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  1. Im on day 3 of NC, have broken NC a few times but this time really feels different... Ive really started to let go of her, I feel a hell of alot better about things....
  2. Ok so im on day 3 of no contact and im finding it really hard. ITs the weekend and so I no she will be going out etc. The last time I heard from her was yesterday moring, via txt. As for the NC, how much effort does the ex have to put in if they want you bk? if your ignoring there calls, txts, emails, how can they actually get u bk? My ex told me on wednesday that she loves misses n wants me bk but then acted totally different n started ignoring me in the evening This is soooo confusing
  3. You have made it this far... 39 days WOW Thats over a month..... you are doing sooo well... im a NC newbie... its been little over a day.... its hard.. shesh id love to just txt her bk... but NO.. we have to stay strong... Time is a healer, stay positive, keep your chin up and dont give up.
  4. Im on day 2 of NC, Woke up this morning n my ex has txt me saying "hope your ok xxx" Very distant txt, for someone that was only saying 2 days ago that she loved wanted n missed me... oh and that i was her soul mate n she wanted me back Roll on day 3 I think NC is a bit like giving up smoking or anyother addiction, the 1st week is hard but then it can only get easier... shame there isnt a "giving up ex patch" lol we would all be wearing one... I gave up smoking over 3yrs ago and have never looked back.... *waves goodbye to ex"
  5. Im on day 1 as well Have read alot of superdaves threads.... WOW Has helped me find my head again.....
  6. Thats a very nice poem Made me smile I have to say. Keep up the good work
  7. There are some things in life you cannot change, hair loss is one of them. However, you can work on feeling better inside. Dont try to change things that cannot be changed, work on the things that can.
  8. All relationships are based on trust.... If you trust your partner then Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind isnt really a problem. More often than not, a man in a relationship will not see that he is neglecting his partner by seeing his m8s and doing hobbies. Women often want to fill a void in there life... being in a relationship makes them feel safe and wanted... but when you fill the void with someone else you have to understand they also have a life of there own. The key to being happy is finding a way to fill the void without the need of a partner. Now.. Im not saying that you shouldnt have a partner you just need to find things in life that make you happy. Once you are happy in yourself and have filled the void with yourself, hobbies and social life (or what ever it may be) others will want to be apart of your life. BUT, relationships are about give and take, if your partner is spending more time with there mates and hobbies then maybe you need to tell them how you feel. Once you make your partner aware of what they are doing they can either change it or continue. Then you have a choice, are they really what you are looking for, do they really make you happy, do they have the commitment to make the relationship work. Dont give up on a relationship until you have given it a chance, give yourself a chance to see how you feel but also give your partner a chance
  9. "Everybody needs a little time away," I heard her say, "from each other." "Even lover's need a holiday far away from each other." Hold me now. It's hard for me to say I'm sorry. I just want you to stay. After all that we've been through, I will make it up to you. I promise to. And after all that's been said and done, You're just the part of me I can't let go. Couldn't stand to be kept away just for the day from your body. Wouldn't wanna be swept away, far away from the one that I love. Hold me now. It's hard for me to say I'm sorry. I just want you to know. Hold me now. I really want to tell you I'm sorry. I could never let you go. After all that we've been through, I will make it up to you. I promise to. And after all that's been said and done, You're just the part of me I can't let go. After all that we've been through, I will make it up to you. I promise to. You're gonna be the lucky one.
  10. Well really all you can do is be yourself. Now if you are friends then the friendship isnt worth loosing.... Although he is currently off limits you do not no what the future holds.
  11. Well I am unsure if you have read my post correctly... @ wot point did i say If you look @ my post you will see that I was stating a fact about problems women face when they grow, and not at any stage saying that not being able to orgasm was a serious problem. SLBG
  12. Hi ang3l2004, Thanks for your post. Its great to vent things, its better that you let it all out in a safe and understanding place. Well done for having the courage to post on this forum. Im sure that in time the feelings will change, the pain will fade and you will understand things better. Good Luck SLBG
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    Why are gurkins green ? LOL Welcome to enotalone..... slbg
  14. Hi hazlcha, Well this is gonna be of no help to you...... Sounds like a great adventure..... Just play it cool, I like the sound of getting her to come to your concert. Maybe you could contact her agent. Tell em bout the concert and the exposure she would get from it..... If your gonna do it, you gotta do it properly. Get the local press to come down. I dont no... just dont fake it... make it real. Even if you cannot meet her wot an adventure it would have been Good luck.. let me no what happens SLBG
  15. Hi angrybeaver, Well thats a tough question. Often when the time is right you will kiss. I wouldnt think about it too much or you will end up not kissing and the moment wont be real. Just play things cool, go with the flow and if you kiss you kiss. Dont over think things, there isnt a rule book to kissing, there are no instructions to love. Follow your heart and be true to yourself. Good luck SLBG
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