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  1. Well...how many "forevers" can you live? If it happened once, you should still be with him..I don't understand Anyway, I'm romantic too and what I'm discovering at 33 it's that, maybe, excessive romanticism matches with illusion. Be romantic, be realistic too, tough
  2. ShySoul, I hope you won't be disappointed by life, but your chances are high, I'm afraid. I'd rather suggest you to have your first time with a kind guy, a fine person....you'll be lucky enough that way ...anyway...during my first time I was very confused. I remember my penis to be lost in something very thight, probably it wasn' t very turgid because of the nervous mood. She said to me "hey, pay attention, uh?" (translation: "you don't want to become father your first time, do you?")...Less than a minute after this sentence I told her I had to go to the bath. I thought I was about to come, instead I stood there masturbating for a longer time that the "intercourse" lasted
  3. The prepuce should leave the glans uncovered when the penis is erected. Or you should be able to complete the operation manually without hurting. The problem is if you feel pain. In that case, I think circumcision is advisable in that case. @PADreamer: Maybe you didn't get close enought to it, yet?
  4. Not at all, I found it funny P.S. You put rhymes together very well You're really able to build lines So, what's the problem..what the hell...? Does your bf abstain from a very long time?
  5. I really don't get the last two sentences... AhAhAh!!
  6. I think almost every human being, sooner or later, become aware of the senselesness of this sentence I think you can be both relaxed.
  7. We could try to do a sort of game: let's pretend that this wasn't your first post here; you could write it again describing something else about yourself, such as, where you live, if you have a job and what is it. If you like music or reading, things like that. It's important that you describe your feelings, thoughts and troubles, but, speaking of troubles, it is also important that you think about how to introduce them to others. Look, what I mean is that we're all on the ship. Yes, there is the more brave and the romantic one, the black and the white, the tall and the short, but fears, insecureness, weaknesses are things that more or less put us all in the same cage. Complaining is sometimes good, because if we seek for others' warmth, and we find it, it feels sooo good, but it is also good to find a reason for things, I don't want to say an explanation, but at least an interpretation. Try to be more rational. When you feel sad or depressed try to concentrate on the problem like it was a math one. Besides we got to accept ourselves, our aspect in particular, if we can't or want to change it. I'm tall and skinny, I'm quite over the average to be Italian, so since I was 14 years old everybody used to stare at me or saying jokes on height I've heard billions of times. Is it important? Relationships I have with people are tied to this aspect? When I speak with people, the subject is not my height, like it isn't your acne in your talks with others. So I don't wanna know about your acne* but what music do you like, what book you read last...? *I'm not saying acne is a tabù topic, we can also talk about this
  8. Well usually for all the time the stimulation lasts, uh..if it is appreciated of course. Don't think it is possible to come just kissing, it needs some mechanical aid, or so I think. Never happened to me anyway
  9. If I understood well, you haven't always had these kind of problems. Are you sure that you cannot recall something useful about the "transformation" period? It seems strange that a sudden lack of sexual desire is all you noticed. When sex went well, you never noticed some particular act of hers, I don't know, something that could be a sympthom of further problems? How can you say your relation is "perfect apart this"? There's a major problem, isn't it? I knew persons who had such similar problem, but they realized to have it when they begun to think about sex, let's say 'from the beginning'. Is she becoming aware to be bisex or gay? Doesn't love you anymore? Intersted in some other guy? Well I'm sorry, just giving random possible reasons here, but I'm really curious about this.
  10. I don't understand. You're not doing anything bad, just reading to become "less ignorant" What's wrong about it? You should browse different pages if you feel embarrassed or bothered. Couriosness is a sane feeling.
  11. What are your ideas? Have you talked with the potential father? Does he know it? If so, what does he think? I think that you really have to avoid impulsive moves. I'm sorry for the fact that you're looking for answer and I ask you questions, but I'd like to know something more about the relationship between you and your boyfriend, if you have one. Why do you say you're 100% sure?
  12. So I must assume that you never saw two cats flirting. The female waits sitting down..the male comes close. The famale waits for him to get close enough then...she gets moving. She reaches a spot some meters away and..sit down again! What is she doing? She's doing the female. Now it's up you to show if you are the right male, she waits for it.. Ah, male cats usually have a lot of patience!
  13. I agree with Sonjam about the insecurity thing. I don't think I'll menage to assure OceanEyes a little, but I'll try anyway: I think that checking girls out for males is a behaviour tied to an istinct, something responding to a very ancient part of our brain. But it's really just a mere instinct. If I look at a girl passing by you can be sure that I won't even remember how she was after 10 min. I had some problems with my present gf, about this matter. First times we were dating it happened that I made a comment about a couple of girls (strangers). Well the first time I made it because I didn't know my gf well and so the reaction she might have had. The second time because I'm a moron and I should have recalled her reaction. But with the time we discussed on the matter, and now she sometimes make me notice a nice girl. On the other hand she also feel more free to make some comments about guys she finds pretty. I think it can be quite normal. When a couple experience serious troubles, they don't think about fighting on such trivial things, and they are not only annoyed, they are terribly scared. I think.
  14. I agree with the previous posts saying that they're still your family, but I can't imagine which worse thing than this can be done to a person apart from killing him. I think it's a right of every person to know where he comes from, which dna is within him. Not the half of it. I can't imagine, even being aware of how difficult it can be, why they didn't manage to tell you. And I can't figure how could I forgive them, really. I should have lived the situation, from outside I cannot suggest you how to face it. I suppose I would be angry to them for a very very long time, but that's my personality...
  15. Maybe she kiss him simply beacause he's from the same family of yours, it may be a form of courtesy to you and your relatives. And perhaps when she looks at your brother she looks for similarities (or differences) between the two of you. Why don't you ask her?
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