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  1. Don't worry, it's not abnormal. People do cry in their sleep sometimes (I have before). Sometimes it's because you're having a bad dream. What you need to think about is this: does it mean anything? Was it perhaps just some random bad dream, or is there really an issue in your life about this guy David (do you have a crush on him?). But either way, it's not abnormal to cry in your sleep (unless it happens all the time).
  2. Hi everyone I've been seeing this really nice guy for about 2 months now and things are going really well. The only thing is that I've been burned in the past when I was dumped by someone I was in love with (it messed me up badly & took me ages to get over it) and I've been totally paranoid about being dumped ever since. How can I stop this from getting to me? Just when I feel like I'm falling in love with this new guy, I keep getting scared & freaking out at the thought of getting dumped again (even though the relationship is new and there's nothing at all wrong with us). I find I'm always saying really defensive things to myself, like "Don't get too close to him" or "watch out for the first sign of trouble and quickly end it in order to 'get in first' and dump him before he can dump me". I know that's a bit messed up & paranoid, but I can't help it. Has anyone ever experienced this before? I'm 25 now and I want to be able to have successful relationships and eventually settle down with someone. I'm scared I'll never let myself get close to someone
  3. This guy I've been seeing for a few weeks sent some awesome flowers to my work on Valentine's Day... they were really spectacular and would have been very expensive. It was so cool when the courier guy delivered them! Anyway, I feel really touched but would love to make it up to him somehow. I know I don't need to buy him a present, but I feel like I really should, for next time we go on a date. Does anyone have any ideas? We're still getting to know eachother so I'm not sure what he likes... what are some good gifts that most guys would like?
  4. That sounds unusual to always encounter guys of that length. Are they all of a particular height/ethnic group (I don't know if that means anything but it would be interesting to know!) Anyway, if you want to have a meaningful relationship with someone, I don't think penis size is an issue because there is PLENTY he can do to please you without having a large member! It's all about the effort a man is willing to put in (there are some well-endowed guys who are bad lovers, trust me). On the other hand, if you're not into a meaningful relationship and just want sex, then it's okay to want to sleep with guys who are well (or average) endowed. It's not being 'shallow', because if you're only into sex and that's what does it for you, so be it. Just make sure you don't hurt anyone's feelings by telling them they have a small you-know-what.
  5. I really wouldn't worry. The flu takes an enormous toll on your body, so what you describe isn't surprising.
  6. He hasn't called it off or anything, but when we were on our last date, he literally went from saying romantic things to me & talking about wanting to show me his home town to looking a bit mortified when I told him I was 25. He was like 'ohhhh...I...see...' and looked freaked out. If he's got an issue with it that's his loss, but I'm just interested in what others think. Is he being ridiculous or would other guys his age also respond that way?
  7. True, but for him it seems to be an issue (and I must say, the difference between 22 and 25 is greater than two people in their 30's)
  8. I'm not an expert, but it sounds like she might even have some mental illness or personality disorder. Do you think she needs help? If so, does she have other family memnbers who can help her (ie, her husband or own kids?). Maybe you should talk to them. Assuming she isn't mentally ill, I think you guys need to cut her out of your lives as much as possible. If you honestly feel that this email she sent you was 'just another one of her tricks', then it was right to delete it. You should only welcome her back if you really feel that she is turning over a new leaf. In a way, these family problems can be like troublesome lovers - you keep vowing not to contact them, but then when you do you get hurt again. Family members can be equally bad.
  9. I'm a 25 year-old female and I've started seeing a guy who is 22. He seemed to be really interested in me, until he found out how old I am. I know that 2 people of any ages can successfully go out (as long as they have the right personalities and interests, etc) but what do you guys generally think of this kind of age gap? There's no problem when the guy is older, but it seems to be 'less acceptable' in our society when the girl is a few years older
  10. Something's got to give. You can't get drunk every night forever - there's no way he'll be able to become a productive person as he grows older & more mature if he's still doing that. Not to mention the side effects for his health. I used to drink when I was younger but never actually appreciated alcohol (as an enjoyable social activity you do to unwind and in moderation) until I was about 22 or 23. It's sad to see kids getting wasted all the time.
  11. Sounds like a win-win situation - because it would stimulate both the guy and the girl. Yay!
  12. Yeah it usually takes a few weeks to kick in, so you should still use condoms for at least a month.
  13. It's okay to have friends who might have a 'limited' perspective. If you're someone who needs more to be stimulated, it's important to have a range of friends - some who are more stimulating, others less so. I also feel the same sometimes about my friends. They bug me because they only talk about a limited range of topics. But then, at the same time, there are times when I get fed up with really intellectual people and *love* my other friends, because there are times when you just want to hang out, have a good laugh and not be too serious about stuff
  14. If it makes you feel better, it's a really good sign that you have no desire to speak to your ex, and that you want this phase in your life to be over. This means you're sick of feeling this way, so hopefully you'll soon move on because you're reaching the natural end of this phase
  15. pip

    Excuses

    Hey everyone, ever found yourself looking for an excuse to contact your crush (by text, email, phone, etc)? What are some good ideas?
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