butterfly_chic578

i fool around with this guy but he has a girlfriend....... and i dont get him either cause he tells me that he likes me but then he goes off ,after he sees me, to his girlfriends house.... i like him too .. but i feel bad really bad and hes a better guy then dwain... ex bf..... i asked him about sex and he said whenever your ready hes a virgin too...... i dono what to do i dont want to break them up but i really like him HELP ME!!!

kay ive been here before just leave her alone...... confrount him with the things shes been says hes saying and if u feel hes lieing get rid of the creep im SURE u can do MUCH MUCH MUCH MUCH better then a scrub.......

ANYONE!!!

of course not hunny if ur not finacally stable then u sorta have to i mean he needs a good plave and if u dont feel like u could provid that then u have to i hope u feel better about ur descion cause i kno i would feel just like u but think about it if they have him for a year and then u save alot of money he can stay with u!!

My dad my grandma and my sister all want me to chage the way i look i mean yeah i not really happy bout it but it works i have a bf and all ( other problems with him in post "my boyfrineds wants to have sex and i dono what to do.....") but their always telling me "o no that makes u look fat" i hate it and my dad says (with real meaning to it) "u have to lose weight" and i always say y and he says (and i quote) "cause u have our family name and i dont want u to look like this" im happy with my apperance and they arnt they just wont accept me and i hate it. i felt great until my dad started to say stuff and im not all that big im just 139 i have chub and i know it but not alot. my sister who is 16 also acts the same way we get into fight it at then end its always "at least im not fat" i wish there was some quick easy way that doesnt take up much time to look better why do we have to be judged by apperence??? i get it at school too this guy (who happens to have the same name as me but in a boy way) Alex is always calling my fatty and it really pisses me off i am constanly in iss for hitting him and leaving a mark. i wish i would jst die i dont wanna commit suicide or anything but i want someone to hurt me i mean sometimes i sit there and wish that i would jsut for no reason go missing for a week just to make them feel bad..... i wanna move out ...... and i love my dreams where i get phyically hurt from people i dono cause it make me fells better when people hit me (is that werird or what?) but i wish that everyone would just leave me alone thats why i come to u my fellow people im hoping that yall can make me feel better bout my self.... somehow...

simlar thing my dad is very racest and my mom was to and very scary is that my mom died 5 years ago so i kno what kind of house hold u live in but i dono bout babys ........ i think that mabye u should jst tell then and just go with ur heart!!!! i mean wha else can work its what started all of this right?

GO FOR IT GURL!!! theres no rule on inner-office dating right? if u like and sure he likes u then go for it right................ tell me what happens

thank you guys u really helped but i really like him and i dont want to scare him off yall helped me to find a descion in my mind but i dont wanna be mean about it i kno its a big deal and all and we have thought all this through like what he would do if i had a baby and all but i dono if he will still wanna be with me and i wanna be with him i keep trying to get him to push the time back but he just wont its like hes benn planning this from the start and we havent even been going out for a week!!!! i mean am i screwed or what i feel so lonly without a bf and i dont kno y... i think mabye its cause i dont have a good home life but that a whole differnt story (or post lol) but i feel this void when i dont have a bf for som reason......... i need help im addicted to love

Dont do anything to hurt ur self anymore okay just think about it its not so bad people for sure love u and people would care if u die look around u and smile and if they smile back then that is reassurance cause if they smile back that means that u being around makes them happy...... so think of what ur doing to urself to ur futer and what u could be one day even if life is not so good now its for sure withh get better....... trust me it will love life energy fun live off it and please dont put urself in this place

okay this may be advise u may not want to take cause u wanna work it out..... but end it i mean if ur not happy and neither is she then whats the point?????? u sound really nice so im pretty sure u wont be alone for long girls like guys who act like this in love and dont kno what to do so u used to love her so gently tell her that u cant let her down.... but if u do what i say then make sure u get right back in the game cause a ton of girls would love to have u!!!!

my bf wants to have sex but not now like in 6 months and im still a virgin and im only 14 and ive already said mabye but i really dont wanna dont how do i tell him i dont want to??? or should i do it?

okay ive had this problem before just get alone with him and ask...... if your sure he wants to just go for it, i mean who could it hurt right??? just make sure hes ready. GOR FOR IT!!!! and tell me what happens lol.