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  1. thanx for the quick reply. but i'm wondering: what's with the spotting/streaks on the tampon? clearly, this is an indication that she's on her period, right? i don't understand how there'd only be blood towards the bottom (the string end) of the tampon and not the top ...is it possible to have a period while being pregnant...? ahh idkkkkk
  2. my girlfriend has been on the pill for a year now, but we have always had protected sex (lubricated with spermicide). anyway, her periods always start on monday and goes till friday. it's been that way virtually every single time. but it's been two days now and she still hasn't had her period yet. all she has are these really faint (but still clearly blood) marks on her otherwise clean tampon. there are faint streaks running down the tampon and some more developed spots of red towards where the string is. she's alarmed because she should be having fully saturated tampons and even cramps by now. it's been this way every single month for the past year. now cause of concern arises because she's been on antibiotics (erythromycin) recently for bronchitis and apparently this particular type of antibiotic can negatively act with the pill somehow。 further complicating all this is the fact that i entered her unprotected for the first time during the last three occasions we had sex for maybe about 2-3 min before properly putting the condom on. i was nowhere near close, but isn't there always a possibility to get pregnant with pre-ejaculate? my gf is particularly worried cause it hasn't started yet. but what are the chances, right? with the birth control, a physical barrier (condom), and spermicide... or am i just overly naive? she has been stressed out in a while, but her period has always been so punctual, it's a cause for concern. i swear, i'll never enter her unprotected ever again. i would do anything for her to be not pregnant. if not from the very immediate problem of having to tell our parents, we're both still in college with long careers in mind. and most certainly not financially independent or anything. ahhh help!!!
  3. well first of all, i don't reserve sex for marriage. and i didn't. currently, im in collgee and i have a girlfriend and we both were virgins when we had sex at 19. but nowadays, sex is taken for granted to the point that even pre-teens engage in sexual activities like its an everyday thing. i mean, when i was at that age, i was barely kissing with my first gf. now i har of this new generation having sex in elementry school bathrooms and what not and i think its sickening. first of all, i know its gonna sound pedophillic here, but bear with me here no one is developed, or shows barely, if any hint of secondary development until one reaches a teen. so i can not (and i certainly will not... awful, terrible) picture any two 11 yar olds having sex. i mean, just purely from a guy's point of view (and again, bear with me here), how could you even be aroused enough to engaged in such activity if the other party isn't even developed yet? that is sick, just the thought of it makes me think myself of a pedophile. and from a purely biological point of view, the necessary things that enable a female to reproduce aren't even in place yet in most girls when they're 11 or 12. i mean, at the most basic level, people have sex, like any animal, to reproduce. girls don't even get regular periods by 11 or 12. some girls don't even get regular periods by the time they turn 16 or so. now having sex before taht? that is just wrong. i mean, perhaps when one turns a teen, then it is right for one to start exploring one's body, i.e. by means of masturbation, but i most certainly wouldn't think about having sex until much later. i think of myself as a liberal when i say that i can see people having sex at 16. but any younger, no way. 16 is bare minimum. personnaly, i woulnd't have sex until 18 or so. i personnaly don't think anyone would be able to take the roles of a parent, given that the situation goes wrong, one turns 18 or so. can you even imagine a preteen pregnancy? is it even possible? what an awful thought. like i said earlier, i didn't wait till marriage either. personaly, i think its alright as long as two people are both mature enough to take up to the responcibility and if their bodies have matured just the same. i know SOME of you out there will disagree me on my views about premarital sex. BUT i BELIEVE that KIDS at 11-12 yars old should NOT be having sex of ANY form. and i hope MANY of you out there agree with me on THAT, at least.
  4. if you masturbate, the foreskin will gradually roll back, even when its not errect see, the flap is very loose and tahts why doctors arae able to remove it, but if you're sexually active it gets even more lose and flexible and retracts. so if you even masturbate, at all, it should roll back over time but theres a limit - and no, it doesn't hurt
  5. have you guys noticed that nowadays, younger and younger kids are engaged in more and more sexual activities? just to think how many people do what they do at such a young age (willfully, i mean) it sort of shocks me in a way. like having sex at 12-13 years old? or oral? crap, your organs are not even mature at that age to reproduce. i personnaly think its sick, perhaps its a new sexual revolution
  6. i don't really get it... haha sorry, but what does it mean, exactly is it an angry poem or a happy poem, im sort of lost sorry, i guess its just me
  7. as ironic as it sounds, im actually having a problem with my girlfriend because she is too nice. she's quite possibly the nicest person you could ever meet or hope to meet. she has an astounding personality and can just about get along with anyone within moments. i was attracted to her personality more than anything else (well, aside from looks, anyway), but now im starting to find that this "great" personality which i admired is actually starting to make me go insane. the thing is, she is so nice to everyone to the point that she has absolutely no reserve for me whatsoever. i'm starting to sound crazy and jealous here, but as her bf, i sort of want some sort of special attention or something. it drives me absolutely nuts, because she treats everyone the same too. and the lack of display of affection doesn't help either. she's definitely not a flirty-type... actually, she doesn't flirt at all. she's an angel. but this drives me absolutely insane, cause i don't feel any different from rest of her friends. to emphasize my point here, she won't even hold hands or hug me unless i am the one to initiate it. hell, we've been dating for 4 months now and have kissed once, if that at all is relevent (i'm well into high school, btw, not some jr-high kiddy talk here...). im starting to feel really insecure about her now, because she doesn't flirt, doesn't show any sign of affection and treats everyone, needless to say other guys, the same. i am allowed to feel this way, right? or am i just going insane? ahh please help. i don't know what to do. i wanna approach her with this but i don't even know how i'd do it. i was gonna go with "how do you think our relationship is farring?" i like her much and maybe she's not interested in me anymore? am i reading too deep into things? especially even more so now, with the summer coming up and everything, i feel even more insecure because im gonna be gone for most of summer and ahhh idk, i just feel like a total wreck. i don't know what to do. please, any help or feedback would be great. thanks in advance-
  8. lets face it, looks ARE important for any realtionship to start. i don't want to sound shallow, but its true; one must be attracted to one another before anything to occur. so i ask you guys in this thread, what do you guys like to look for in the opposite sex? (in terms of looks, i mean) i prefer dark haired brunettes over blondes. i like semi-curly, wavy, flowing hair, at about semi-long, sholder length. as for features, i like the girls with very defined features, such as the eyes. i think the first things i notice in a girl is her eyes and her hair. then her smile... tell me what you guys think-
  9. yea thats true. attraction is key. its a catalyst of any sort of relationship, so looks DO matter. other then that, personality and intelligence comes before anything. other factors include integrity, honesty, independence, and she must be reserved, too. i prefer flirty and sporty types, but thesee are all trivial compared to the qualities i listed above. basically, a good looking, intelligent and a nice girl, who respects me as much as i respect her that would be willing to share a long relationship with me.
  10. i hate to repeat what so many have said before, but attraction is key in any relationship lets face it, noone is willing to go and LOOK specifically for an ugly person. i mean, would you, if you had a choice of having sex with ANYONE int he WHOLE WORLD, pick the ugliest person you can find? the thing is, you have to be attracted in some way - weather it be looks, personality, intelligence, bank account, social status, or whatever - to have an inital catylyst for any relationship to work. i KNOW some girls are gonna reply and say otherwise, but most often then not - more like 95% of the time, actually - looks are one of the first things considered. other things count, yes, but you have to be attracted somehow to the person of the opposite sex - or the same sex, even - for anything to begin. looks is like the preliminary checklist, if you will. i mean its not like you are going to go out of your way and date the ugliest girl you can find. rather, its more like the exact opposite... human nature, as i see it...
  11. is there such a thing as liking a girl too much? i have a gf now, and we just started dating. and although she's not my first gf, i have never felt this way about her before. im only 17, but i don't think this is jsut a "crush."" it can't be, my feelings for her surpasses anything i've ever had before, including my past gfs. i think about her every day, 24/7. so, back to my original quesiton: is there such a thing as liking a girl too much? i don't want to findmyself liking her more then she likes me cause im afraid i might be deeply hurt. i care about her so much, i wonder if she likes me just as much? idk what to do, someone please help-
  12. i'm a trackie, i do 400 or so mo-wed-fri. i got pretty good abs. trick is doing them right, targeting those specific muscle groups as i noted above. yes, they sound pansy, but it works. focus on specific muscle groups and tire them out. you build muscle by forcing it to rip and re-build again. but do it every day and you'll lose muscle mass cause your muscles need time to recover. btw, those "knee things" are called "chinnies." you do a bicycle motion with your feet while doing crunches. if you're not...overly obese...you should start seeing results within a month. maybe get hardened or soemthing within a month-month and a half. but if you're looking for athletes' abs, the defined ones, i'd say at least 6 months of heavy training. depends on the body tho. if you're skinny, it'll show more and quicker.
  13. instead of sit-ups, do crunches. they sound pansy, i know, but it actually does more for your abs because it targets the muscle groups more doirectly. to do a crunch, you have your knnes bent like you would do a situp, but your shoulder blades never come up more then 6 inches off the floor but always at least 2 inches off the ground. your neck has to be stiff, and you have to look up at the cieling at all times for this to work. work in sets, like 30 a set, then wait 3 minutes before another set. why 3 minutes? because in 3 minutes time, you get as much atp as possible to regenerate (about 95%) so its the best, most eficeint cool down time between reps. and don't do them every day, your muscles need time to repair itself. what you're actually doing by working out is you're ripping muscle and making it to rebuild. if you do it everyday, you will actually LOSE muscle mass, becuase you're constantly ripping them and you're not giving it enough rest. yea, so do mon-wed-fri days, and give sunday an extra rest. btw, i suggest you do pectorals (chest) too, abs really aren't much without a solid chest. a good idea is to do pushups on tues-thurs-sat so you get a nice even workout. just remember, quantity isn't key here, its quality. so go for quality crunches instead of doing 1000 situps everyday, cause you won't get anywhere if you do that.
  14. say when "grinding" on the dance floor or whatever, if a guy gets a boner, can you girls feel it? i mean the dancing that goes on nowadays, with the girls' ass on the guys' crotch and hands going all over, i think its understandable to get a boner. if i, myself, can feel it stiffen up and feel the pressure against my leg, would she be able to feel it as well? if such is the case, what would be igoing through n her mind?would she be embrassed? or freaked out? and if such is the case, as a guy, should i ignore it and keep dancing with her? and when you girls get "wet," like how much is the "wetness"? is it just barely noticeable or what? and other then that and nipples getting harder, are there any other visual ques that signal a girls' arousal?
  15. how can you tell if a girl's feeling horny? like we guys get and pop boners and wahtnot, but what's a girl's sexual respone when aroused? just wondering, thanks-
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