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    the good news: they are definitely over. he hates her so much now. The best part was that I didn't even have to do a thing. He didn't even ask me to talk to her anymore so that was great. the bad news: he has a new prom date who he said he "might like" he wasn't really specific. They are just friends for now and some people are telling me that he is just saying this so I can get angry and jealous. If that is the case, its working extremely well. I think I hate her more than the last one. Maybe this is because I actually know who she is, and I'm friends with one of her really good friends. I don't know what to do I cant even stand to see her. Tomorrow I think I'm going to go to their homeroom (they are in the same one along with my new person so that will give me a reason to go in there), plus im friends with someone else in there. My friend and I told "someone else" that we would go talk to her tomorrow, so I hope it works out well and I don't blow up or give "new girl" evil glares. Any comments, questions, or advice?
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    he isnt asking me anymore..and i kind of just avoided the whole issue so it worked out and he said that he is still getting shut down by her so all the better for my situation. i was thinking of giving advice or something. like saying she is the one missing out on a nice person. just trying to be nice and stuff. im not sure though. anyone? lol
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    hey thanks, Wow I never even thought about driving them apart and getting blamed for that. He would definitely not want me back after that. I think Ill just say that she hasnt been on and that he could email her if he wanted. But am I supposed to be on his side or just give advice and not take any side? Im still a bit confused
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    hey woobiegirl, Thanks for the advice. I could still use some more though. I think I should try what you said though, but the thing is I already told him I would help out. Actually I said I would try helping or something like that. I'm not sure. If I didn't help out he could think that I still like him though hehe. Hmm maybe I could say that she hasnt been on and that he could try emailing her or something and that if she wanted to talk that she would. I just dont want to bring them back together. I was so happy when I found out that they were having problems. It seems kind of evil. I dont want to be mean either though. I dont know how I get myself into these things. It seems like I keep going online at the wrong times. I dunno. Any one if you have any advice please help me. ~Ems
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    Okay. My ex and his new girl got into some fights and now she isnt speaking to him anymore and they arent going to prom together..which is great for me but i do feel a bit bad for him. He keeps telling me that he is having problems and stuff like that so Ive been trying to help out as best as I can. But today he asked me if i wanted to help him out, and being the nice person i am i said ok. He gave me her sn, which i already had and told me to talk to her and ask what went wrong. He said he likes her and he doesnt want things to end like this. She doesnt even go online anymore though and i do not want to email her because that would just be too odd. I dont know what I'm supposed to say. I want to help him out but i dont want them to get back together. I was thinking of just being neutral and asking what went wrong but im not sure. I need advice really badly, so anyone that reads this please, please help me out. Thank you so much! ~Ems31
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    BINY, I am also in a similar situation as you. Very similar actually. I agree that you should try the no contact thing for a while. Also don't bring up your relationship and how much you want to get back with them. If they keep telling you the same things, it will just make you even more sad. After a while try contacting your ex. Dont talk about the relationship. Be nice to them and try to become friends with them. Thats about where I am now. We are becoming good friends. Although my ex is with someone else, he is becoming closer to me. Read the suggestions in strategy for getting back with your ex. That really helped me a lot. Well good luck, keep us posted. Ems31
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    My ex talks about his new "gf" to me all of the time. I don't really understand why. I don't even talk about my new guy unless he brings it up. Is he just being nice or what? Or is he trying to make me jealous im not really sure. Sometimes after he starts talking about her hes like oh you probably dont want to hear this. So i try to act like i dont care i just say oh thats ok or whatever. He just brings it up out of the blue too. I mean if we were talking about it, i dont think it would be quite as odd. Heres an example of the convo i just had with him: him: yeah my implied meaning comes home tomorrow me: oh cool me: implied meaning? him: well, we have discussed things and we are at that point where you know i would ask her "out" but she has had some bad experiences with committments so its implied that she is my gf, we just choose not to call one another that, although that is how i describe to most people me: oh i see him: hmm, im not sure if you really want to hear all of this, oops me: whatever He keeps bringing up the prom also. He said that we should dance together also. Is it possible that he could remember what we were like together after this or even miss me at all. hmm i have no clue lol. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much. ~Ems31
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    she wont talk

    Ems31 replied to alsan's topic in Dating Advice

    yeah she is def. shy. my bf broke up with me partly because of that reason yeah just give her time. talk to her about things that she likes or go somewhere with her and her friends trust me on that one it will def work. you will get to see how she really acts. you could also try talking to her about this. my ex only mentioned it but we never actually had a conversation about this. tell her you would like it if she was more open but let her know you will give her some time b/c she might not be fully comfortable yet
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    hey anyone have any advice on what to say to my ex i didnt get a chance to talk to him today but maybe tomorrow...any response would be great thanks
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    okay wow im happy!!!111 i just got an email from my ex: Hey there, i almost forgot to tell ya. Happy birthday !!!!!!! big ol 17 now you can go watch R rated movies, awesome!!!!!!!!. I'll come over a talk to you in the morning for a bit if your cool with that he signed it your friend ok so yea what am i supposed to talk about i havent talked to him face to face since the day he broke up with me.. i know being friends will be good at least for now i just want to make it seem liike i am actually able to speak to him a lot and stuff and i really need advice badly by probably 11:30 so if anyone reads this please help before i get off also should i try to look nice tomorrow? im thinking nice but not too nice but idk what to wear wow lol and my new guy didnt even mention my birthday either so yea lol let me know what to do please this would be greatly appreciated
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    yeah i agree. maybe you could just write the lyrics to get your thoughts out but not play them or anything. or you could try some other way of expressing yourself like poetry maybe. you just dont want to appear really needy or anything
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    wow are you serious? call him? i dunno. yeah i would probably cry of happiness if he did take me back too lol the thing is we didnt really talk on the phone much just for making plans and stuff so maybe instant message him then? but what should i talk about just like random stuff i guess i think that works
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    Hey thanks for the advice, any more is welcome though.. Yeah i should probably try to seem more busy than i actually am. I talk to him online and hes usually the one to stop talking. I guess i should give the new guy a try although a few days ago he got in a huge fight with my ex not about me..of course that would never happen lol but they def hate each other and their stupid guy pride or whatever made them keep saying really mean stuff about e/o i even read their convo it was pretty harsh. anyways my new guy was trying to make me pick a side to be on.. and i was like no def not this about u 2 not me at all. Last night he appologized for it and everything. He asked if i even wanted to be with him because i was really upset about that. So i said that i guess we could try it again.
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    Yeah i am in a sort of similar situation if you read my post.. The best advice i have to offer is to just hope for the best.. My ex found someone and then broke up with me. Im also seeing someone else now but i miss my ex like crazy and i really want him back. You should just use the no contact thing for a bit. I didnt really do that and we ended up getting into a fight with him. Now we are starting to become friends again which im hoping is a good sign. He said he wants to talk in person again but i have barely seen him so i couldnt talk to him. Once you guys are friends again he could realize all the good qualities you have. Also he will most likely open up to you more if you are friends and if he trusts you. Well good luck
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    yes that talking is always a good sign im gonna try that with my ex we had planned on it but i havent seen him except for a few seconds here and there
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