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CMS last won the day on September 28 2011

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  1. Day.... Somewhere past 10 months (its not important to me anymore) Keep on keeping on, guys, you can pull through this.
  2. Wow this thread is still going strong huh? thats impressive, NC for almost 5 months now, I lost count on the exact days and can honestly say I am 90% healed, you can all do it, stay strong, there is a light at the end of the tunnel
  3. Wow I was completely off on my interpretation on that line, lol. You are right, the only important person here is you. I firmly believe that we are going to become stronger and more confident from this experience, surely this journey sucked, but whatever can't kill you will only make you stronger. We will emerge from this ordeal triumphant.
  4. She texted me and wishing me a happy birthday in mid of May and to which I replied "thank you" and thats all the interaction we had. So I guess I am lucky in the sense that she respect me enough to let me heal in peace, for that I am grateful. All I know now is, that chapter of my life is over but I am excited to see how the new chapters are going to unfold.
  5. Destiny, it must have really sucked to have that happen to you, and its OK to have a little bit of hope because we are not human if we do not have hope, just do not let that hope drive you into doing something you will regret, but you are a strong girl so I do not have to worry about that. In my situation, it has been 11 weeks of NC, I made up my mind to move on about 1.5 months ago and even though I still do have a sliver of hope (to be really honest with myself), but that hope is fading slowly but surely and we are only getting stronger from this ordeal. You are right, acceptance is THE key! so keep on keeping on.
  6. damn barely stopped myself from reaching out today. Found out the ex is leaving to move to NY today and she has been on my mind ever since I found out that news yesterday, had a really strong urge to text and wish her the best of luck there but barely convinced myself that its not my job anymore. Back to NC I guess (almost 3 months and still counting)
  7. Be mindful of your emotional urges, identify the triggering condition so that you have more time to neutralizing those thoughts. Also it might be easier for yourself to not put yourself in those positions where you pressure him to give you a definite black and white answer, take it at face value that you are broken up and grieve what you had but eyeing towards moving on. Let go the break up, grieve for it and accept it, those steps helped me a lot.
  8. Somewhere past 2 months mark, lost count and am ok about it. I will not forget the 1 year that we spent together but I am looking forward to the future (new girl I met last week has potential, date 3 coming up soon), I can honestly say I wont be healing as quickly without NC.
  9. Best of luck kid. Keep on keeping on
  10. Very impressive and very happy for you, theKid, so much that I will overlook your Jeter avatar and Yankee fanboyism for now (go Sox) Anyway just want to wish you luck, you sir are inspirational to a lot of hurt people here.
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