lost88

I met this guy named Jason not to long ago. I talked to him on the phone a few times and thought that he was really sweet so we decided to meet each other. Everything went real well and there was an instant attraction. He seemed like everything i wanted from a boyfriend and more. He was sweet, funny, cute, romantic, and caring. He just seemed to good to be true. I was very amazed and excited about how well we got along and how we just fit together. The only problem was that im moving in a week 3,000 miles from him. I made him aware that i was moving when we 1st talking talking to each other. Now everytime i ask him to hang out, hes doing something or to busy. Whenever i call sometimes no one picks up or hes busy doing something. Now hes hardly ever online so basically i hardly ever talk to him anymore. It seemed like everything was going so well. Why has he stopped talking to me? Did he start to develope feelings and me moving scared him away? Please give me advice on what i should do.

Yeah i think that hes tryin to make you jealous...He might be tryin to play you too and just get sum.. Ask him whats up with what he did. U need to talk to him and see if he likes you or not. Find out if he wants a relationship with you. good luck with Justin!

Since you and her live so far away i dont know why u would try to date her. id just try to be here friend for now. Maybe by gaining her friendship u can win her heart over. the whole lesbian thing is crazy. maybe she has been hurt by alot of guys in the past. she cant try to be a lesbian.. U are born that way or thats what i think.. its not somethin u learn or pick up. good luck

They wont disown you. Id talk to the school and tell them that u didnt know. then if that didnt work id talk to my parents. they need to accept that ur not perfect and wont ever be. They need to loosen up on u and understand ur not always goin to be the best. talk with them about it and tell them they put to much pressure on u

Oneday i was talking to this guy named Casey on the internet. I didnt know him very well but he was having some x girlfriend problems and told me to call him. I called him and we just clicked. He told me how his x girlfriend dumped him and treated him very badly. For the next couple of days he called me. I was starting to have feelings for him. I told him but he didnt say anythin he changed the subject. That friday we met and the following saturday we went to the movies. I had a really great time and from then on we starting "talking" I asked him why he didnt say anythin when i told him that i liked him. He said that he didnt want to tell me anything cause he thought that it was to soon and he didnt know if him and his x girlfriend was going to be gettin back together or not. About 2 weeks into our "talking" relationship he told me that he loved me. I have really strong feelings for him and i think i love him too. I told him but the problem is im scared of gettin hurt. Im scared that we started things off to fast and are going to end soon. He tells me that there is no way he and his xgirlfriend will get back together but i have heard that one for alot of other guys. We talked about being boyfriend and girlfriend and he says that he doesnt want to be right now. He said that he told himself that his next girlfriend he would fall in love with before he went out with her. I dont know if he was just lying or being truthful. I really care for him alot but im scared of gettin hurt like every other guy has done me. What should i do?

I have known this guy named Michael for a little over a year now. When i first met him i liked him alot but he didnt feel the same way for me. Over time we became pretty good friends and i started hanging out at his house alot. I started to have old feelings come back. My best friend and Michaels best friend were going out and just when things started to go really good for me and michael they broke up. We had just told each other that we liked each other and we were ready to start from there because of the break up with our friends i wouldnt beable to see Michael as often. We tried to work things out but again it ended in friendship. Well a few months later my best friend and Michaels best friend get back together and now i like Michael again. I told him how i felt but he doesnt want anything serious because he has been hurt so many times. I understand that but every other X girlfriend that he has had ended badly. He hates them now. Im scared that if me and Michael take things to the next level that we wont beable to be friends if things dont work out. I dont know what to do..if anyone knows any advice please write back...thank u..- lost88

Over the summer i met the sweetest guy. We started to hang out more often and talk more..He was so perfect. He made me feel like no other boy that i have ever known. The only problem is he is 6 years older then me. I love him so much and wish that we could be together. He tells me that when i get about 16 we can go out but i dont want to wait that long. Im scared that he will find someone else in 2 years. Hes away at college right now and i miss him so much. We hardly get to see each other or talk anymore. What should i do? I really love him and i have never felt this way for any guy before. If u have any advice please write me! Thanks

Yeah i think thats its okay if your 18 and she is 14. My best friend is 14 and she was goin out with an 18 year old and it lasted a year. If you really love the girl then it shouldnt matter the age. People might not accept that fact of yalls age but they will get over it. So go for it..

Me and my x boyfriend have been friends off and on since we have broken up. We have also been talking on and off since we have broken up. But almost everytime he saids that he doesnt want a girlfriend, after he says this things arent the same and we always stop talking and then he goes out with his other x girlfriend a few months later. Him and his other x girlfriend have been going out on and off for about 4 years now. He tells me that he doesnt want to be with her but he loves her and he gets back with her. Now me and him are talking again. He has changed so much and for the better. Hes not the same person that he use to be. He is off of drugs and has quit drinking. I still love him and he tells me that he loves me too, but i just need to know what to do? Should i just let things ride for a little while and see were we go? Im scared that he will break my heart once more..What should i do about him?

First of all if you doing over come being shy she will never know that u exist. After over coming being shy you need to become friends with her. And then maybe something more after that. I know its not easy being shy because im the same way,but if u really think for a second what is the worst thing she can do turn u down and you will be over it in a week..And even if she doesnt want to be boyfriend/girlfriend you will always have a firend.

i think that you should just be friend with her right now and not try to push her...I would wait until the boyfriend is totally out of the picture before tryin to make any moves..

i know how you feel..im 14 years old and im really in love with this 20 year old. Im not going to tell u not to see him anymore or to stop likin him like someone said to me when i asked for advice. All i can say is dont let anyone find out. Me and the guy i mess with just keep a relationship that no one knows about.. Im just waiting until i turn 16 so it can become public and u should do the same. If its met to be things will all work out i promise.!

Over the summer my boyfriend broke up with me. I was very much in love with him and it hurt me alot when he broke it off. I was going threw a very tough time and durning that time i started to talk with his best friend David. He help me understand why my x boyfriend broke up with me and helped me get over my x boyfriend. We started talking alot more often and made more efforts to talk to each other. We didnt just talk about my x boyfriend we talk about other things more on a friendship level. After talking to him constantly i finally told him what i had been feeling. I told him that i was starting to like him. He said he felt the same way. We have been talking now for about 4 months. We have had our ups and downs. When we 1st started talking things were going great. Then my x boyfriend tryed to hook back up with me. I gave into him which i know was wrong and cheated on David with Andrew (x boyfriend)..I thought that maybe me and Andrew could get back together but i know now that we couldnt. He just wanted me cause david did. I confussed to David all the things that happened. He wasnt upset at all..I thought that it was good that it didnt bother him but it bothered me because it didnt bother him. He doesnt seem to care about me as much as he did when i first told him i liked him. I feel like he is very inconsiderate and he does care for me. Everytime i ask him to come over he says he dont have a ride. He doesnt make an effort to see me anymore and its like he doesnt want us to still be talking..What should i do about David? If anyone has any advice please help me! Thanks so much!

I understand what your going through. If i was you i would just be friends with brad right now and over time you probably will become closer again and he will go back out with you. He is probably really hurt because you cant make up your mind. U go out with him and then you break up with him. Think of how he feels. The reason he only likes you as a friend is because you have hurt him so much.You should try calling him just as a friend for right now and see if he wants to go hang out somtime. And just see things from there.

Over summer i met the sweetest guy. We talked alot durning the summer and became good friends. I have feelings for him more then just friends. I have told him how i feel. He tells me that he likes me but we cant be together because of our age differences. We both like each other but sometimes i feel like he dont care for me like i do him. I always try to see when whenever he is in town from college. He tries to see me too but i just feel like i make more effort in it. We cant have a public relationship because he is 6 years older then me. He tells me that we can wait until im 16 but i feel like he will have forgotten about me and things wont be the same as they are now.I hardly get to see him anymore since he is away at college. I miss him so much and i wish i knew what to do. Should i just let what we have keep going? Or should i end it right now before i end up in a heartbreak. If anyone has any advice please email me back..Thanks!