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  1. Hi swanton, There isn't really much you can do, she's with someone else now. It's time i think for you to start searching for someone new as well, you can't keep trying on something that your not going to get. It's always the way isn't it we always want something that were not allowed to have. The best thing to do is get over her as fast as possible (i know easier said than done) and get back into the swing of hanging out with mates and looking for another girl and once you've got someone special, you'll wonder what you saw in her. Your young and you still have your life ahead, there are going to be ups and downs and obsticles that your going to have to get over this is all part of life everyone goes through this. Enjoy yourself while you can and don't start worrying over relationships just yet, there's plenty of time for all of that later on. Hope this has helped you, all the best neo|seeker
  2. I agree with the other members, it's nothing to be a shamed or depressed about. Im 19/20 and still a virgin, and im going to stay one until im with someone i really love and that feels the same as me. Just let nature take it's course and you'll see that everything has it's time in place and it will happen, you just have to be patient and just go with the flow for now. Your still young, as i am so enjoy yourself why rush? , neo|seeker
  3. I agree i think that you should try talking to her, im in a similar situation where im having difficulties talking to a girl that i really like. I lack confidence and im a shy guy, but im trying to overcome my problems... slowly. I shouldn't worry too much about your pimples, go up and introduce yourself to her and ask her what she likes and what not (i'm giving advice, when i also need it but it's always the way isn't it). This is so typically me anyway i'd give it a shot, what's the worse that can happen (anyone seen that Dr Pepper advert, just wondering... lol). All the best too you neo|seeker
  4. I know that she's no beauty queen that has no imperfections. I know she's just a regular person like everyone else and has flaws just like everyone else. This is what i like about her she isn't that popular at college for all i know i could be the only one that finds her attractive, she's my type. I don't know really why im shy, i haven't had the best luck with girls (gf wise). I mean most of my course at college consists of girls so i have no problem talking to them, but i only seem to have this problem of what to do when it involves liking a girl. I have tried thinking of her as friend in order for me to overcome this problem but it doesn't seem to work. I don't know really i guess it's just me, i have asked my friends what they like about me and they say it's my sense of humor and my outlook on life. Thanks , neo|seeker
  5. Hi guys, After my previous post of liking my best friend who already has a bf isn't going to work and i've given up and just going to be good friends. But there was always another girl that i liked, i saw her today i said hi when we passed in the street. I couldn't really stop to talk because i was with my parents and you know how embarssing they can be so i just said hi to her. I could have talked to her, but i didn't she goes to the same college as me but she a course lower than me and doing something completely different too what im doing. I have been trying in college to get closer to her but it's just finding an excuse to talk to her. She with her friends most of the time and they are the type that like to gossip so they'd be around her poking their noses in if asked to speak to her. I've tried talk in mutual surroundings when im with some friends and she is but i don't seem to be any better. I lack confidence and im a real shy guy which doesn't help me, also i get depressed alot when things do go my way (which is always, but i don't show it so im always smile to cover up ). I just wish i had what my other friends have the "Thing" that im missing to attract her. She seems to have everything that im looking for in a gf e.g. looks, body and personality (she's perfect) but i don't know how she feels because again im to scared to make any sort of move. I could talk to her about her hobbies and what she likes but when im with her i can't say anything, why is this? How do you build the confidence to talk to girls that you like, i mean i have loads of girl friends (im not gay or anything) i just prefer the company of girls (more like i prefer the attention... lol 8) ). I have loads of girl friends and yet i can't talk to one girl that i like, how do i overcome this there has to be solution otherwise im going to be going crazy. Im not going to see her now until after easter, so if anyone has any tips on confidence building i have 2 weeks to practice. Any advice or tips would be great . Thanks, neo|seeker
  6. Thanks for the support also abcd1234, i am improving but it's just stupid little mistakes that i do. I know that i shouldn't do them but i do but nervous also play a large part in it so it doesn't help. I take some stuff called "Rescue Remedy" it's brilliant stuff to calm you down and seems to work sometimes but in the end it's me that taking the test and i just have to keep at it and im sure that i'll pass next time... by what my parents say i have to pass next time or their getting rid of the car that they bought me for when i passed. If i don't then you win some, you lose some i guess. Thanks again, neo|seeker
  7. Thanks for the support, i appreciate it i've only had 2 attempts but there has been an improvement so im happy about it, it's just my parents were a little disappointed but there slowly coming round. Now it's trying to find the money to pay for lessons again, because i cant keep relying on my parents for money this is why their lecturing me on getting a job which isn't easy. Thanks, neo|seeker
  8. Hi all, I had my second driving test today and failed again. I wasn't disapointed as such just annoyed more than anything else. Of course my parents were disappointed in me and have made me book another straight away. I know where im going wrong, it's just that i cant seem to improve myself. When i get into the car it's like im another person, my mind tends to wander which isn't always a good thing because i loose my consentration. I don't like being told what to do is another one of my problems, i have been to the doctor to see if there was anything wrong with me or if it's my consentration i've even been to have my eyes tested in-case it's my eyes. I have been under alot of stress lately , but my parents don't seem to see this again i suppose it's my fault because i don't tell them anything e.g. my problems and stuff. I just wish that i could pass for myself and too keep my parents happy (well to shut them up, moanig). I've also had to put up with them lecturing me about me trying to find a job for myself and it's not easy where i live to get a job, but it doesn't stop them from moaning. Well i hope i pass my next test which is the end of next month, you know what they 3rd times a charm \ . Thanks, neo|seeker
  9. How long has this problem been occurring? Has she thought about seeing her doctor, maybe he can shed some light on the problem it might been even treatable with antibiotics as such. If your both worried then i suggest you talk to her parents expalin what wrong or if you don't feel comfortable then i suggest going to see the doctor. Hope this helps neo|seeker
  10. Hi guys, Here's some to the story that i got today. Anyway i decided to send her a txt to see how she was and she told me that she wasn't doing that well. I asked her why and she told me that she had an argument with her bf (my mate) and they nearly spilt up but they didn't, but they were engaged but no they're not but their still together (in a way). Now just as im trying to think of her only as a friend this happens, is this a sign or just a coincidence that this has happened. Can anyone offer any advice please... neo|seeker
  11. I agree with avman, cysts are common these days with new technology and science rapidly growing it's helping alot of people so there's nothing to be worried about it's a simple enough operation. You can find plenty of information on the net on the procedures, have told your mother that your scared, prehaps talk about it with her or with some of your friends. As avman said "It's going to be fine" and that what i think also. neo|seeker
  12. She might be flirting with you as a way to open you up around her. If your not that confident and she knows that you like her then she's probably trying to make you feel comfortable around her and who knows what might happen. Get along together and having fun is a good sign as long as you have confidence you should be ok, even if she has reject others doesn't mean she going to do it to you, just take it slow and see how it goes with her you might be the one she's looking for. Best of luck neo|seeker
  13. Right... slow down there, your blowing off too much steam. She's broken up with her bf and it's only been a week, you shouldn't rush her into anything or get to excited as you've found out there can be complications when liking someone. If you value your friendship then you'll stay friends even though you like her, i've been in a similar situation and it doesn't help when you work yourself up and your expecting so much when really you have to break it down and understand that somethings will happen with time. So stay friends with her, don't ignore her or push her away it isn't the end of the world just take it easy and see how it goes. That's all you can really do... oh and don't beat yourself up about it, it only makes you feel worse and more depressed and it's not a good thing, believe me. Hope this has helped neo|seeker
  14. Im sorry to hear that you were abandoned. Unless you have something of the past to go by to try and find your parents or just your mother it's going to be difficult for you. Do your current foster parents / family know anything about your past or anything at all that might help you? Im sure organisations out there that help re-unite people and family, but as i said before unless you have a name or something to go by i don't think there's much chance... sorry . But it doesn't stop you from trying and i really hope you do find you parents or mother . Hope this has helped, neo|seeker
  15. As suggested before, body language is used by everyone whether we notice that were using it or not. Body language is probably one of the best ways of showing and intrest in any sex all you need to know is how to do it right, it's not that hard to learn you can search the net for information there's plenty out there. Other than that im not quite sure... i'd have to get back with you on that one. neo|seeker
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