Heartbroken30

Thought I'd bump this up as I have a success story! I play on a co-ed baseball team. And one of the girls on my team told me a couple months ago that her and her bf of 2 years broke up 2 months ago. They were living together. He broke up with her and he went with someone else shortly after. I could tell she was still heartbroken over it. She said it was a bad break up and she changed her phone # so that he can never contact her again. So it was 6 months since they've been broken up with total NC the whole time. Well at our game on Monday she told me that her Ex came into her work on Thursday night. He wanted forgiveness and wanted her back. She said she is not sure what to do as she doesn't want to get hurt again. He seemed really genuine and they have been texting since. I know she will take him back. So there you have it! When she was telling me about her break up before it seemed like a lost cause as in he is never coming back and they will never talk again as lots of things were said and done. But yet he came back 6 months later. I just wish my story ended one day like that. I told her about my situation as well and she said to just give him time, move on with your life as they don't realize and appreciate what they had until much later. As was in her case.

I'm not sure how true the story is...but they had a made for tv movie about Prince Williams and how he met Kate a few days before their wedding. He broke up with her because he wanted to live a single life and he felt like he needed space from her. They did do NC for 3 months until William realized he wanted her back and then did everything in his power to get her to talk to him. So yes they also did NC and from what they portrayed in the movie William wanted to call her a couple times but never did because he was scared. That goes to show that dumpers are sometimes scared to reach out because they know how much they have hurt the dumpee and are scared to be met with a lot of anger from the other side....so after a significant time apart I think there is nothing wrong with the dumpee making contact as long as you are able to talk to them properly without anger.