oberyn_martell

yea iv been worried about me taking so long to but i tihnk its kind of cause i heard about this exorcize when i was 13 that would eventually help you last longer when oyu had sex. you know guys the muscle that when you flex you can stop peeing all of the sudden. well its flexing that at least a hundred times a day. it also gave me a trick my gf loves lol. now when i flex that my penis gets bigger for a little while. i can feel myself get right to the edge so many times but every time i do my reflexes flex that muscle

she says she is going to dump him for me. things were getting kind of seriouse and she got kind of scared because we are 15. she says she wants to have some fun before she ends up with me because she knows she will and she knows it will be for a long time. this is hurting so much that i almost want to go do this to her though. but i dont want any other girls. yes she is living a little but well we are going to get really seriouse and i guess iv jsut got to live with this for now. i could break her up with him and have her come back to me as soon as i want but i think is hould let her take her own time with this. see exactly how much heartache i can take b4 i fall out of love. it feels like she almost wants me to stop loving her. am i jsut being played here?

ok this girl took a break to figure out how she feels about me. and now shes dating another guy and is going to be friends with benefits with a girl. everyone is getting to be with her but me. we are going to be best friends we work to well to do no contact. i dont know how to cope. i really dont. i love this girl and she thinks she does love me too but i think shes just afraid cause shes so young. help how in the hell am i supposed to deal with this!

iv never had a gilr get me to orgasm b4 she tried but was too impatiant it takes me 1-4 hours by myself no matter hwo hard i focus. well it takes less time when shes on top of me coaxing me on but yea thats a diif story lol

hey this is an odd question but i am sorely lacking in guy friends so i have no other to talk about this with in my life but yea i was just wondering how long it takes most of you guys either by yourself or with some one?

yea well i meant tone because well i just want it to feel more like muscle than fat.

hey im not that bad in the weight dept. but its a little embarrassing that i sort of have man boobs lol. very embarrassin when my gf loves running her nails all over my chest. so iv been trying to think what kinds of exorsizes would specificly target to tone that area oh yea i kind of want a nicer butt if anyones got tips on toning that area too

well to answer your question when i do it by myself it takes me just as long. 1-4 hours unless iv been like holding off for like two weeks.it frustrates her alot more than me. i dont care if i do while we are doing stuff but i feel bad that she doesent orgasm and now shes got a weird rule where if i dont orgasm first i cant help her. lol it sounds cruel but its kind of funny. i really dont care if i do i like being with her hell i like just holding her as much as i like making out with her. we spent like 3 hours yesterday just holding eachother and either watching movies or talking. im just worried cause it takes me long almost no matter what. it takes alot less time after iv had a huge adreniline rush or iv been holding out and im wondering if thats normal too?

hey this frustrates my girl but unless iv been working myself up and stoping b4 anything happens. it takes me at least an hour to orgasm. even when she started doing it for me or when she has me do it while letting me touch her if i havent gotten ready first it takes me anywhere from 1-4 hours. she feels like a failure because of it. its not her its been that way with me for a year and iv told her this but its either like hold out for two weeks and get myself ready (which i did so i could make her happy) or take to god damn long is this normal?

o i didnt explain better we werent oficially going out so even though we were still doing stuff she doesent want to call it cheating. and i know what i did was wrong i have alot of things to be blamed for in this relationship and im not trying to make it out as all her fault. i think the reason i dont want to love her might also root a little because i dont trust myself anymore. i used to but after i cheated i just havent been able to trust or forgive myself

iv cheated on her once b4 and she says she was angry and thats why she did it. that scares me enough considering i cheated on her with a girl i had actual feelings for she just grabbed one of her guy friends and did it. i cried alot over it and she knows that and i remember my mistakes to well. better than everyone else in fact. i dont beat myself up about them though. they are mistakes meant to be learned from not meant to be used in any other way. shes not better at it than me because well iv been manipulated by girls b4 but i always knew they were doing it i just didnt stop them. she has a friend who very much hates me who is an influence on her. so for all i know she is hearing all of these things about me and starting to turn cold as we speak

well... she did something with another guy, and it hurt me really bad. she took me back right after that and said "i love you". But now my guards back up. im very suspiciouse if she really means any of this. when we see eachother all doubts go away. but as soon as im gone i get the worst feeling... and since shes even said i somehow change her feelings when i see her, i feel a little like i might be manipulating her without knowing it (im too good at manipulating people) but i dont do it by basically bending them with thier fears i just can make people do the things i want. this is the last thing i want with this girl. if i am manipulating her its all for nothing. its very very scary to have these feelings at 15! maybe thats why im nitpicking? maybe im just afraid? she has a knack for forgetting her own mistakes. she basically cheated on me, and she knows it hurt me. but she says she has almost forgotten it. she remembers my mistakes like a computer though. she seems to have a really good selective memory. Does it just sound like im being played or im playing her?

no she ddint dump me there was a whole lot of skrewed upt hings going on like first of all niether of our friends aproving of us but that wasnt a big one at all and then there was things like i went on vacation for a while right after we became a couple and in the end it was me who dumped her knid of and thens he got me to see her the next day and i feel for her again i coudlnt help it i still had feelings for her and we ended up doing stuff and talking to eachother like a couple and after we did that she woudlnt take me back and now iv seen her again and the same thing happened she told me that she thinks she loves me but i knwo that she can sometimes get caught up in the moemnt. i know i mean it when iv said it but i really dont know if she means it. heres and example of how she can get caught up. when we were ont he phone after i saw her a second time she asked "umm how did my bra get taken off?" so yea you can see why i feel weird about her saying i think i love you... shes thinking about whther she meant it or not now i will hopefully know by the end of today toherwise its gonna drive me crazy on my vacation.

hi im in love with a girl i used to date she says she think she loves me too she syas shes angry with me most of the time hwne shes not tlkaing to me or with me we always end up doing stuff when we are together and she wants me and says she cant stop seeing me but i dont want to love her because it hurts to much to love her when she wont have me back im crying alot and well it just hurts when shes not in my arms or talking with me