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Unblocking her is a bad idea, trust me if she has anything to hide she won't be posting it on a public facebook. I'm doing well man actually. I thought i'd be a mess. I came home from my final ever exam on Friday (which i aced) and i was deeply depressed and angry. You just ride it like a wave. I didn't do something stupid. I pretty much dream pt about her all night and than woke up on Saturday morning to a facebook status update from the guy shes seeing saying "Thankyou Universe!!". At that point it kind of clicked... he's an absolute fool. I got up and worked on my website and started browsing for jobs, went out with my friends and watched the Formula Renault race. And I feel ok... Despite the fact it hurts, I think that her seeing this guy has given me closure. I'm no longer a wreck wondering what she is or isn't doing and looking for clues. I know she's rebounded, I don't know how long it will last and it doesn't really matter. I would never take her back even if she came begging and I can honestly say that. I'm still really lonely but I look forward to meeting someone in the future, be it 6 months or a year. I still get that emotional feelings attachment thing, but I just think, shes not worth it. I thought I was dating down when we met and she sucked all my life force and dumped me for someone far inferior. Built up your self esteem, you can do better than those immature selfish b's

Stop holding a candle for her man, she disrespected you and rebounded. You don't have to hate her... but stop wishing her well.

werd ive occasionally being having these. No breakage of the NC yet mate?

You started dating another guy 3 weeks after we broke up I hate you, i'm never talking to you ever again

Yes i crumpled by 2 too. But i do agree. Im hoping the second time around its much easier.

We had 7 days and I stupidly broke the NC. (Well, I saw her at work and she initiated, but I broke the SMS no contact) I feel like an idiot all I made myself look was needy and pathetic. So i'm going back to Day 1 and want to stick by it this time =)

Hausser. Good man with the not texting her. Youre doing better than I did. I hope to be in your position in a few weeks =)

Fantastic thread mate. 1000 thankyous. I was having severe problem and falling into the pathetic 'begging' stage. I won't be doing this anymore. This really motivated me and when I feel down i'll read it. Thakyou.