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  1. alilbitworried
    Hi, all the above is right on. If you are in a serious relationship and you two really love each other, then size shouldn't matter. Good Luck in this matter, because their isn't any wrong or rights!
  2. alilbitworried
    Hi all..thanks for all the advice. He and I sat diwn last night and had a long talk. He says that his job is getting the best of him because he is taking on everyone elses load. Well I told him that was not my fault and I offered to go to work to help him lighten his load, but he didn't want that. So what's a girl to do? I'll tell ya..I just flat out explianed that I can not and would not take this, I also have stresses here too and I do not take them out on him. About the whole oral sex thing, he says that it would have been nice to have before he goes to work just to relieve some stress, and I can understand that. So today he is going to his boss and telling him that he needs some time, we all do. I think this was the best, and I got a huge I'm sorry and a great night, LOL Thanks again to all!
  3. alilbitworried
    Hi all I need some serious advice! My husband and I have been married for a little over 5 years and we have three children. OK, the problem is that he seems mad at me all the time. I am a stay at home mom, and my days get sorta crazy sometimes but I manage to stay sane and not take it out on him when he gets home but he is pissed off at the world when he walks in the door. He says that I am the one with the attitude problem, but I have not done anything. Just this morning he wakes up at 6:30 and wanting me to give him oral, I am still asleep at this time and NOT in the mood, and here he goes ranting and raving, and slaming doors and stomping! He didn't even tell me bye or that he loves me, like he usually does. I don't always get what I want, what makes him think he can? He throws it up in my face that he is the one that works so he should get the treatment, he says that my staying at home is so easy(I would like to see him do it). How can I get this thru his head that I have feelings too and that I want this maddness to stop? I am so sick of being a verbal punching bag!
  4. alilbitworried
    Thanks for all your great ideas.....I look forward to doing some of those! Again thanks for your help.
  5. alilbitworried
    Hi, I agree with the first comment. Yes, get her number and give the girl a call. Just tell her the truth! IT's the best way to go! Good Luck
  6. alilbitworried
    Hi, Just tell the other people that its just the two of you in the relationship and that if you wanted their input that you would ask for it. I have been thru the same problems in the past and some still are present today. It is going to cause you two to split if these other parties don't get out! Just if they call, ignore and so on. If you care for your current man, then stick with it regardless what anyone says or thinks. Good Luck Girl!
  7. alilbitworried
    Hi all! My husband and I are having our 5th wedding anniversary, this Monday. I am needing some suggestions on what to do for him that would be different and that he will remember. I have done everything these past years, like cooking dinner and eating by candle light, I have gave him gifts, etc. But I need some good suggestions on what else to do! I will take any and all! Thanks for helping!
  8. alilbitworried
    hi, it sounds like you are sorta regreting treating her the way you did. She I guess got sick of waiting around on you, and she was just wanting to settle down, but you kept blowing her off, right? Do you love her? It sounds like it. Tell her how you feel, just take the courage and pick up the phone or go to her and tell her. Has your thoughts changed about the whole settling down thing? Just tell her the truth...women aren't going to wait around for ever.
  9. alilbitworried
    hey do a lil kissing and licking on the neck and collar bone, and after sex, just lay there and cuddle, hey this has always worked for me. Good Luck and have fun!
  10. alilbitworried
    Hi, Tell him flat out, NO!!! It just sounds like he just has a crush on you, it will probably fly over in a little while, guys are like this. Do you have call block on your phone, if so block him. Just tell him if you see him again that he is sorta freaking you out! There is no point in having to put up with this. Good luck
  11. alilbitworried
    hi, yes there is hope if he is willing to work at it too. I have been in this same situation a few years ago, and we are married now. Yes, my husband and I are having problems, but who doesn't. Try to get him to sit down and talk to you, and see how each other feels. Be honest with him, and tell him that you want to know, honestly, how he feels. But by chance if he doesn't want to try it again, you can find someone that is ready for a loving relationship. I feel also that if he loves you like he said he did, then he wouldn't treat you the way he is. Hope this helped a little. Good Luck
  12. alilbitworried
    hi, I guess in your case the phrase" Absense makes the heart grow fonder", isn't true. You have just grown apart since she has left. It probably bothered you when she first left, and you missed her dearly. I agree I wouldn't break up over this. Look at her and try to remember what it is about her that made you feel so excited about her before, and go on that, she is still the same person, but the time apart you got sorta over her, hey it happens. I hope things work out, good luck.
  13. alilbitworried
    Hi, hun...do what is best for your child. Please really think about it long and hard before you do it. I agree with the other comment. Does he know about the possible arrangement? If so, how does he feel about it? I have a 6 year old and he knows when something is up, he is able to make a decision, that is whom he would rather live with. Gratefully in my case he is with me and not his father. But you are his mother and you have the last choice in what you think is best for your child. Good luck!
  14. alilbitworried
    hi, yes there are children in the home. No, he doesn't download it. I don't have any idea how long and how often he looks at it, I just know when I go to the store or out anywhere else, he hops on the computer and starts looking at it. When I return he shuts the computer down.....so he doesn't look at it when I am home, just only while I am out, or in the shower. I just think that I am not the only one that should have to change things around here, he does too.
  15. alilbitworried
    I AM NOT SAYING AT ALL THAT I WANT TO CHEAT!!! I AM TALKING ABOUT FINDING MYSELF AN OUTLET!! I AM NOT THAT LOW!!
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