7CardStud
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How can you defend infidelity and then come accross and tell us "You don't know the case." I'm sorry but Infedility is completely wrong... You want to have a fling with some other guy? Fine, but end your relationship FIRST. It's not hard. Don't act like we are the bad guys for pointing this out. If you're not happy with the marriage then end it. Don't do this to everyone involved... Cheating brings stress to everyone, especially you. So do yourself a favor and end this unhappy relationship you have with your husband.
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I hear where you're coming from, but I think there is a lot more to a rapist than just size. So I don't think it's fair to say, All Rapists or people who commit sexual crimes have small * * * *s. Because there is no proof.
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My g/f recently told me about how these girls were joking about how small this guy was... Needless to say I was pretty stunned... I agree saying people shouldn't be acting like this...
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Talking To My First Love/ I Am Married
7CardStud replied to JB2MW's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
When a guy agrees to something like that, he is telling himself I trust her, and i hope to GOD she makes the right decision and doesn't do anything. If I were you, I wouldn't see him... What good can this cause in your marriage?? Are you happy in your current marriage? Why did you ex even start writing to you after x years? I find it hard to believe people can love each other for 9 years and not see one another... You probably just remember the good times like other posters have said and are intrigued... But be wary of what might come of this. Your dancing with infidelity. -
I'd be interested in knowing how the affair ended? Was it even her doing? Or did the other guy end it? Also, this is prolly only me but I'd be more mad that it was in the past... I don't agree with people who are saying it happened 4 years ago... etc etc. Thats 4 years of lies imo. I know I'm young, but That doesn't mean I don't have any knowledge of Infidelity... All you have to do is ask my parents.
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Going Great...And Then She Puked in My Car
7CardStud replied to guy0221's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I think what you did with your ex is for the best. I had a girl once that did that to me... It isn't fair to you that you have to wait for her if she REALLY wants to be with you. You'll find a girl that wants you and respects you (and your car) -
I agree 100% i remember reading posts on this forum about "my b/f is too big" and people commenting "well you sure are lucky..." Comments like that is my proof why size matters to a large majority of women. Even if they don't flat out say it, I have a hard time believing otherwise
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Regardless if i'm over average it doesn't mean I can't feel inadaquete... I'm 4th out of 5 other men my g/f has been with. Kinda makes me feel small and unhappy It's like the obese analogy i was trying to make earlier, whether you're a lil overweight or a lot. You still feel unhappy because society has this thing there everyone is supposed to be buff and flat abs and big boobs and big * * * *s, because bigger is more pleasurable and so on and on. Also as a pysch major I find it odd that your Psychologist hasn't called you back, i'd def. try to call and find other therapist, because that isn't acceptable, although it could be an honest mistake, iunno.
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First you got to calm down, as hard as that is... Being worried about it will only make it 10x than it actually is. Just get a preg test and get it over with, the longer u wait the more pressure will build up. Also for future reference you should check out about going on BC if that is an option.
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Does it matter? The point is that society brings out this "Bigger is Better" and people buy into it. Even if he isn't THAT small the inadequacy is still as bad as if he was. I'm not small nor am I big, 7.5 and I still feel inaduquate. Don't know why but I can def. side with the self-loathers out there and it does def. affect your confidence, the way you feel about yourself is important. Just like how overweight people may feel.... Even people who aren't THAT overweight feel the pressure that they are fat and unattractive. Same thing goes along with being average or below average.
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hahaha, i see the old penis talk aye?
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I'm also confused what is this "coming out"?
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I couldn't even get it in... haha. we've tried but it's a def. no go... Usually is hard enough to get in without water... so yeah water... no thanks
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Just bring up a conversation, what do you think about _______? see what her reaction is based on the questions you give her. and give her honest answers back. if she gives u kind of a i'm not really sure and ask's you. Don't nec. tell her exactly what she wants to hear. If you want to make love then say "If I find someone special enough to give it to..." It's all about just communicating with her.
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I wasn't nec. directing the "You've never wanted sex before?" to you, but to everyone who is participating, didn't mean to sound mean to you at all. Hope you didn't read it like that.