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  1. Hmmm my post got erased? Sorry... The topic was "dirty talk" and I even edited the word. My apologies... Anyway, I will rephrase then... My wife isn't into swearing or talking dirty in general, but in bed or when she's trying to be seductive she will throw down the verbal obscenity usually associated with sex . I really enjoy it as it is a turn-on for me.
  2. My wife and I might spoon when we first get in bed, but after a while that gets hot and sticky (she likes to sleep nekid or with just her bottoms on) so we separate. We usually sleep like that for most of the night... We do have a double bed though and my wife refuses to get a queen because she likes me being "right next to her"...
  3. Did you really think that was a personal insult, DN?
  4. I agree with everyone here.... Just brush that dirt off your shoulder, tell her "he's a lucky man to have you", walk away with a smile, and forget about her entirely. You took a swing, struck out, and now you go back to the bench. You will bat another day, but at least you didn't go down looking at the strikeout -- you swung away. Kudos.
  5. I don't think you ever can "forget" someone as they will always be a memory, but with time and better fresh memories it will help you push the old ones to the back of your mind. You never forget, but you can certainly replace
  6. I've had three partners in my life and each time I was varying lengths that I could "perform" before cumming. I don't know if there's any correlation to feelings for the person, interest in sex at the time, or simply the sensation that comes along with orgasm can be tied to one thing. For example, maybe your bf associates orgasm with the sensation of a blowjob so for him it's a mental issue of not being able to disassociate BJ's from vag sex.
  7. This is what affects many married couples -- the loss of identity. You really need to establish a "personal time" thing with your bf so that you both can have fun with the hobbies that you used to do. Another thing you might want to do is a couples activity that you both can enjoy together -- this will allow you to be with your bf as well as find new hobbies together that you can share.
  8. If you know that she will never love you then you need to let her go and acknowledge that she will never be more than a close friend. If you come out to her and try to get physical, it is possible that she will be highly offended and upset -- this would be far worse for you because now you lose a friend too. You also mention that you are still unsure of your sexuality -- are you basing all of that on this one girl? If so, you might need to do a little more soul searching and find out if it's just some random infatuation or do you really want to have a same sex relationship?
  9. I agree with Dako, but IMO if you gave a card to your bf's mother then it's only fair to give on to his father as well. Are they divorced/separated though? This might be a diff scenario if he's not close to his dad AND his parents aren't together. As for your step-dad, I think it's courteous to at least give him something to remind him that it's father's day. I'm sure it's equally as tough on him when his step-children don't consider him their father yet he's trying to be one to your sister. Kind of a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" scenario for him, and perhaps a card for Father's Day would really make his day. Always look to sew seeds of good merit to others and it will return to you even more.
  10. You're 14 and calling a chick your "sexy little b*"? wow... Maybe she didn't pick up on it because she's in middle school Btw, to the original poster -- the guy likes you but evidently lacks the courage to make it happen, and he's hoping that you'll step-up and make the move. IMO most women hate when a man is too weak to get up to the plate and take a swing because that means he has no backbone. It sucks but it's the truth...
  11. Ah, I figured you were going dry style on him...
  12. Someguy, the average lifespan of most marriages in the USA today is between 5-6 years. That seems to be the critical mass of a marriage lately... I agree though -- why did you get married if for some reason your life with your wife is so awful? Did you stop having sex when you gained weight? Is she also overweight?
  13. Marriage is new? I thought it's been going on for quite some time, rk . I understand that many think it is a "christian" belief, but honestly many cultures feel this way and it's not just the religious right. There is only a difference in the two statements you mentioned if it is something that is "offensive" to you or if you agree with it.
  14. I agree. You don't want to suggest that your partner get tested while continuously saying how you're clean so you don't need to do it. It's basically saying that you don't trust them while telling them that they should obviously trust you instead. Doesn't work that way...
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