SillyDate

Can you please teach me or explain, how can I have hope while I moving on and keep the spot in my heart for him? I really wish he will come back.....broke up 15 days ago, NC

Thanks for the insight...I asked that question because I am the dumper but please wait, let me elaborate in a summary way. I "set him free" because during the period of downhill, I found out that he has been telling his cousin he might want to end with me due to all recent arguments. His cousin taught him to piss me off so I can leave him instead of him dumping me so he does not have to be the bad guy....I felt he already started to distant from me and he kept telling his buddies to make plans so he can have excuse to avoid visiting me on weekends [we live 40 miles apart]. He has a lot of resentment towards me due to arguments. I felt heart broken to know all those so I set him free My goal is to let him go and praying that time and space and my absence can fade his resentment. I love him, I know he loves me as well. I hope to reconnect with him and hope we can start over again in a baby step way but I am not sure if I have chance because he has not contacted me ever since I dumped him. Today [7/79/12] is 10th day of breakup and NC. When I initiated, I didn't mention 1 word of breakup. I said "better be friends, I think you'll be happier" In this context, I am the dumper...still got slight chance?

Hi, can a dumper has chance to reconcile with the dumpee?