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  1. practice makes perfect and there are tons of reading materials out there that can give you tips to please your guy but the best thing to do is ask him what really wants. be open to him and tell him that you are bothered and you're trying to give your best but he must do his part and tell you what he wants so you can both enjoy.if he really loves you, he must understand. besides, though sex is one element of a relationship, it's not the whole thing. i think it's not right to consider your relationship "shaking" just because of your sexual problems. if you cannot deal with your deficiencies in this aspect of your relationship, you can improve in other matters like the way you care for him or help him with his problems. if he leaves u merely for the reason that he's not satisfied with your performance...well, that's a different story.
  2. how long have you been anyway? i think your bf is already showing you what he wants so it's really up to u now... just do what you think is right and since you don't consider yourself too young for anything, juz be careful... think twice before it's too late and all you can do is regret.
  3. sorry but i haven't read ur first post and i really don't know the history of your problem... well just enjoy in each other's company! you like her right? it's ok to tell her so that you won't leave her hanging and not knowing what's really goin' on between the two of u, besides i assume she already has a hint about it and the way she treats you and by her gestures i can say u will be able to elicit a positive response if you tell her how u really feel!
  4. hey, i really don't mean that u look for another gf immediately... make new friends! get out of your shell, shyness will take you nowhere, there are lots of friendly people out there... i have a lot of friends who experience worse breakups than yours, but they managed to move on by going out with friends and having fun! sure, it's not easy especially if you encounter things that remind you of your ex, whenever you feel bad, just think of this: the girl on your mind could possibly be having lots of fun at that moment and its unfair for you that while she's enjoying her life you're in misery on the other hand. a lot of wonderful things await you.. just open your eyes... 8)
  5. you shifted to a new university? have you done any effort in making new friends?hy not stroll around your campus and check out what students do there, where they love to hang out and probably you'll meet at least someone who would want to keep you company.it's really hard to establish sincere friendship in that short span of time, but casual acquaintances could be! also, have a new hobby or at least something to do like playing games or reading so you can have something to do during idle hours. lastly you can always visit this site ang give advices to people... meet new friends! i'm willing to be one! send me a pm so i'll get to know you more! ope to hear from you soon huh!
  6. i met this new friend, and in a short span of time we've become very close. he asked if he could court me and i said yes... then i realized that i dont want to be courted by him coz i would rather keep him as a friend for the meantime since we've only known each other for about only 4 months.. i told this to him through a letter and i was able to elicit a positive response from him. however, though we have agreed already that we're just friends, he still keeps on following me, and i get a little irritated and annoyed. how can i tell him in a nice way that i am already annoyed at him because we've already talked about this and he agrreed yet his actions show otherwise?
  7. go ahead, tell her how you feel but also stress out that you wouldn't want to destroy your friendship either and that you respect whatever her decision will be. you must at least inform her of this feeling that you've kept for a long time. goodluck to you and i hope to hear from you soon!
  8. dont you think it'll be more wonderful if you keep this couple stuffs just between the two of you? yeah, it's nice to show the world how much you love each other, but still there are things that should be kept from the public.. like making-out. coz when you do, these moments become much more precious for the both of you.. you dont want to be an open book for all the world to see what you do when you're together,would you? and when you're with friends, i suggest you also treat each other as friends and save those romances when your all alone. it will not only deepen your relationship but also the way other people sees you as a couple.. to hold hands and hug are ok.. lip service..not that cool.
  9. dont you think it'll be more wonderful if you keep this couple stuffs just between the two of you? yeah, it's nice to show the world how much you love each other, but still there are things that should be kept from the public.. like making-out. coz when you do, these moments become much more precious for the both of you.. you dont want to be an open book for all the world to see what you do when you're together,would you? and when you're with friends, i suggest you also treat each other as friends and save those romances when your all alone. it will not only deepen your relationship but also the way other people sees you as a couple.. to hold hands and hug are ok.. lip service..not that cool.
  10. ok,sorry if my post isnt clear..to keep it simple,i am annoyed with a close friend because she "stole" the love-one of another friend of mine.. i think im finding it hard to be in good terms with her knowing that she's the reason why my other friend is suffering right now. should i avoid her?
  11. i have been in a sort of similar situation before, the only difference is that first, we are not yet sure of our feelings toeards one another..(aside from being best friends) second, he is in love or should i say involved to another girl though they are not really committed. talk to him or if you dont have the guts, make your deeds extra swweet and special for him, send him heart-warming text messages or treat him the way you wont treat other guy pals. sooner he'll realize that you feel something for him. and if he confronts you..tell him everything. both of you should keep the friendship but at the same time not close your doors and be open to possibilities of taking your friendship to a higher level
  12. you said you are friends, so i encourage you to open the topic about girl-to-girl and watch out for her reaction. if she's into it, then good for you.you can take the next step which is to tell her how u really feel for her.. but if she's not into it, don't despair.. because there's still a possibility for her to get into it if you make her feel really special. if it still does not work.. you just have to respect her.. about your question.. it seems you want to get intimate with her soon..that's normal but taking it really slow and just waiting when time will permit you to kiss her and do your stuff is definitely much memorable and pleasurable for you both.. goodluck
  13. marriage is something really special.. are sure that you really want to get married at your early age?? if it does not defy your religious principles then i think they would allow such marriage.. about your question regarding rape.. actually i learned from a priest that below the age of 12, whether you wanted to have sex or not, if it happened, then it's considered rape.. at your age it is no longer considered rape, since i assume you wanted what had happen.. the only problem is if you will deny and claim that you were forced, then he can be charged with rape.. but you see, if you really love each other, marriage could wait,, besides, you're too young, so enjoy your youth and being single because marriage is sacred and is a lifelong commitment.. think a hundred times!!
  14. i just think you really have to tell her, if she is your bestfriend, she must accept u for who u are regardless of your sexuality.. tell her your feelings..tell her that you dont expect anything in return and you respect whatever decision she will be able to come up.. remember, the purpose why you will tell her the truth is not because you want to have her as "your" girl but rather to remain honest to her since honesty is one requisite for a lasting friendship.. it's really hard, but that,s life.. need more advice? just send me a pm ok!! goodluck
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