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we are not all like that why do you girls have to be like that when you tell us that you will call us back but never do its like the never ending story by the way so I don't make you feel bad I am going through the same thing with my new girlfriend. Let's see what happens I might have to step in this whole thing and solve it lol right now the only thing that you could do is look at it and smile.

I would have to go with the previous poster depends on the person. I work out 5 days a week and use to take them but stopped becasue I was just not seeing any results. I read in a couple of books that protein shakes actually make your stomach shut down if you keep useing them for long periods of time. I never conformed that with my doctor but who knows. None of those weight lifting supplements have yet to been tested by the FDA. I would say just take some caution when you select one that you actually want to consume. One thing that you should consider is to stop by a Vitamin shop and pick yourself up a multivitamin not some Centrum crap but some good quality vitamins from like the Vitamin Shop or GNC. Hope this helped you a bit.

Hey guess what your not alone. I’m a guy and just recently started going out with my new girlfriend. We also new each other before as friends and did hang out and did the usual. To be honest with you I would say that I am in the same boat as you except for the sex part because we did not have sex yet. The only thing that would separate our situations from each other is that basically my girlfriend is at college and in a different state. She is only an hour away so the drive is not so bad but that’s not the problem. The problem is basically that she doesn’t like to communicate this is the main problem that I am having with her. I mean this girl can’t even spend 5min during the day to give me a call or even text me frankly I am getting feed up with this because the only thing that she has told me is that she is just crazy busy with school and that she has no time but then again she dose have time to go and see her friends and such. To cut the store short this whole thing makes me feel like she just doesn’t want anything to do with me. I thought about this for hours while I am working and when I am alone. I need to talk to her but how can you talk to someone who maybe picks up the phone for and tells you that they will call you back and never do. I hate to just email her and say how I feel because that’ s just not right . What I would like doing is seeing her face to face and see what kind of response I would get from her but most likely that wont happen because she says she is so busy. My advice to you is to just talk to your boyfriend because I have an idea how you feel and it totally sucks. If you do get to see him often then just talk to him while the two of you are alone and see what his response will be to the whole thing if he cares enough for you he will understand were your coming from. Hope it all works out for you good luck Tom.

thanks for the input guys ill see what happens

Im actually going throught the same thing myself I don't know what to do about it. I am trying to kind of play it off but the more that we don't talk the more I think about her its like if we don't talk it drives me crazy its something about her lol. I just hope that both of our situations work out for the better of the two of us.

Its not like I just meet this girl I knew her for over a year and just about 2 weeks ago we started going out. I don't think that she is shy because she already knows me lol I dunno I guess ill just give this all some time and see what happens anyone else has anything to add.

Well to cut the long story short just started going out with this new girl. I would say that we have been going out for about 2 weeks now but I am encountering one problem from her side. The problem is that she doesn’t really communicate well with me. What do I mean by that well basically when were not together she doesn’t really call or text until I send her a text myself. Its the same thing with the phone calls but that’s not even the weird part. When we are spending time together she always makes an effort to come by my house and have a little movie night just me and her together. She prefers this more then going out to the movies because this way we get to spend time together just the two of us without anyone interrupting us. We do hang out often and its always a blast I always make her smile and have a good time. I’m the kind of a guy who knows how to treat a lady. We do make out and kiss all the time and it always just feels right when it happens and I know that she enjoys it a lot because her arms always go around my neck and my body when were making out. We did not have sex yet but we were close to it last time that I was with her the only reason I would say it didn’t happen was cause people were bother us. We always hold each other while walking even if its like right there. I did ask her if she is more of a quiet person and dose not like to talk much and she said that not all the time but sometimes she could be quiet and that’s just the way she is. This is what she told me and then afterwards asked if that bothers me I just replied and said no. My question to you guys is this how can I get this girl to talk to me more I mean I don’t want to sound like a crazy man here but the more that I don’t talk to her is the more that I want to see her and spend some time with her or even just talk to her for a little. I’m not even asking for that much. To make things worst on top of everything she goes to school about an hour away. I’m willing to live with that because she seems like she is worth my time and my sacrifices. My father has a house up were she goes to school so I told her my little master plan how I would go down there after I would get out of work and then basically stay there during the weekend and if she was up for it she could spend the night with me at my fathers house. When she heard this she right away told me that she liked the idea with a smile on her face and couldn’t wait for it to actually happen. One last weird part about this whole little situation is that every night ever since she found out that I like her and that I care about her I have been getting a good night text from her. Now that we started going out and that we are much closer to each other she has been sending me good night messages such as good night babe xoxo and I miss you I always reply back and sometimes I send the good night messages first because I start work at 7am and I wake up at about 5am so I’m always out to bed earlier then she might be. Sorry that this was so long I greatly thank to anyone who takes their time and reads it.

Yup body language is a big thing I jsut started dating this new girl myself and we have come real close twice and it was about to happen but people kept bothering us lol. So were going to wait for a time when were both alone lol. From my personaly experience I would say just let it happen it worked for me when I was with my ex lol. Hope this all helps out.

Just think about it if you would not want something like this done to your girlfriend right. Well then if I was you I would not even do anything you could start being friends with her and just chat and maybe if a chance comes up you could get in on it.

I say that to girls that I am interested in. Personally I agree with the poster before me. I also say that he is interested but dose not know if you like him or if you are interested in him at all. I say give him a call sometime like he said lol and find out were that takes you. Good luck and I hope that everything works out for you.

I would say yes and no at the same time. This is only because it basically depends on how long you know her for and how long have you been talking to her. If I was in your shoes and was talking to her for about 1 to 3 months I would tell her something or even give her little hints so that she could figure something out by herself. Anyhow's I hope this helped you out a little. Good Luck! ! !

I would also say to forgot about this girl. Usually when I find out that a girl has a boyfriend I just stop talking to her (lo) because at that point there is just no reason for trying to get her anymore. Do you really think that she will break up with her boyfriend so she could start out fresh with you. The correct answear to that question is no. If I was you I would just forget about this girl and find someone else. Trust me from my experience it is the best choice that you could take for yourself. Anyways I hope this helped you out.

I for once prefer the to be in between lol.

I agree with this 100%. I myself had a situation that ended almost just like that. Sometime you need take a chance in order to find out what will happen without taking a chance you will never know what would this bring to you. I say go for it and see what happens. Hope some of our posts helped you out. For me I take life as it come. Taking chances has always brought happiness to my life in one way or another. Anyhow hope I helped you out somehow.