Sweets4u42

Well, my parents got divorced last May, a little less than a year and a half ago. Both of them have found someone new. Since June, my mom has made me go to a psychotherapist because she thought that i wasn't telling her everything and i was keeping all my feelings in. While there, it was discovered that i had a type of bipolar disorder, which apparently runs in the family. I'm also in a long term relationship. And although it might now seem like much, everything is just hitting so hard right now. Both my parents are trying to encorporate their new partners into my life. I didn't mind it at first, but now, it just adds on to the other pressures in my life. With my boyfriend; I've been trying to deal with my disorder, and I don't think he sees how much it affects me. He also denies that i have it, which you would guess doesn't help. I don't feel like i have a grip on anything in my life. My boyfriend and my school sport are the two driving forces that keep me from freaking out and ending it all. Just a little bit of rambling, and it probably won't do much good, but I just wanted to get it out there and off my chest. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I can see from both points of view, but i do think that she is being a little harsh saying she hates you and whatnot. Hey..that's a female for ya

Just make sure it doesn't happen too much

Haha thanks..guess thats a big ego boost

I definitely think she still has feelings for you, and when she brings up her new boyfriend, she is trying ot make you really jealous, and just hurt you even more. I wouldn't let it get to you, although she may seem nice, think9ing about it too much will jsut give you a headache

Well I know the end can be a bit un-nerving, but eventually you will find someone else, and although you're feelings may inger for a little bit, it will eventaully get better.

Ok..so..Isn't it try that guys masterbate even more when their actually IN a relationship!? My boyfriend says he hasn't masturbated in a long time, and whenever he gets horny when i'm away, he never does anything 'with' himself; that he'll wait for me. Is that unnormal? I guess I'm just looking for guys who explain to me lol.

I really like it..it actually turns me more on too!

Yes, i love it. Once, when a guy first kissed me, he put his hand on my cheek, and slowly drew my face up to his, and it was heavenly. It was what make me fall for him. As with my hair, it doesn't really matter, any contact i think is good..unless the girl tell you to stop lol

ya i like that song

I think you should tell her almost everything that you wrote above. Such as how you want to re-build bridges and that you care about her and want to be with her, its the only direct and honest truth.

I agree with both the two above, but still, don't do anything to quickly..i tmight turn out that you had nothing to worry about in the end

Well...yes, girls are definitely emotional, and some just seem to be that way, always pretending like they are always right. If this bothers you, i would DEFINITELY talk with her about it. I did the same thing with my boyfriend, and every time he tries to make me feel bad, I always bring it up, telling him that it feels like he's trying to blame me and everything, and he usually sees it and were still working it out..i hope that helped

well..i dont think you sure worry about making it too obvious.. if you want her to remember you...then make it obvious and hopefully she wont remember you for just that, but still, try ot make it genuine

I agree...also, try not to be too super-ego, and try to talk about her most of the time, like you are genuinly interested. if she asks about you, give a short answer, but try to realte everything to her