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  1. I know where you guys (and girls) are coming from too. I am a very quiet person (although it was really bad a few years ago it's alot better now) and shy most of the time especially when guys are involved, but I put that down to my personality. I still try and make conversation, even if I don't know what to say. I haven't been asked out for 5 years and have had 3 boyfriends, but that was baby stuff. I have asked out guys recently but only one seemed interested but stood me up. I don't have too many friends but I don't mind too much. I don't even know what to look for when a guy likes me, I am starting to think more and more that they like those girls who wear tight jeans and tight tops, that's not my style so what so I do? I don't go out with just anyone, I am not picky I just don't go for the bad boys, jerks, players etc or smokers for that matter. I like nice guys who don't feel like they have to be someone they are not. I am not ugly, I have gotten past that it was just me who thought that but hopefully I will meet someone who appriciates quiet girls.
  2. I occasionally dye my har purple (not too bright though). Mynatural hair colour is dark brown. I do it because it brings out the green in my eyes and to make people smile. I would NEVER dye my hair blonde though, why would I want to look like everyone else? I don't really do it to attract guys.
  3. Hey, what's the other 10%? Is it because he is bored? 8) There must be a million other threads on body language but anyways... As you probably know, females aren't as obvious when they are checking out a male. They mostly look at the face, chest, groin area etc etc. If they are say 13-15 years old they giggle with their friends and then her friends also look at the guy out of curiosity. They don't stare like males do but they look, look away then look again (and if that ends with a smile, pssst she likes you!!!!). Some can also go bright red but mostly guys do that. Remember that every girl is different, some are subtle and some are not so subtle.
  4. I used to have that problem a couple of years ago, you see I hated my nose so much I thought (and still sometimes think) it has a weird shape even though no one close to me commented on it I thought everyone who looked at me when I was out thought I was ugly. I was even going to have surgery on it but decided not to because I got too stressed. I have gone past that stage and I am on my way to having more confidence and not caring what people think about what I look like. Also what you see in the mirror (even though personality does count equally in addition to looks) isn't what some girls (who are attracted to you) see. They probably think that you are the cutest guy they ever saw, you might be surprised when you meet the right girl.
  5. I know it is a simple answer but the more you get out there and initiate conversation the easier it will get thus your cinfudence will go up and I am not just talking about meeting girls, just make conversation with everyone if you like then see what happens.
  6. I like a shy guy who isn't loud (obviously) but talks and is willing to make a conversation, but is still confident. In short, over bearing guys are a turn off and intimidate me.
  7. Hey, Don't think yourself as a wuss because that is a REALLY good sign that if you made her nervous that means she is really interested I should know, I was shaking SO hard when talking to my crush and I couldn't talk! Good luck with this girl she sounds really special.
  8. Hey nice responses, I know the truth hurts and I have accepted that, if we were meant to go out we will eventually. I think he is too chicken to call me, which is a poor excuse because I was scared when I was asking him out but I did it anyway. I am just gonna move on until: a) He calls or b) I come into contact with him.
  9. You do have a yearbook don't you? Well why don't you look in that and see what her name is, once you do that go up to her and mention an award that you know she received that was mentioned in the yearbook and act like you are interested in that field, I am sure she will be very flattered that you went to that effort to find out more about her.
  10. I guess that phrase would mean different things to different girls maybe they are not ready for a relationship, or just got out of one or what not. Keep trying you must be very brave to ask out all these girls
  11. I don't know if it was the right number since I don't know my mobile number off by heart yet and my writing was terrible, if I see him on my bus and he looks at me, like he is still interested, what should I do?
  12. Hey everyone, A few weeks ago I asked out this guy who I have liked for a very long time but never got the chance to ask him out, since he caught my bus and all, so I took the chance to ask him out. He got my mobile number and said he would ring and seemed interested but hasn't rung me back since, what's the deal? How long does it take for a guy to ring? I am feeling sad since I didn't expect him to get my number or anything he didn't have to at all it was his choice.
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