. thanks for your advice. i have told her i feel like dirt around this guy. one of the main problems with this guy is that i know firsthand how selfish and manipulative he is, and i hate to see her still trust him when he really is not trustworthy, nor does he paricularly care about other people's (including hers) feelings. i also worry that he will become a bad influence on her if she ends up at the same college as he does. i know she's a smart girl and doesn't give in pressure easily but we're talking about a guy who is very persuasive and could sell an icemaker to an eskimo if he really wanted. basically i worry that he'll try to get her to drink and all that kind of stuff, something she doesn't do now nor does she plan on doing. i dunno, the fact that he has totally ditched me for her while accusing me of doing the same thing, and the fact that she still adores him while everyone else who has known him longer knows what kind of person he is, really drives me nuts.
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