I have been dating my current girlfriend for almost nine months. I recently found an email from her to another guy. It was vague in specifics but most definitly had a sexual undertone, also, near the end of this lengthy email, she seemed to be offering herself to him.
Most of the email was in the guise of her telling him of a dream she had about him. The dream entailed his kissing her and words about keeping the kissing hidden because no one could know.
Near the end, the "offering herself" consisted of her claiming that he was a good kisser and and asks what might happen now that he has this information. It was also conspicuously signed with "love"
Conspicuous in that she writes a sentance about how she never signs things with love. Lastly it says that she will be thinking of him.
That's what happened. I confronted her and she claims to want to work this out and to have severed all ties to this guy. I have trouble believing that much because she (after alot of prodding) admitted to have been keeping this guy a secret friend for over a month. She claims not to have acted on these dreams/fantasies.
She is home from college on weekends and is on break this week. You might think that is good, but he lives close to her house. I can't help but think that when she claims to be out with her family or such, that she is secretly meeting with him.
Any questions about the situation just ask. Sorry this post is so long.
Thanks