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  1. Okay it's probably the most embarrassing and betraying thing that has ever happened to me, but my older brother has been hiding from me that he has been talk to my ex gf... romantically... he just broke up with his ex which was his first relationship. It lasted almost 4 years and then he decides to move on to the only girl I have had true feelings for. He knows how I feel/felt about her. What should I be feeling and what should I do? It does hurt alot but it feels like it still hasn't all settled for me to process it all...and its so close to christmas. My brother has never done anything like this to hurt me before... I tried talking to him and going to see him to face him about it but he literally ran away. Any advice or input would be great. Thanx and happy holidays!
  2. hey, I dont know what your work out consists of. But, you're right if you are looking to gain muscle or mass, the name of the game is getting sore. Don't over work your muscles... only work out 4 or 5 times a day. Also it you want to be more tone then massive, then make sure you have a good amount of cardio exercises. Otherwise, like in my situation, I have a really fast metabolism, it's best to avoid alot of cardio. Oh yea, glutamine intake is important to put all that protien to use. Hope I helped.
  3. Well, Sparkle. Thank you for listening and writting. This morning I got a call from her. We talked slightly and agreed to settle things tonight, since we both have work... I'm glad you were wrong about her contacting me, it's not your fault because I discribed the situation poorly. It was three days of no contact with her, not three weeks. I believe you had that mistaken. I might have made the intial mistake of contacting her. I probably should have gave her space, but I too am proud of myself for the fact I stated everything I was feeling at the time. Now tonight is her turn. Wish me luck. Thanks again.
  4. we have never been together. we were just dating last year and it ended. maybe because I didnt have the balls to tell her how I felt. now, a year later, I decided it doesn't matter and it's not worth holding it in.
  5. No I havent gotten a reply, I sent it about an hour ago and she doesnt wake up for work for another hour or so. Basically this is my message to her after her avoiding all my phone calls out of the blue. I dont believe I did anything to make her mad at me. She is just afraid to be hurt. And we just started talking again about 3 weeks ago. She's my ex kinda from a lil over a year ago.... does that help?
  6. I poured my heart out in this email, do you think it was mistake or a good idea...? would this make you think a lil if you where in her position? and advice is good. Thanx. I know some parts are weird but some parts have lil inside jokes, but you should be able to understand it. stop being gay, i know you're not gay lol you know I care about you, it's 530 and i just woke up, and im sending you stupid messages that I know I sound like a retard in. I dont even care that you dont call me back, usually, but these few days got to me. seeing you again made it so i think about u alot, which is fine, but not when you cut me out. I know i was pressuring you into plans all week kinda, im sry and i should have listened to you. I sound like a retard phone too which is hard too. And even more because sunday night i was drunk, sry. im not mad either im red-headed... lol u should know im tapped somewhat look at kregg.Oh yea... I basically knew what i was getting into with you. I dont care tho. If you're trying to make it so I hate you, it's not working. All I want is to know you better. I think you would like and understand me more if we actually got to know each other. we know each other but not really. I dont care about anything else. Just dont let this happen again where we dont talk forever, it with me last time ill be honest. Just plz think about what I said at least. well later scrub, jk you know you're gorgeous
  7. hey recently I started talking to an ex of mine. Im not be in alot of relationships. A year ago I started dating this amazing girl, I haven't felt the way I feel about her ever. Chemistry exists when we are together that has not even came to the surface in all my other relationships. I have had sex with her, about a year ago. Anyways, about 2 weeks ago we talked and decided to hang out a few times, eventually she stayed with me at a friends of mine, we slept on the couch and just cuddle and kissed etc.... I really like this girl but I feel like she is distant and hard to make plans with, she told me she doesn't care about anything or anyone and that she just feels like she wants to go home and do nothing all the time after work... I tried talking to her, but i dont exactly know what I should do or say...any advice or direction would be very appreciated.
  8. There was this girl I was dating casually that I really fell for recently. The chemistry was there everyone was good but as things progressed, something im not use to happened. I wanted to really start seeing her romantically and hinted too things not just being what they were, which was good... I dunno just picture being single and meeting someone great and just only being able to reach a certian point in a relationship... and she avoids everything I say about it and tries to pretend things are the same and pretend we dont need to discuss it... what do I do? i dont want to let it go because we vibe so well, shes just been hurt by guys... but how do I ask her to have trust and give it a shot, I know she has feelings for me, and she just feels she can choose when to decide her feelings, but in the mean time i must say it hurts
  9. I believe it is possible she feels I do not take her seriously. But I also think that it might confuse her if I make that clear to her by coming right out to her about it. This would be bad because I believe confusing is what caused us to stop talking the first time... so I really want to do things perfect and make her more comfortable for both of us... has anyone been in a situation portraying anything close to mine? I don't know if that sways any opinions but I would be thankful for any further advice...
  10. Okay Ill try to make it short and sweet... TRY... well there is this girl I met in August... we are both 20. I got her number and we started texting and eventually calling one another. Got to know each other reasonably well and everything. She was recently out of a relationship and wasnt wanting to get into a relationship again soon. I told her I was cool with that and just wanted to get to know her better. She said she was afraid that I would change the way I felt about her after saying that to me. I'm pretty sure she could tell I was into her, and I know she was interested in me as well. I complimented her and kept in contact basically everyday and had alot in common. Eventually we started casually hanging out, but it wasn't too many times later after we first started doing so that alot of chemistry arrived lol. Anyways, I kissed her when we were just on a drive one time and the night went really well. The next few times being around each other things excelled onward and became making out... started seeing each other 3 times a week or so throughout november but still we weren't exclusive or anything, even though I would have liked to have been. It's just what she told me at the beginning of out "relationship" threw me off and made me second guess alot of things. Eventually things got weird... family issues came up with her and we didnt talk so much and almost never saw one another... But not the last few days or so we have been talking more... my question for all of you is what do I do differently this time, I dont want things to just repeat. I'm pretty sure she has feelings for me, but I dont know what to say to her, or how to go about developing this relationship with her. I really know her, we have alot of chemistry and I DO really like her. I couldnt stop thinking about her and wanted to call her the whole time we weren't really talking, but I wanted to give her space...what do I do? Does this sound familiar?
  11. I've have been dating this amazing girl for about 4 months. She's alot like me, we get along well. We are both 20 years old. I met her at work, she use to work there a few months before I was hired. I think she cares about me, but she basically busy with work and friends that it's rare we see one another. I think we have alot of chemistry, and a possibly a future... but I don't want to screw things up. Do I try to make more time some how? do I wait? Forget it? it really seems to be getting to me and making it worse, which is certainly not making it an easier. Thanks for listening to issues, I need advice I am no veteran when it comes to relationships.
  12. okay the friends before family deff. makes sense but i still need more advice...
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