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Has anyone tried Zestra or any other homeopathic ointments that supposedly increase female clitoral stimulation. I'd love to hear your reviews!!! link removed

I see my doc in two weeks and I'll ask her about Nuvaring. Do you insert it or does the doc? Has anyone tried a cervical cap or diaphragm?

So I came to this website in complete emotional pain about 2.5 years ago and now have found myself in a new, invigorating relationship. Yeah!!! Now the problem is condoms. I tried Yasmin for about a year awhile back and aside from it affecting me athletically (lower energy) and eating everything in site, it boosted my sex drive. In fact, I had my first wham bam orgasm on it, but I haven't touched Yasmin in a long time so I don't know if that was a freak situation. My doc said that he often prescribes Yas for those with low sex drive, but I've heard the opposite from my friends who are on it. Any others with opinions on it? The other options I've read about are diaphragms and cervical caps. So I would also like to hear from anyone who have used those. I figured those combined with withdrawel would ensure we don't have kids before we're ready. And before anyone suggests it, we've both had complete STD testing. Thanks for all/any advice and opinions.

I had that situation but it only worked because I also had a strong attraction to him and feelings. Look up oxytocin and you'll realize why it's a bad idea, but then again, i learned so much about my sexuality with this guy. Man, he was amazing!

Thanks you two for your support. It was something different with us. He was TOTALLY into me and wanted to have sex all the time. So it's hard to fathom. I've been through every emotion from start of the relationship now. I've matured a lot and understand the situation. I have a lot to learn though about people coming out of the closet. The ones I know had some indication - not into girls or flamboyant. He was emotionally available to me and see aforementioned. Before me, he pursued women, but always had bad luck with that. He is talking to me about it and stated that he has always fought same sex desires.

A couple of years ago, I went through a heart-wreching breakup. The guy was completely enamored with me, we were happy. We did have disagreements, mind you, but we were great together. Just days before, we discussed our future and he really wanted to progress things and we patted ourselves on the back for getting along really well and communicating so well. It was a weekend of PMS and stress that lead to an argument (no screaming, just voicing frustrations) and consequential breakup on his part. In my anger agreed, but quickly realized that I wanted him, but he completely cut me off and wouldn't talk to me for over a year. Even then, I kept things friendly and never asked why and at one point I got messages I perceived as friendly. Even months later, he hit on a friend of mine (he was not aware of the friendship). I was devastated and questioned myself of whether I could ever have an emotional bond like that again. I purposely avoided it because it was just too great to replace. He's gay now. I'm not kidding ... he's very gay and extremely happy and in a relationship that has lasted longer than any of his female relationships. I'm very bewildered. I'm supportive, yet frustrated that I spent all this time being wrecked and missing him. I know he experienced fear and frustration coming out, but ... I don't know what to say. Any similar experience? I need support. --> It just seemed appropriate

Man, sex in the shower, bath, hot tub, swimming pool is so unbelievably hot. However I will warn you though ... don't do it in a lake or river. I did that and it was a mistake. Granted, it was the best yet, doing so pushes the lake's bacteria into the vagina. I ended up with an infection and on "toxic" antibiotics.

I talked to a friend of mine who gets more play in one week than most of us in our lifetime. He said it has happened many times and mostly because he's hungry and his blood sugar is down. It makes sense because this was before breakfast and actually I do recall this happening before when he skipped dinner for dessert. He was able to recover himself though.

So I posted about my issue, now I want to discuss his ... we've had outstanding sex, he knows I love what he does and he loves doing it. we separated for awhile and reconciled, having beautiful, sweet sex. The next morning, I was ready for us to leave for the day's events, but he pulled me into bed for some lovin'. However, he went flat. We did what we could - he 'spanked' and then got me to do oral. Finally I said, "Hon, we'll have many opportunities to do this all day." Was this the right thing to do? We've kind of felt uncomfortable around each other and I want to initiate conversation with him about it, but would this undermine his manhood? Second of all, for someone who is young (early 30s) and has never done this before in the past year of our relationship, what could this mean?

Thanks. I'm not even 30 yet, but I remember being in my early 20s having sex more than bonobo monkeys without issues (and unlike those monkeys, with one wonderful guy). I just feel that I'm offending the guy when I say, "Can we use some lube?"

I'm noticing that as I get older (close to 30 now), that it's more difficult for me to stay lubed during sex. Thankfully, my guy recognizes this and gets his tongue involved to help with the lubing. I don't remember this happening when I was younger. What's going on?

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The chase and mystery are already over. I made the mistake awhile back of sleeping with someone first off. It is very refreshing to hear that a guy thinks that way. However, don't break your rule anymore or it will just get easier and easier to have those kinds of relationships. YOu don't owe her anything other than the truth that you can't pursue anything with her. don't hide, don't hope she'll just go away unless she does it already. Treat her with respect because that is what you'd want.

My guy keeps attempting it, but I won't let it happen. No friggen' way! Why the heck do heterosexual guys like that anyway? I've heard another hetero guy say before that he loves anal sex.

Bring lube the next time. I get similar pain when my bladder is full - certain positions poke it making it worse.