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  1. Free Lancer
    It's called 'NC' No Contact... The only way to get over someone you love... You won't forget them ... that is impossible... It will just make things easier for you... you can move on with your life... Don't talk to her at all... explain it to her first then stop talking... it will be hard for both of you... but best in the long run for you Good Luck
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    That was amazing I love it... Do you mind if I print it off and put it up in my room... I feel exactly that way about someone at the moment I LOVE IT
  3. Free Lancer
    You love her but you want to get over her.... Time heals all wounds... You want to get over her... don't talk to her... vut off all contact and you will slowly get over... instead of thinking about her all day you will only think about her half the day... then a quarter of the day and so on and so forth... Try talk to her as little as possible and you will get over her... Don't try to hate her... never works
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    I wouldn't think that it would do any damage... but water based lubricants are best because they are MADE for masterbating... you can get them in anyChemist or even local Shopping centre, probably near the condoms
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    If you feel upset everytime you talk to him, then I think you really need a cool down... don't talk to him for a while... And just because you have nothingin common doesn't mean that you can't love him... *opposites attract* that's is probably why you like him... or 'Love' him If you think you have a slight chance of something happening in the futureKeep talking to him.. I mean Love should nevr be given up on... But only do it if you think something is going to happen...
  6. Free Lancer
    My God That is the longest post EVER... I'm going to be blunt... In my opinion she is screwing you around... She want's you she doesn't want you, she wants you, she doesn't want you... I'm surprised you hung around THAT long... because of her not knowing what she wants, she is stopping you from moving on with your life... she basically cut you off from your friends who you have been friends with for 7 years... that is a long time... I know you love her and you will probably love her for a long time after... but she isn't going to give you what you want for a long time.... she seems to be giving you short bursts and as soon as she gets bored she moves on then comes back then moves on... she just doesn't seem to want any long term commitment... Take a break from her... go away with your mates... have some fun without her... try realize that you CAN have fun without that girl and you don't NEED her If life hands you Lemons ask for Tequilla and Salt
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    Mate... that is by far the LAST option do not do something that is going to destroy the lives of EVERYONE around you... You WILL ruin people's lives... in my opinion Suicide is the most selfish thing... I've been whre you are... not necessarily the EXACT position but I've been so depressed that I wanted to kill myself... DON'T I'm so glad that I didn't, because at the moment life is good for me... Life will become good for you to... just give it time... you are at an incredably hormonal stage of life... all these weird things are happening to you and it is making you feel shocking we all went, are going through, are going to go through... this stage... So don't do anything stupid... even if it is not for yourself... Don't commit suicide for your Family, friends, teachers, Aunties, Uncles, cousins, your ex... Talk to your Ex, have a long chat ... tell her you still love her very much but you just need to work things out for yourself... say you don't want to hurt her... Don't do anything stupid... Suicide is incredably selfish
  8. Free Lancer
    Well personally i think I'm missing out because I have never kissed a guy and been aroused... EVER... I don't really particularily like kissing... it's weird... geez... how sheltered am I?!?!?! hehe
  9. Free Lancer
    Sorry to be cruel... but you have to be cruel to be kind... you said It seems to me you saying should I wait for an explanation is a bit pointless... If he hasn't spoken to you by now he won't speak to you... and the fact that he told your friend... Just shows that he is a stupid f@#%... You HAD this beautiful thing that he has given NO RESPECT AT ALL TO... you're doing the nice thing and waiting... BUT don't, Like Aretha Franklin says All I'm asking is for a little Respect... Don't put up with him... move on... you'll feel so much better with time
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    Hey At the moment things are going to seem REALLY crazy but you can get through it... Don't think ahead too much./.. work through it day by DAY, and things will get easier... You're telling us that it isn't your mum and that you love her so much... show her your post like you did the others... Also when you get the chance just go up and hug her, or give her a kiss on the cheek... or even tell her you love her and that she is the best mum... Do something for her that you wouldn't usually do... buy her some flowers. Lots of hugs for you definatley ... they help
  11. Free Lancer
    Geez... your boy is acting really childish... He should let you do the Judo... you enjoy it he shouldn't be stopping you from doing what YOU enjoy... I mean big deal you beat him at a wrestling match... All I can think of is "ummm isn't that the point" You've been training for How many months... if you couldn't beat him the lessons would be pointless" The lessons for you probably aren't JUST fun they are a great way to learn self defense... So if you REALLY love him and are willing to sacrifice something that OBVIOUSLY brings you joy... don't start up at the new dojo... But other people really shouldn't stop you from doing what makes you happy... ... There are so many bad experiences in our life we shouldn't cut off the good ones
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    That is sooo sad... just the way you described your relationship as beautiful... I've never heard a relationship described that way before... I think that if you feel this way then she feels exactly the same, she just still hurts from what happened... Don't worry I think because of what you once had you will become friends again... I think it was meant to be Start making contact with her slowly... and then increase it.. don't be to forward to quickly....
  13. Free Lancer
    Hey Don't worry about it ... you fully don't need a boyfriend or a girlfriend... as long as you have your friends it's ok... Just have fun with them and one day when you least expect it You'll find someone fantastic who thinks you're fantastiv too
  14. Free Lancer
    Time heals all wounds... It really does That is totally intense.. I think it is really unfair that, that happened you seemed like a really nice guy... I think what you were saying about being an a** will work.... The silent treatment alwayz works on girls... I'd know... ummmm... I think if you don't talk to her for a while you can slowly get over it That's all I can offer Good Luck
  15. Free Lancer
    In most of these sort of things the copier just can't think of anything and she may be trying to find some original stuff... I don't think she is intentionally trying to Copy you or your boyfriend... She just thinks you have REALLY good ideas... and think they are SOOO fantastic that she wants to do it herself and so she does... she may no even realize she is doing it
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