TOA

Well it is nearly 3 years since I posted my original question and since that time, about 18 months ago I was diagnosed with familial hypercholesterolaemia. It is a cholsterol disease which causes the usual problems. I am posting this now for others to learn about because it is a 1 in 500 chance of getting it. The disease is passed on from either your mother or father. Generally the only time it is discovered that a patient has it is by stroke or heart attack because there are no symptoms. I discovered I had it by simply getting a medical check up and most importantly a liver function test. I urge everyone to get this done, because without knowing I would never be on medication or making the adjustments I need to to try and live a normal life.

Lol you're all over the place! Yes it is sex, it is described as sexual penetration, sexual behaviour - it is sex! I'm unsure if you're male or female but you will never know if you don't try - and just stop if it hurts. People commenting about bleeding etc. don't know what they're talking about because not everyone bleeds! Give it a go, you never know!

It's a great new experience, I did it - I'm on the other side of the country and my friends told me before I left "we'll always be here" I've made a new life for myself and now they come and visit me! Enjoy it, think of everyone you've met in your new home - you never would have met them if you just stayed the same and in the same place all your life! You're not supposed to be in one spot forever - how boring!

The other day I went for a 2 run, oddly towards the end of the run my heart began to hurt - a weird pain I cannot describe. I'm really fit and active etc. going to the gym 5 times a week and running 2 times a week. Whats wrong with me?

You shouldn't feel stupid for giving it a go. "Don't die wondering" - at least you know it didn't work and that you gave it a crack. Move on, he's done so for the right reasons - so should you!

Stop planning so much dude. Just ask her to catch up for a drink.. or hang out or something, take it from there.

Guys just wondering (if anyone can help). Sometimes for no reason I get a weird pain in my chest, it's about 5cm down my body directly under the left nipple. If I just adjust myself it tends to go away, but today for the first time after running (as it was raining) to my car when I got inside my car the pain came about. I'm only 22 fit and healthy, is this normal or am I paranoid? Thanks, TOA

haha how cute! I recommend the secret one, but just peck him softly on the lips - don't go all out!

Avs, firstly for chicks - The big O. In my experience I have found women to orgasim by one of two ways. 1 - My penetration, by having sex - generally when she is on top. 2 - My stimulation, using your hands or mouth may work. So in saying this, it's all a matter of finding out which will get her there - also keeping in mind it is difficult to bring a girl to orgasim if she has never had one before, she too must learn about her body. As far as making the first time special, it's no big deal - take her to dinner, do your normal thing - no expectations, make that clear and make sure you're both comfortable. As far as you not having been with anyone and her having had sex previously, take that in your stride - be confident! Good luck. P.S Don't be affraid to use google to search for tips and hints, there is some relevant ones out there.

Hi all, A couple of times the last week I have woken with blood in my mouth - I haven't tasted it, I just notice it when I dispel the morning mouthal contents! I have no cuts in my mouth so I can only assume it's from my gums - anyone have any idea's why? I brush regularly!

G Hit the gym, depending on what program you do. ie: heavy lifts, short reps or light lifts multiple reps you'll notice what difference's it makes. Combine this with the right diet and you'll be fine. Cheers.

Hey all, Well my ex of nearly 2 years ago arrived back home from a holiday oversea's... Bang, she is contacting me once a week with silly little questions.. questions almost as if she is going out of her way to contact me.. I still cannot get over her - what do I do?! What do I say?! I haven't seen her in almost 18 months... Help!

Girls, How do you get a guy to talk to you when you're out? Do you look and smile at him? Do you bump him by accident? What do you do? What do girls think of a guy who approches them when they're with their friends in a group? Thanks.

Unsure what exactly you're on about there bud.

Girls, how important to you is the first person you slept with?