MelodyCalls

I'd think potential causes are: pill, diet and exercise. When my g/f went on the pill, it completely destroyed her libido. It wasn't a good time for us, but once she was off it things returned to normal.

I knew my girlfriend for two years before meeting her, which helped a lot because we got to know each other really well. I wouldn't meet so soon, just to be on the safe side. I know nobody wants to think the person they're talking to could be dangerous, but it's better to be safe than sorry. I'm sure if he is truly interested in persuing something with you then he'll understand. If you do decide to meet him, take registered's advice and bring someone along.

I've stripped for my girlfriend, but it was more for a joke than anything else. It was still fun. I always thought men were more turned on by visual things than women, so it was more exciting for a man to see a naked woman than vice-versa. I always thought naked men look funny too.

Like most things in a relationship, it's entirely up to you to decide if something is too soon or not. Would you be comfortable talking dirty to your boyfriend? As for actually talking dirty, I've never done it so I can't really help. Just remember to go at your own pace, and don't worry about what your boyfriend will think if you don't want to do something. If he's a decent guy, he'll understand. Hope that helps.

10 days for me. I'm excited but also nervous - been nearly nine months since we last saw each other in the flesh (far too long), and it's starting to show. Hopefully two months together will repair the damage that has been done.

I study Software Engineering at Nottingham Trent university. I'm looking to get either a work permit visa, which is very hard because I don't have any work experience, or an internship with a US company. The latter is probaby better as I can stay for up to 18 months, and I'll get some excellent work experience so hopefully I'll have less trouble getting work elsewhere. What about you two? Have you decided which country you're going for yet? I think getting a visa and knowing you can be together will really be a boost to any relationship, and if you can get over that hurdle you can do pretty much anything Zimetra The first time I went to see my girlfriend, I couldn't remember her exact address for US customs so I got sent to a little room with armed police for an hour, and then get interviewed. Luckily I had her cell phone number so they could ring her and get her address, and I only just got to my plane in time (I ran the length of one of Atlanta's terminals. That's a long way). Personally I'm quite scared of missing a flight, so I'm always at the airport two hours early (at least).

Wear what you feel confident in, even if you're not sure it's what they're looking for. It'll help you feel confident during the interview, and will do you more good than wearing what they want. Alternatively, make sure your entire outfit is purchased from Old Navy.

Lucid dreaming is something I've tried to do for the past month without much success, most likely due to my highly irregular sleep pattern at the moment (stupid uni). From link removed[/i] I hear, Lucid Dreaming is just like being awake, only with the advantage that you can do some pretty strange things. It can also be used to help solve problems, and time loses all meaning inside the dream. It's not unknown for people to experience huge expanses of time within a single dream. Weird stuff. There's a couple of sites around that teach you how to do it, but the basics are learning to remember your dreams and learning to recognise you're dreaming. I've done the first by keeping a dream diary using link removed[/i] Journal, and found that my ability to remember dreams has improved quite a bit. Hopefully with a bit more practice I'll be able to have a lucid dream. Hope that helps get you started. Edit: A few sites I've used link removed link removed link removed LD4All is my favourite of the three.

Sometimes we have to make sacrifices for the things we want. You have to decide if moving for four years and the entailing family/work changes would be worth being with the person you love. If the love is good but the circumstances are bad, then try and change your circumstances. Perhaps try a year or two, just to make sure. Best of luck!

Hugging also makes you live longer, and helps people bond. I cuddle some of my friends, and hold hands with others. As long as you both know it's a sign of affection between friends, it won't get complicated.

My favourite break up song is "Summer Wind was always our song" by the Ataris. These break-up songs make sense again and i really wish they didn't sinatra's singing "summer wind" and i'm thinking of the night we met just one last time can i hear you say "you're my little boy i never want you to go away" where are you? please believe in me i'm not hanging up the phone 'till i hear you say "i love you i need you near" just give me one last chance and i'll never let you down again oh and what i wouldn't give just to kiss your lips again to hold your hand next to my heart wake-up with you in your apartment just one last time can i call you my sweetheart you're my best friend why do all good things come to an end where are you? please believe in me i'm not hanging up the phone 'till i hear you say "i love you i need you near" just give me one last chance i'll never let you down again ---- The lines "just one last time can i call you my sweetheart" always gets me

Depends on the type of brace for breakage. The "train track" braces can come off the tooth, but it doesn't hurt. I actually miss my braces. I used to like getting them tightened, it was always quite relaxing. I was still glad to have them removed though, simply because I wasn't allowed to chew gum when I had them. Two years without gum is a long time.

I'm afraid I'll have to mention the age thing. It's no secret that boys mature a lot later than girls do, so even at 13 you're probably more mature than your ex. So in this case age is more a factor for him than you. I wouldn't bother trying to get back with him, because if he believed someone else over you and acted this way, then he isn't worth bothering with.

That was a really thoughtful post Mermaid, thanks for taking the time to share it with us. They're all excellent points, and they're all things I aim for myself. I know couples who live in the same house who don't follow half of those tips! I have a few ideas to add as well: Make Stuff - This follows up on the "little things". I find making something personal really helps. Getting a card is always nice, but a hand-made one always has that extra special feel to it, plus you can get away with writing what you like on the front. Letters - It may be the internet age, but a handwritten letter is still one of the best things you can send, especially if you decide to make it nice and romantic. I especially like them because in twenty years time I'll be able to take them out of the box I keep them in and read them with my SO (hopefully my wife by then!), and remember how all the time apart made our relationship so strong. More little things - My girlfriend sent me a little card scented with her perfume, and so I returned the favour with some of my aftershave. I sometimes take some daft pictures on the camera and email them out of the blue, that always seems to go down well. Pictures include me dressed in full suit and bow tie, pulling my best James Bond pose with a squirt gun she bought me. I also dressed as a ninja with my brother, and sent pictures of the snowman we made (sadly we didn't make the snowman whilst dressed as ninjas. Perhaps another time). I'm sure I'll think of more later.