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  1. i can understand where ur comin from Derge, sometimes it feels like the good guys dont finish at all, let alone last... it seems like no matter how great a person u are, the #$%% 's who treat women like sh-- are the ones who end up with them. but u knw what...theres a lot of other people out there.. i mean there are 6 BILLION people out there in the world, and some of them must be gettin t right. right?
  2. It will take 126.8 cups of brewed coffee to kill me chek it out : link removed
  3. yeah ive heard that too " i love you but im not IN love with you." i never understood what that meant...but i assumed it just meant...i think ur nice...but go away...
  4. both men and women have feelings and emotions, and these feelings and emotions can get hurt over time. I think that women are just better at opening up with their feelings amongst their friends and such. as for men, well we liek to hide it, and when we realise thats not helping, we opt for anonymity- hence this site. and the number of male dumpees...
  5. I have to agree with annie24, give urself some time and some space. You say u believe he is hurting by being alone, but perhaps what he needs is some time alone by himself to think and do some soulsearching. give it some time, and after that just gradually talk to him, dont pour out your heart, even though this is your Will, with whome you've been best friends for such a long time. ask him how he truly feels, without thinking about anyone else, not his mom, not ur dad, nobody. how does he feel about you and him. period.
  6. well im more of an msn person, but can u set ur status to 'busy' or 'away'? and give ur gf a call or smthin once ur done working..
  7. this guy sounds a lot like me. guys like us are afraid that by makin a move we might ruin what we have. He is afraid. He shouldnt be, but he is. Feeling comfortable with each other is great, but crossing that threshold of sexuality, with something as discreet as a peck on the lips needs to be done. Since he seems absolutely -pardon the expression- scared sh*tless, perhaps you should make the first move. More likely than not, he will be glad you did. that will break the proverbial ice, allow you to reach another level of 'comfortable'.
  8. um silvermanic, i think the poster is a guy... also ..whoever said that drinking coffee stunts ur growth was full of doodoo cuz im 6'2"
  9. hey bud, ur only 14! ur got at least another good 5 years of growin in u. and dont feel discouraged either, guys tend to have late growth spurts.
  10. I think she is just trying to push it in your face, and you shouldnt let her get to you. he is ur ex, and u knw that, so just try to move on. i knw its hard as hell. but u gotta try. go hang out with friends n stuff. and NC works very well too...
  11. It wud definitely add to the stress that already exists in college/university. And if kids were to 'happen' then that wud be pretty damn hard to do...
  12. thanks a lot fer the info guys. ill relay all of it to my buddy...should clear his head a bit.
  13. diggitydog, i think u misunderstood my post. he has already told her he likes her. and she admits to liking him too. now this is where it gets screwed up. they both like each other, and have admitted to it to each other, but now the girl says that she is afraid about the friendship.
  14. First of all, this is actually a post that im writing for a friend of mine who happens to be peerin over my shoulder as i type. no really, its a friend...lol basically, they have been friends for a few years, but have become really good friends in the past 6-8 months. he developed a bigger liking for her, and so did she. now heres where it gets a bit complicated. He told her that he has feelings for her, and she said she likes him too but she is afraid to lose the friendship they have developed. And somehow she says she is not ready. she seems to be scared. now both these people have had bad experiences in the past with relationships, and they both know about each others experiences. he has told her many a time that she would not lose him as a friend. But he needs to know how to show her taht he will remain a friend. so heres the question. HOW does he show her that he can be a good friend and a good bf at the same time. btw, this guy im talkin about is a really good friend of mine, and i can vouch that he will definitely be a good bf to this girl.
  15. oh..ok... But i would have to agree with the other posters, she is probably just trying to move on. If u arent around...she cant talk to you, if she cant talk to u, she cant relapse...rite?
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