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well she is confused, and we are going to be takeing a break i will write her from basic but only cause i promised. so we get a 5 month break and we said we would talk again. she said she hopes nothing changes between us and if things keep going the way they were well end up back with each other.

hey guys, i am just want some adivce or something my x gf and i have been dateing for 4 years, we broke up once before because i was confused and wanted to expirnces something. my x and i broke up in march cause she was confused and had questions. needing to find herself, we spent soo much time fighting over nothing and she was working too much and was tired all the time and it got frushtrating. we end up talking again and become friends again. her x doesnt like this and she doesnt really care because we are just friends. shes been having problems with her boyfriend since then. shes says he accuses her cheatin on him with me and we havnt seen each other in months. shes been a wreck cause the guy doesnt trust her cause of his passed relationships. her bf and her fight over this contuneusly. she sad cause her bf wont trust her and that she is diffrent from his x's. he goes through all her stuff to see what shes been up. so this continues awhile and she comes to say good bye to me cause i am leaving for the military. he doesnt like that and he says i dont want you to ever see him again. which my x doesnt like cause we are best friends and weve been through alot together. we end up talking on the net and her wanting to see me again and tells me since her mind is set that she still loves me and alot of her feelings come out. she says she would like to see me again before i go so we end up going to the movies the fallowing day and afterwards we go to the park and talked for a few hours. we held each other and she broke down again and said she made a mistake and shes sorry that she hurt me. i told her thati did the samething to her before. but she wouldnt hear any of it. she said i love you still and of course i replied back. we end up going back home and talked somemore and kissed each other. i dunno what to think and i am sorry if its long. i do love this girl and we both agreed we cant get together yet. but what do you think i should do? was it right for me to kiss her? i dunno i just want to know what yall think.

hey guys just wanting some advice, my xgf and i have been talking alot latly, "she dumped me" im leaving for the military" and she calls me or makes first contact. we were together for 4 years and we broke up on a good note. she wanted to find her self and depend on her self emotionally. anyways shes got a #$@ boyfriend and there having problems cause he thinks shes cheating on him with me"were not" but they have been fighting for weeks now she says that i am not getting in the way and that he just has to except that were friends and i was wondering if it be right if i should just go away. allso shes been sick for 4 months with many many things she doesnt know why shes been so sick latly but i am thinking its stress or depression. we broke up 4 months ago can this be a cause? shes a great friend and i am still very much in love with her, and all i want her to be is happy but the way things are going now i question it. so any advice is at most appreciated

i dunno bro it seems like women like the thrill of a chaiseing after a guy. her seeing that your not interested could cause intrest in you. i dunno its a weird thing with some women i am expiranceing this myself.

omg dude that sounds like me allmost. what branch lol? i leave in july. i dunno bro depends on how strong your friendship is. it's really confusing subject both pros and cons. but you gotta asked your self whats more important. gotta go through pro's and con's. if your to afraid something will happen to your friendship you should disscuss it. and if you do decide i make some boundry rules.

i dunno lol i think its the excitement maybe the feel of control. or a pride thing lol.

hey guys little confused but just wanting some new info where shes at or what. okay anyways i liked this girl for awhile now we were going to get together and all that but her x that she is in love with came back to her. hes a real jerk and hits her and cheats on her. she gets tired of him and i am there for her when she needs me. She ends up cheating on him with me and shows me that this could lead to something. anyways her boyfriend and her broke up now and now she shows no intrest in me at all. like a whole diffrent relationship. is it cause shes in love with the guy and needs time to adjust? i dunno what to think of her right now. someone please inliten me what might be going through her head.

hi guys, i need some advice i am currently developing feelings for a girl i like, but shes to scared to act on a relationship with me cause shes worried well lose what well have now. yet we act more like a couple each day. kiss hold each other hold hands. go out all that good stuff. but what can i do? should i let things keep going the way there going? or should i stop and act like friends?

hey guys i need some help i really like this girl and she really likes me or did, we got close but i wasnt sure if i was ready to date her yet so i waited and i really do want to date her only now, she wants to stay friends cause shes really close to me and doesnt want to chance this. i do want to risk it but thats just me. we kiss and flirt and do all the things girl and boyfriends do. i am little confuesd if she wants to stay friends why is she still acting like she still wants more from us and then not lol? yes this sounds like a game. i dunno need some advice.

rofl not bad bro lol, i dont consider that a game other then a game plane i try it.

hey guys i am new to enote, and i am not sure if this is in the right forum. i am attracted to a girl and she is attracted to me but she has a boyfriend should i forget this girl or should i talk to her about this?