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  1. So when do you respond to them? Especially if it's like a year later and they're seeing someone. Do you just ignore ignore ignore untile they send a text saying "I'm single and I want you back?" I feel like you don't know when to respond to the little bs contacts.
  2. Day 38 or something. Having a bad day, have been feeling better recently though.
  3. I'm sorry I don't remember this - were you the dumper, Kate?
  4. Day 0 Sent her a happy birthday text: "Hey hope you're having a great day happy 25th birthday!" What's done is done, and it feels like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Now it's time to do for me and start moving on.
  5. Well today's the day. Day 18 NC and her birthday so I guess I'll be breaking NC to send her a text. I think it's the right thing to do in my situation but I hate to wipe away 18 days. Oh well, we'll see what happens.
  6. NC Day 14 Can't believe it's been 2 weeks already. Wish she'd call.
  7. Anyone else wake up in the middle of the night on Fridays and Saturdays wondering if their ex is in bed with someone else? I do and I can't get back to sleep thinking about it...
  8. Definitely keep us updated as to what happens!
  9. Haha you'll get through it Mark. NC day 13. Feeling bettterrr.
  10. What did she sway in her bday text to you and how did you respond?? Anyway - day 12 for me, feeling decent, but miss her friendship
  11. Day 11 - meh, still wake up feeling like crap.
  12. It's so weird that every source is different on when to initiate contact. I am of the opinion that if you want your ex back, you should go NC for a certain period of time, then IM or email them slowly, until you get back into some sort of contact with them. Then if you play it right, dinner, movies, etc, then you're back. Some sites say wait 2 weeks, the ebooks say 30 days, enotalone says never contact them until they contact you... It's just so frustrating that there really isn't a standard that is followed after NC. I would think logically that within a few months is the best opportunity bc your ex hasn't moved on yet in many cases, it's enough time to get over the initial anger, etc.
  13. Just a question - how many of you went strict NC right away and how many of you begged and stated your case? I begged and stated my case for about a month: you?
  14. Day 10 Feeling a lot more in control than before - I still see her online and wonder why she won't IM me when we are the only two on at 7 AM --- oh well hopefully soon.
  15. Sorry to hear bro - you'll do great in NC and be back on your feet in no time!
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