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Ayanokōji

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Ayanokōji last won the day on January 18 2013

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  1. Since you clearly like her and shes not msging u back anyway u might as well send ur 2nd message. Coz like u said, shes not gonna msg u back anyway so nothing to lose by sending 2nd msg.
  2. Is him having gone to prostitutes 6 months before meeting u a deal breaker for u? I'm pretty sure most men don't tell their S.O they went to prostitutes 6 months before they met u unless u specifically asked, like why bring this up? Especially when he probably thinks its normal (I'm assuming it's legal where u reside?) Just coz u think a guy is amazing isn't an indicator of whether he'd go to prostitutes or not.
  3. Dude shes a lawyer, she should be making 6 figures and probably more than u, why doesn't she have her own house and car by now? U 2 are the same age, ***? Red flag af.
  4. Massive af red flag, ditch immediately. But to answer your question, usually a man in his late 20s or 30 yrs old that owns a house + car, has a steady income i.e low 6 figures is more than enough for the average woman to consider him financially viable for marriage. Anyone wanting more than that is probably too materialist, a gold digger or has rich parents and high living standards, all 3 of which you're not gonna be able to afford unless you're making 7 figures.
  5. What we had was so good, I still don't have much bad to say about what we had but thanks for setting the bar so high. I never lost my temper with u coz you were that good, maybe thats why I didn't pick up the signs and how u really felt. I just thought everything was great, didn't take what you said seriously, thought I had you forever and you'd never leave, well you sure showed me lol, never been so blindsided in my life. I know I played it cool when you dumped me via text, I also don't really wanna encourage your ***ty behavior at the end but I've probably hurt u enough to deserve that at least. It's all in the past now but what I should of said on the day was; I'm sorry I wasn't enough for you, TBH I didn't even try very hard coz everything just felt so natural, so good, like running with the wind on my back the entire relationship. I understand that I've probably hurt you so much more than you've hurt me, I just hope that you find the happiness you deserve and thank you for the amazing 2 years we had together. Sayonara.
  6. He shoulda came with u if u requested it coz it's his fault. Make him do stuff for u and c if hes willing or if hes lazy af and just there for sex.
  7. Why you still with him, dudes clearly mental.
  8. Someone who really loves you isn't going to say "I will not find anyone else who will love me as much and hung up." I skimmed your post but it looks like you're her last option, always a big red flag if you weren't her first option.
  9. Wait so the plane ticket was non refundable and the AirBnb is only half refundable? Your partner might be feeling like it was a huge waste of money to cancel this trip then and would rightfully be upset. I can also understand your point of view but you should have planned it with him better before u guys spent the money.
  10. It doesn't matter whether u think hes treating you as an option or not, just ask yourself if you're OK with the way you're being treated in this instance, if not then tell him you're not tolerating this and he needs to be more attentive otherwise it's over. Also I'd expect u to be as attentive to him when hes over at yours.
  11. Theres no reason why he needs to be talking to his ex based on what you've said. You did the right thing and you should stand by ur decision. If she doesn't mean much to him anymore coz hes in love with you then he shouldn't need to go see her. He should also have told her right away that hes in a relationship now.
  12. Dating APPs have turned into; 1. External validation for girls that just wanna go on there to see how many likes she gets, attention and validation. 2. Social media influencers, sex workers and scammers/bots shilling their Instagrams, selling services or shilling some b.s financial investment opportunities. 3. A place where very attractive guys i.e top 10% go to try get easy sex. 4. A small percentage of people who actually are on there to find a relationship but you're going to have to siff through the 95% of the above 3 categories.
  13. Some men have rescue syndrome, he might be one of them. They wanna feel like they're rescuing someone and they want to be needed etc...
  14. Sounds like it's time to move onto someone better suited for you.
  15. I can guarantee you that if you made a male profile and tried it from the perspective of men, it's 100x worse.
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