Lauren Ny

RUN FOREST.....RUN!!!!!! It's apparent that you're in love with this guy. Unfortunately, he doesn't feel the same. It's apparent in every word that you write. To be honest, I personally believe that 2 years is a normal amount of time. Some would disagree, but we play so many games in love these days that it takes TIME to truly know someone. Continue on in the relationship if you wish, BUT pay attention to the signs. [/code]

If you like this woman then by all means you need to open your mouth and tell her. If you're helping her stay with her BF, isn't that defeating the purpose? I agree that you should not have such high expectations with your gift. You should give a gift because you want to give it - not to affect a reaction. EXAMINE YOUR MOTIVES!

Your message reads "My hearts Been Broken - LIKE ALWAYS" I've learned one thing: "We get in life what we expect to get." Sounds to me darlin that you should change your outlook. If you go into any situation looking to get your heart broken...guess what? YOU WILL! It's hard to accept that we may have self esteem issues. Start loving yourself. Change the why you look at relationships and you'll begin to attract the type of people in your life that you desire. I wish you the best!

Hello Blankman: The problem could be hormonal. It would depend alot on age, etc. Might I suggest a helpful remedy? K-Y Warming. You can purchase it in any drugstore and it should help. Some women have a problem with air in the room (such as making love on top of a blanket with a fan running) get the K-Y creme and you'll both be happy.

We often spend a great deal of time worrying or obsessing about "What will be." I have to agree with the reply above that you need to just allow it to happen. Every potential person who enters your life doesn't have to be a love relationship. Concentrate instead on developing a loving caring friendship. A wise friend once said to me, "I stopped worrying about love and allowed love to show me what it was." Yes, we've all been in hurtful relationship. It's the hurt that allows us to grow. Give it some time. If you're obsessing about being hurt, you and only you can control that. Take each day as it comes and be certain to set some boundaries in the relationship. Good luck!