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  1. Generally S-corps never hold property because they have to come out of the S-corp at market value. Partnerships hold property.
  2. First, you do not set up LLCs with the IRS. You set up an LLC with your state. You will eventually file taxes with the IRS based on the entity you selected. An LLC can be a SMLLC - a single member which you will file on Schedule C of your individual tax return. Or and LLC can be a partnership(must have 2 or more people with the intention to set up a business for profit. Generally LLCs do not pay taxes and the income from the partnership flow up to its members. In order to provide asset protection, you should have a separate bank account for you LLC business - do not commingle with anything other than the business. Insurance is good to have (not my area of expertise. The LLC does not allow you to be gross negligent, so good to look into insurance. With a single member LLC you will not file a K-1, one partnerships do this
  3. Oh, I see. Apologies, I missed that. Well, do we know if Jay is interested in men?
  4. Yes they do. There is another word for it, its called Limerence. People fall hot and heavy almost to the point of obsession. Perhaps she is limerent.
  5. I am going to disagree with the others. I think he does like you, but is just a shy person. I have had guys approach me at the gym to chat with me or flirt. I decide I am not interested in them and thereafter totally avoid them so they don’t get any ideas. I will use equipment at the other side of the gym in order to avoid. The gym is a great place to meet people, but from what I have heard younger people don’t think it is as appropriate as older people. Is there a bar close to the gym that he may frequent? By meeting at bar by chance you could avoid asking him out. It would be a great place to strike up a more personal conversation. Or, are there any gym sponsored social events? These places would be far less pressure from a dating perspective to meet up than an actual date. Also, how old is Jay and how old are you? Maybe he is on dating apps and is not used to asking a woman out IRL.
  6. I’m just going to comment on the city itself, not your relationship. Montreal is a great city, especially in the summer. However, it is a “French first” city, so unless you speak French you may have difficulty finding a job if you can get a work visa. If you speak France French you should not have any issues as Quebecois French is a bit slang compared to France. Pros: Food is amazingly good, it is very cold in the winter and there is lots of snow, however, folks have learned to embrace the cold and have many fun winter activities. I went to an amazing meal at a sugar shack once, I believe it was Joe Beef who set-up an eating venue in the woods that was beyond amazing. People there are physically fit and ride speed bikes AKA the Tour de France type a lot. I recall 3 bike shop located on the corner of one intersection. There is a rich history in Montreal with religion and churches playing a main role in both history and architecture. Cons: it is very cold in the winter, like minus 30 Celsius. Your thighs will burn if you run in tights. You might find this unbearable and Montreal recently outlawed the use of wood burning fire places. You will find it difficult to make friends unless you are somewhat set-up there. The Quebecois have a unique sense of humor - you might want to watch Just for Laughs the French version with the hidden camera (don’t worry there are no words) to see if you can align with their jokes and slightly unusual ways. I’d say the hardest part will be the long winters, but that’s just me. Good luck with your decision.
  7. Sometime people simply change their minds. She might have been on the fence about you, but for whatever reason, she changed her mind. Maybe you freaked her out with the spilling of the guts event. You also deleted her number and admitted it to her. Personally, unless the attraction was really strong, I think you scared her away. I don’t want to be super critical here, but you sort of admitted you desperation to her. I don’t think she found this attractive. Just learn from this, never admit you are hopelessly in love with someone or that you (somewhat childishly) deleted their number.
  8. Dating apps are not for everyone. I was listening to podcast over the weekend and the author mentioned if they were successful, the apps would be bragging about their awesome statistics in actually meeting someone for more than just a hook-up. Make sense as they have a huge amount of statistical data. Can you allude to what you look like? It might be helpful.
  9. Hey Jibralta, I actually asked him that since I am not that into him anymore. I asked him he was dating anyone and he said: “no way, not into getting syphilis from incestuous NY people/women.” I have never caught him in a lie, so maybe this is true. And, to be fair, I have dated 3 men since him, so him dating other people would have been fine by me. My point here is that it’s OK to meet in bars, people have other things going on in their lives and it had little to do with him ‘not being into me.’ He was into himself and trying to save his job. Important to not find fault in ourselves when we have no idea what people are going through.
  10. Just wanted to follow up with this situation... This guy I wrote about contacted me on Thursday and we went out last night. Our first date was almost 5 months ago and I was kind of put off that I met someone, went on a date, had a scheduled surgery the next day and had to recover for about two weeks. While I was in recovery, he had to travel for work in another state and I was really lamenting that I had bad luck with timing/I liked him more than he like me, etc. I seriously moaned about this guy for at least a month to anyone who would listen. His company was acquired and he has been in NYC for almost 5 months, miserable as hell staying in hotels, dealing with crime, not able to eat healthy or work out and working very long hours. He really enjoyed our time together and felt it would have been pointless to message each other for the last few months when he had not idea when he would be coming back and thought we would just get angry/bored without an end date in sight. He messaged me within 24 hours of getting back in town. I kind of like someone else now, who also had to move out-of-town for work - many people have to go back now that the pandemic is over where I am located. The point is, we have no idea what is going on with people. Work stress can kill a (budding) relationship. I truly had given up on this guy, so was very surprised to hear from him and go on a date. Not sure where this will go since he is a few guys ago, but as a woman I feel it is silly to put a timeline on things, like if he doesn’t get back to me within a week, forget it. It’s ok to focus on other people, but we should not assume it had anything to do with us. Never gaslight yourself and assume he was not interested. People have to deal with issues we cannot imagine. They could just be distracted for the near future and it has nothing to do with you. Will see where this goes....
  11. I would not put an excessive amount of thought into this issue since it seems she is already attracted to you. I dated a guy who was not attractive at all for 6.5 years. He was short, bald and looked like a turtle. At least you have height. What he lacked in attractiveness he made up for in dress and deportment. He was very well groomed. He had a small amount of hair which he had professionally dyed every 6 weeks. He had impeccable taste in clothing and wore very nice suits (when suits were a thing pre-covid). His casual clothes were a bit lame, but were always ironed and well-turned out. He had very nice skin and never had any ear or nose hair. Being your best self is important. If you are a bit insecure about your looks, go to a proper men’s salon and make sure your clothes/appearance are at their very best. A woman who is gorgeous and puts time and effort into her appearance will appreciate a well groomed and decently dressed man. If you are fit, accentuate your body with well fitted clothes and perhaps cool running shoes.
  12. Look up the word limerence. There are a few sites out there that address this condition. Don’t be embarrassed, just educate yourself about it. Sometimes you cannot help with whom you have a strong attraction. Good luck.
  13. Meeting people on Tinder is not the best way to form a lasting relationship. Sure there are exceptions, but basically it is a catalogue of hook-ups. I also don’t think you should deliver yourself to him, if he really likes you he should come to you. To be fair, you didn’t spend a lot of time together, so it may be hard to form a foundation for something more serious. Also, him telling you he would really love to come see you might just be a way to get you to sleep with him. Some guys have all of the lines to get the end goal. Good you did not sleep with him. I would try to date without anxiety and maybe a few casual relationships at the same time. This way, if one falls apart, there is someone else you can date. It’s the way many guys day anxiety-free. Put him on the back burner for now.
  14. I don’t think the FWB situation is that bad as long as you both agree to it, however, he cannot also control you at the same time. A FWB, if you choose to have one should be fun, light and you should enjoy each other’s company. Not for the faint of heart though, as someone is likely to develop feelings for the other. You mentioned you tried dating this guy and it didn’t work, and now it seems like FWB doesn’t work either. Sounds to me like he wants you to be his only partner, while he plays the field and/or his insecurities are get the best of him. If you are happy to see him and he make you feel good, continue to see him. If you feel stressed about him most of the time, cut your losses. If FWB is what you are after, find one that is a bit more respectful of you. Maybe go on a date or see them outside of the bedroom that way its not just a hook up.
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