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  1. Exactly!! You've hit the nail on the head. Its gotten to the point that I just want to avoid talking to him. We have really deep conversations but these innuendos are ruining everything. I know I should say something, but its gotten to the point where I feel like dumping the relationship without even bothering to say anything. Its too bad because we're really close friends and can tell each other anything. The other thing is that he talks to me about taking out other women (I really don't care if he does), but if I mention going out, he wants to know who I'm going out with. That's another annoying thing he does.
  2. Okay, as an example, sometimes I will give my friend dating tips. Because he gets too involved too fast (with the wrong kinds of women), I told him not to exchange bodily fluids (in other words, don't have sex too soon before you know the person). He'll say something like--"You want to exchange bodily fluids with me?", and I'll say NO, Don't exchange bodily fluids with women YOU don't know very well. This is a 'mild' example. As for my boyfriend, I'll ask him if he plans to be playful tonight--and he'll say Of course I intend to take your clothes off. But is this different because in this context he is my boyfriend? Does this make sense?
  3. Is it okay for a boyfriend (in a playful way) to talk that way as opposed to a friend?
  4. You're right. I know the comments are unacceptable and they do irritate me. Otherwise, he's an alright guy. When he makes these comments, I stop taking his calls sometimes, but then he keeps calling me and wants to know what I have been doing. I helped him with his ex-girlfriend who has a personality disorder. He helps me with my boyfriend problems. I was thinking to ask him if he respected me or not. If he said he did, I would ask him why then would he make these comments towards me? Is he trying to test the waters?
  5. Hi, I'm new here and have a problem with a good friend. He calls to talk a lot and every once in awhile, he'll make sexual innuendos which kind of annoy me but I just brush them off. Should I say something to him about it? I like him as a friend (I could possibly be interested in him) but these comments confuse me. Are they a sign of disrespect towards me? What should I do?
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