KimmieNO

It might help to compare notes with a girlfriend. A poster had a really good idea about masturbating and communicate that to your man. Do you have contractions? Do you get really wet? I always feel this great tingling warmth in my belly and a feeling of peace settle over me.

Nope on the STDs--checked that--it's only when the orgasms are really powerful--he feels weak afterwards. Other times, it's just fine. I guess it's unusual though.

Sometimes when my boyfriend and I make love he says that his penis hurts during orgasm. Usually when this happens there is a lot more semen than other times. Is this normal?

Lick and suck the clit, go from soft to very soft to hard and then back again. I love being fingered too, two fingers works great--and when he presses down on my pelvis his tongue and fingers just melt into me--what a gorgeous orgasm I get from that!

While it's true Woman on top is good for controlling what happens inside my body, I think if we're talking about a virgin, then Missionary is best--push in, get over the big deal, then when you're comfortable with each other's bodies, try woman on top. She'll love you for it.

If you fret too much about it you might have problems--too tense and he can't penetrate you. I lost my virginity to an older man, who deflowered me at the end of a very romantic night highlighted with lots of kissing and touching and some wine to help steady us. It was a really beautiful moment that hurt a bit as he pushed in and a little bit of surprise or something like that feeling another human being inside my body. There was a little blood, but nothing out of the ordinary. I took a bath the next morning, and I felt a dull kind of stabbing feeling (more like soreness) with the water in the tub. The next day that sore feeling didn't happen again, and it's been great ever since. Welcome to the club! P.S. the only protection you're missing now is a crash helmet--relax! Enjoy! Let us know how it went. KC

Pill isn't for everyone. Maybe a diaphragm? Why wouldn't you like a condom? You won't feel a difference.

I wish I knew how to reply and simulataneously start a new topic cuz that's what I should do--but what's cool about being tied up? Haven't tried it myself....

One of the best orgasms I ever had was when a boy made out with me in his room. He was wearing blue jeans and I was wearing cotton pants and I rubbed my clitoris rhythmically against the hard part of his jeans (not so much his hard on) that had the zipper in it. It helped of course that his hands were stuffed down the back of my pants and rubbed my buttocks. It was FAB!

Relax! Those dreams sound great! Fantasize about sex until UNTIL you're ready to try it for real. Then, once you've tried it, compare, contrast, adjust your dreams and your real life until it all fits together.

Well, I wouldn't gawk or stare in public--most girls can be discreet. There's a funny episode of Curb your enthusiasm about this very topic.

When is it ever hard to see when a guy is hard? The thing just suddenly appears out of nowhere distending his jeans. If his breathing is heavy you got 'em anyway....

I like it with my legs wide apart and the man in-between, just like missionary. Since dry humping is usually about just starting with a lover it's nice to face each other and kiss and all that!

Definitely Northernlights is right on! The only thing I would add is that if you do that, clean your hands before you get started and be very very gentle. If she grabs your hand, you're probably doing it too hard.

What happens if the guy doesn't have an erection? That would bother me! If I really like him, think he's mature and all (which is usually the case if he gets that far with me) then I make a point of noticing what's happening with him.