Mike_Wazowski
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Caring more about myself than my family
Mike_Wazowski replied to feeling empty's topic in Divorce Advice
From a man's point of view .... .... I think you are being utterly selfish. Your husband seems like an upstanding decent man, loves you, loves your daughter, faithful....what else can you ask for?? That kind of man is a dying breed....You should pray everyday that you found such a decent guy! Other women would die for what you have, and you are ready to throw it away in your search for Mr. Right. Mr Right by the way is just a myth .... That's why divorce is at an all time high cause we are living in the ME, ME, ME Generation where people only look out for Number One! You daughter will pay the price for your happiness.....Good Luck! -
A kiss on the cheek as the french and some other cultures do as a greeting and farewell, no problem.... But it is not Our culture (us meaning, American or Canadian) to go around kissing friends for any reason I can see. A handshake is fine....
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Rabican said: In hindsight I should have just taken a break until I cooled off. **** Well, and then what, go back to her......???? I really think some mistakes you can forgive, others you can't. So..every time a relationship is having troubles, it's ok to go out and flirt with others, then confess to your partner, forgive and forget??? No one should be a doormat for another....I would advice anyone to Cut the Cheating partner lose.... As another poster said, some people have "Intergrity" meaning they would never cheat no matter what the circumstances, and others have "No intergrity" meaning they would cheat. Why waste your time on someone who cheats or "Kinda cheats".......
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Hey Strength.....My wife never knew I had an affair......so us working at the same company was never an issue. But i'm sure that if my wife knew about it, she would demand that i quit the company...and rightly so. That would be an act of trust on my part showing her that I can leave that woman behind. Luckily for me, the other women is quitting the company at the end of next month.....I'm very glad for that basically because, men, in general I think can easily fall back into an affair with the same woman if they see them day in and day out. I'm sure I could easily start it up again with this woman because it is convenient to meet, have lunch, meet after work cause we are both at the same company etc.... I think it is dangerous for your husband to work side by side with this woman and I'm sure everyday must be like Hell for you knowing they are working side by side...... With regards to your point of people whether have 'Integrity' or 'No Integrity', I must agree with you. And I believe I fall into the the Latter of the two. I cheated on my wife for one reason only, she wasn't giving me sex and I wanted sex so I went out and looked for it..unfortunately, as time went on it became more than just sex.... But now it is over and I try to not think of other women besides my wife.... Good Luck!
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Major sign of CHEATING? do i need to lighten up?
Mike_Wazowski replied to hope123's topic in Infidelity
Wow..Hope..you sound like I used to about 6 months back. I would make an issue of every litte thing my wife did....And I learned that focusing on crap like that and worrying about stuff like that will drive you utterlying Crazy, forget about it....... And what fixed me up: These words from Yoda: " Attachment leads to Jealousy. Train Yourself to let go of Everything you fear to lose." Couldn't have said it better myself..... -
I think just putting yourself in a situation where you were flirting with another guy and almost cheated on your BF should be justification enough for him to Cut You Lose......Even though you told him afterwards, he will always be wondering, "Where is she, and what is she doing when she isn't with me?" No one needs that kinda crap in their lives. Making a relationship work these days is hard enough....Hate to be cruel but you'd be out the door if you were my GF....... One last thought....will you run to this older guy or some other guy if your BF begins to act distant again??? I bet you will! Good Luck!
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Predforte! You DA MAN!
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single guy needs advice, married woman wants an affair
Mike_Wazowski replied to bluef1n's topic in Infidelity
Well.....cheating with a married woman can lead to a baseball bat upside your head from her Husband! Even though he may be cheating also, I'm sure he would go ballistic if he found out some other guy was parking his car in his wife's garage....Be careful my brother! -
It's hilarious how people blame everything but themselves for their bad behaviour..Oh..I had too much to drink. bla bla bla........ I love the quote from Indiana Jones and the last Crusade when he was about to embark on the search for his father. 'Trust no one Dr. Jones.' Life is so much simplier when you accept the fact the people are basically evil........
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Snuggling and kissing?? Excuse my French but aren't you doing the Wildthing on a regular basis with her??? Nothing gives me more satisfaction then knowing that some Hot Chick wants me, but I reject her! Listen bro...Men are always tempted by the fruit of another...that's why you have your gf to keep you satisfied, and when she isn't around, your right hand! Or left hand if you're a switch hitter! Good Luck!
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Cheating and keep allowing myself to get hurt
Mike_Wazowski replied to notabadgirl's topic in Infidelity
I know what you're feeling...it's exciting right? To know that another man wants you! You both know it's wrong but you still do it right! Why? Only one reason...Plain old Selfishness.... You want pleasure and you don't care who gets hurt......And please don't say, I've tried not to see this other guy....pure Hogwash....I've been where you have been and I ended it.... Do you think this guy has an ounce of respect for you??? Hardly...Oh, he may say, i love you, i love you, but that is just to keep you happy so that you will give him what he wants..... I'm sure deep down inside, he has no respect for you. Really now.....who wants to be committed longterm to some woman, or man for that matter who cheats on his spouse??? Answer: NOBODY! Are you going to divorce your husband and throw away your kids to be with this guy??? Is he going to dump his wife?? Are you going to run away together and live Happily ever after???? Wake up!! You need to end it, before your husband finds out and he ends it by kicking you out of the house and getting custody of your kids. End it before you lose everything you say you supposedly care about. Good Luck! -
Is it the "No contact" or lack of control?
Mike_Wazowski replied to Heisinmyheart's topic in Infidelity
Don't you have call screening at your office? No contact is a piece of cake! I work with the woman who I carried on an affair with for 3 years. I'm at work now and her desk is not more than 2 meters from my own. Infact, I can see through the corner of my eyes that she is looking at me.......That is Pressure! One thing though, and I hope you feel it too is POWER! You have proven to yourself that you don't need this guy, that you can easily never talk to him again! Congratulations! -
People hate to be ignored.....But you are starting to sound like you're obsessed with this guy....There are Millions of Singles guys out there...I suggest you turn your efforts to one of them. I suggest you quit your job and never contact the Brother again. Many people believe, "Absense makes the heart grow fonder" But I personally like the one that says, 'Out of sight, out of mind' Good Luck
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Let me just say that the Internet is possibly the Worst and Evilest invention in the history of mankind.....MySpace, MSN dating, Chat, Personal Websites, Blogs, etc etc etc......... It makes it all that much easier for people to Cheat, deceive, screw around, etc etc etc...... How many of us have more than three email addresses?? How many of those do our spouses know Nothing about.......How many of us have flirted online with complete strangers???? And we say..oh, it's not real..it's only Cyber Space!! Hogwash I say! Hogwash! As my Gram used to say..'The worlds going to Hell in a Handbasket! There's a good quote from the movie Runaway train. Person A: You're an ANIMAL!! Person B: NO, WORSE, HUMAN!!
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Since I cheated on my wife(long story, but I broke it off) I sometimes think she may be cheating on me......if I were to find out that she was, well..I'd be dissappointed. The marriage would also be over I guess....But really, who really knows what they would do until they are confronted with it......