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  1. How much are your belongings worth? Do you think you’d be better off if you just left it with her and just ignored her? This sounds like a really volatile situation.
  2. LOL my ex said that ridiculous quote to me once and I quickly shut it down.
  3. It's truly amazing how everyone here has their own unique story and situation but at the core we are all experiencing the same thing. What you said is what I'd say to her too: "I wish you would have chosen me over him after everything we've been through."
  4. Wow you sound like my ex except my "controlling" behaviour is what she actually needed. I never cared about her outfits or whatever but my ex had no self discipline or control. I tried to get her to change. I tried to get her to take care of her body, work out (she's over-weight), eat sensibly, drink in moderation, not do drugs, read more, go to school, not spend money recklessly, etc. She pretended she wanted all that for herself it was a lie. I guess she too harbours resentment towards me like you harbour resentment towards your ex. Although to be fair, it seems like your ex wanted to change superficial things about you that didn't matter but the stuff I wanted her to change were actually important things. I guess you can't get into a relationship where you expect someone to change.
  5. You sound like my ex except she left me for another guy. Even though I uncovered so many of her lies post BU, I still want her. It's too bad she wasn't like you and just dumped me instead of cheating on me emotionally for weeks. She always wanted me to fight for her and I fought like crazy when she BU with me and then 2 months later. She's still "with" him and he's still giving her the run around and yet she won't give me another chance when I swore I would change and be better to her. I would be better if I was given another chance.
  6. I hate what you did to me. Even though our relationship was in constant turmoil, we did it for 2 years and we promised each other to never cheat. I had a foot out the door the for a large part of the relationship and I tried to end it many times but you kept begging me back and because I cared about you and didn't want you to hurt, I always let you back. I never dared to find a secured back up before trying to end it. I had cared about you enough not to do that. So what do you do? You beg me back and seduced me and I caved in. You also added the new guy onto your facebook around this time. You claimed not to have talked to him on there until about 2 weeks prior to ending it with me so I guess I believe you but how could you betray me like that. No matter how bad things would be, we were supposed to make sure the other person was ok. I always made sure you were ok. When push came to shove, you kicked me to the curb and spit on me. You said I didn't satisfy your needs emotionally. Well how could I have when you broke every single promise you made to me over the past 2 years? You promised to improve yourself, to become motivated, to get help for your issues. You didn't do anything. I hate you for what you did. I hate you for having sex with me when I showed up at your house in the middle of the night in tears after finding out about your betrayal. I tried to leave after I initiated. It was an empty gesture on my part but you begged me to have sex with you. Then you told me the next day that you were only using me because you were horny. I want to let go of this and move on. But it haunts me everyday. If you were so unhappy like I was, you should have ended it before making sure you had someone else. You owed me that much. You are a coward.
  7. Wow so many people in pain. I wish could all stop hurting but since that's not possible, the next best thing is that what we are feeling isn't abormal but is part of the human condition.
  8. whoa, minus the drinking problem, I treated my gf similar to how your gf cheated you. Sorry you had to go through all that.
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