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  1. poetsheart
    Oh and Blender.. you are so right, anyone who wanted me back or anyone would make their intentions clear... It was so about him.... UGH!! Even on my birthday... Thankyou again... your post truly helped me..
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    Dearest Blender The time you took to reply to me means alot... thankyou. I also thankyou for your praise of me.... His text message was so about him... who says "It's important I don't stop caring", what is that? It was all about him and always has been, and then he signs it off with his initial... he probably only sent the text just to show that he was such a great guy... but I know the truth, infact so does he... It was cold and unemotional just like him. once again, all about him!!!! I don't think he'll contact me again though... I haven't responded to any text, even the one he "mistakenly" sent to my phone but for another woman with a similar name to mine.. at first I was going to as I thought it was the proper thing to do... but it only showed me that he's out there on the net, dating and doing whatever with girls, going out... it upset me so much but then I got over it. I came here for support, and I have learnt so much, when I found out he was on that internet dating site, I was so overwhelmed, I didn't know what to do and the wonderful loving people here like yourself supported me and helped me get through. Thankyou for saying my choice is inspiring, I only hope that it can be.. it's so hard... I have my moments, but all in all, I know any man who loved me would never have disrespected me so much. I know how you feel when you get that text thinking, maybe he does care, maybe he has feelings... but no, it was CLEARLY about him. Ugh... you are so right, and you get it!!!!
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    Hi Lysander... yep, I've made up my mind I'm not going to respond... not worth breaking over 7 months of nc for a message that was more about him than me... when I re-read it it said It's important that I never stop caring... what is that? It's all about him once again as per usual. There was no other intention in the text so thereforeeee, it's all clear, no response from me... It was always about him, always will be... Grrrr... he's a jerk.
  4. poetsheart
    Hi all, I didn't end up responding to him... I thought what for? He wasn't nice for all that time we were together... one measly text... a text doesn't mean anything, it's the actions that speak louder. Selfi honey.... staying true to nc.
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    need2beme, Thanks to you and Ellie for my birthday wishes... another year gone so fast You're right, what's to reply to? I just don't understand i'm so used to replying when someone wishes me a happy birthday.. but I've got to remember how he treated me... It probably would set me back.
  6. poetsheart
    Dear Cynical Growing up is never easy... we all have things that get us down... you are faced with this challenge now, but it's not always going to be that way.. please don't think of doing anything rash. Most people suffer acne/pimples at some stage of life, I'm not an expert buy maybe don't cleanse/wash your face so much.. I heard splashing with cold water helps the pores.. If a girl can't see how fantastic you are maybe she's not worth your time.. it will happen eventually when the right girl comes along and looks beyond what you see are your faults at the moment... Not everyone feels attractive everyday, everyone has something deep down that they don't like, do a poll here and you will see how many people reply. No-one is perfect. I dated a guy for a long time who had marked skin and i couldn't care less. It was him I liked and cared for at the time. He was a very popular guy because of his attitude... You are more than the outside and you've got to know that about yourself.. this isn't a forever thing, it's just how you're feeling now. Keep focused on within and pretty soon, the outside will follow your thoughts... Drink plenty of water, it's good for you, start to love yourself and you will see that life is amazing. Take care and good luck.
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    Ellie, SuperDave would say DON'T TEXT... I can hear him now.... Why does he do this? He knows it's going to bother me that's why, and I can't afford another set back... You're right once again, if I text just thanks, it will set me back... because his treatment of me was not ok.. I can't believe that I want to respond to him... but I know if I do, it will only lead to some heartache all over and I have come too far now to fall down again.. He should be busy with his internet girls anyway... oh what a joke!! I just need to get through my birthday and it should be all ok.
  8. poetsheart
    Hi Ellie honey I'm kind of confused... I want to txt something saying if you cared then why treat me so badly... but the text was in no way romantic, he didn't even say his full name just first initial with a x. It is important that I never stop caring? To whom is it important? I don't quite fully get what he's saying.. I'm just all confused now. Should I reply thanks? But I don't want him to think his treatment of me was ok.. because it wasn't.
  9. poetsheart
    Hi again to all my wonderful friends, I just received a birthday text from my ex... it was happy birthday, it's important I never stop caring.. take care his initial... I don't quite fully understand what that meant... That was it!!! I have been doing no contact for over 7 months now, nearly broke it not long ago... should I respond? I don't know how I feel... after seeing him on that internet dating site... I just don't know if I should respond or what? Should I just let it go, keep the nc? Have you been in this situtation? I would really appeciate some advice. Always P.H.
  10. poetsheart
    Dear selfi, Wow, you are in melb? How fantastic!! I am so thrilled that my thread has been able to help you, that it's been some sort of comfort in a way.... please know how difficult it was, I so know what you're going through.. I was so close... so close... my heart beats faster just thinking of it.. but If I can do it, you know you can!!!! I know how you feel, especially about those women... it makes my stomach turn, but you are better than this, you are better than them, don't give the ex the satisfaction of texting. Nc is truly about healing, and I know if I did text him I would have regressed. You can do it, stay with nc, don't give him the satisfaction!!!
  11. poetsheart
    Hi Goldfish... way to go!!!! I'm glad you didn't respond to him... and just to let you know, I didn't break my nc Freedom... you are also right!!! I know I have to make my own decisions, it's just that I was so emotional at the time, I didn't want to look back and regret the rash decision, that's why I posted... because I knew the best people would take me through this.. and I'm so glad I never ended up texting him because he would have just laughed in the end... in all other areas, I make my decisions... Seventh... so true my friend.. reading his add he was not the type of person I would want to date anyway. It just makes my stomach turn to see him there like that. I don't even know the guy who posted, he is so different. I feel for you and your ex, why isn't she listening to what you have to say? How frustrating for you. Silentalways - I do not even feel remotely interested in going on there and testing him or anything, as far as I'm concerned, I want to meet someone as it's intended to be, when the time is right and it's meant to be... I thank everyone who has contributed to this thread, it's helped me so much and continues to do so... I am so proud to say that I haven't broken no contact, and the thought of him on there, with all his pretence just makes me know that I am so much better off without him. Love to all, P.H
  12. poetsheart
    There is nothing wrong with you at all.. you have a nice smile, nice eyes and nose, like your hair colour .. you look well built... you are a cutie!! Be proud of who you are because there isn't anything wrong with you physically... a cute girl will come along soon and like you for who you are inside and on the outside... Good luck!!!
  13. poetsheart
    Dear Dreamer... I am so sorry that you have to go through the pain of having a broken heart... I know exactly what you're going through...I am still recovering... but you know what, If I can do it.... and remain with nc after what happened... believe me... you can, and I have been through the works... Good luck, keep in touch.
  14. poetsheart
    You know... I love you all Super Dave... you have helped me tremendously, you know that... still nc... I did it I think!!!
  15. poetsheart
    Thankyou healing... I would never have thought anyone would say I was strong... the compliment means so much... thankyou...
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