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Yeah, it does get frustrating. Believe me, I've been there. And I'm constantly in this situation. My girlfriend is always really busy with a million things at once so she's not online that much so IMing is out of the question. I can only talk to her at night around 10:00-10:30 because she's got practice from 5:00-8:00 and when she gets home she's got a million things to do so i end up talking to her for a couple minutes (not very long though ). And outside of school, I only get to see her about once every 3 months or so. During school, she's not in any of my classes so i see her for like 2 minutes in between classes and thats it. So i know how you feel.

Thanks for letting me know your opinions everyone. I was leaning towards the idea that it's implied but thats just me (and ShroudedSorrow24 and behind_these_eyes). I think I'm gonna ask her Friday.... Well, thank you again everyone. I'm off now since I gotta finish some homework. Chao!

I didn't know whether to put this in the "Dating" forum or the "Relationship" forum so I just chose "Dating." But anyways... My girlfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year (about a year and a month) and we're both 15 (soon to be 16). Anyways, our Homecoming Dance is coming up and we started talking about it last night and she kinda got upset that I hadn't asked her yet. The thing is, I don't like doing things like that over the phone and I hadn't realized Homecoming was only two weeks away and I've had A LOT on my mind lately so I kinda forgot about it. So here's my question and I'd really appreciate any of your opinions on this matter. If you and your significant other have been together for a while (and if you were/are still in high school) do you neccisarily have to ask/invite them to a dance or is it kind of implied that you want to go with him/her? Sorry if that doesn't make any sense and Thank You in advance.

I had my first kiss just last year. I was (and still am) 15. Like everyone else has said, don't worry too much 'bout it. You're only 12, you've got plenty of time (I know I'm not that much older than you but still). Just take things slowly, you don't need to rush into things and not be able to get out of them.

My girlfriend always kisses me on the neck, behind the ears and stuff like that at the perfect moment. At the unexpected moments too. It's a really good feeling and it's pretty much the same for either gender.

It's beautiful... And I agree with sayer7, you have a real talent with words.

Give it a little time man. You don't want to be rushing into things. Take time to get to know each other a little better than you already do. Like Kedaeus Sendre said, kisses aren't everything. Do some activities together, talk to her, stuff like that. But keep in mind that when you're talking to her, do pay attention. Prove that theory that "men never listen" wrong, it'll show that you're interested in more than the way she looks and you don't just want to get in her pants.

Thanks guys/gals for the advice. I've been making a mixed CD for her for our anniversary and I think I've got all the songs and everything down so I've got one gift down and I was already planning to get my special lady some roses. I'm still trying to figure out something else I could get her though... I want it to be something original, something that I've never done before (the roses and CD are exceptions). I've gotten her jewlery and stuffed animals before. I was kinda thinking of making her a book. Just a book of all our emails and notes and everything but I kinda want to get it done professionally and I'm not sure where I could get that done or how much it'd cost. As for the date itself, I think I might just ask her what she wants to do since it is our anniversary. Thanks again for the help.

Hi everyone. I'm new to this site but anyways... Well, here's my situation. I've been going out with my girlfriend for a while now. 11 months actually so my one year anniversary is coming up next month. I really like this girl so I don't want to do anything now to screw things up with her. Well, since our one year anniversary is coming up, that means I'm gonna have to get her a gift and take her out and the whole nine yards. I have no idea what to get her or where I should take her out for our date/celebration. I'm only 15 so I can't get a job yet so I don't have that much money on me. If you have any ideas on what I could get her and/or where I could take her out, please help me, I'd really appreciate it. Thanks everyone.