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You may want to consider blocking his number.

I hope your life is hell and you end up all night with your head in a toilet throwing up. You deserve the best this NYE has to offer. Love ya

Long story...it was not just one thing. It was several over a long period of time between moments of bliss. This girl needs to be put in an emotional straight jacket and put in lock down so she doesn't destroy any other unsuspecting men. She is a sirene that has left a wake of victims behind her and seems unaffected and less than compassionate to the damage she has caused. I really hope she gets hers in the end....but who knows, life is not fair and she may escape unscathed.

Wise words

I am so thankful we are no longer in contact. It took me forever to finally cut you out of my life. You are a toxic mess. Though I still think of you it is not the same. I am not longing for you but have mostly thoughts of disgust at how horrible and selfish of a person you are. It's weird but day by day my hate for you is growing. I hope one day to get to the point of indifference. You hurt me deeply but most of it was my fault for not allowing myself to see you for who you really are. I promise you that you will never hear from me ever again. That is my Xmas gift to myself. To stay the hell away from you and never break NC. btw..I do not wish you a merry xmas...I hope your life is hell on earth. You deserve it

It was crayz seeing you at the club the other night. You felt like a stranger to me. I am so glad I kept my cool and did not attempt to hang out with you. I miss the person you used to be to me but that person does not exist anymore. It makes me sad but I know I must continue my NC with you and doubt I will want a friendship with you. It is sad sometimes how life is but it is my time to heal. At least you were respectful and did not push for me to hang around you at the club. I wish sometimes that things were different and we could be together like we used to. I know that will never happen so I wish you well. I need to take care of myself and stay away from you. How was it for you seeing me? I wonder what you were thinking. It is so sad we could not hang out and have fun like we used to. Take care ex...I can't believe I am missing you right now.

I was starting to go through my ex's phone one night and she went ballistic! That's cuz she was a deceiver and had plenty to hide. Anyways, some people think the phone is a big deal and others don't. I wouldn't care if my ex went through my phone but I better be able to go through hers as well.

Really happy for you Kid!!! I am rooting that everything works out.

This has been a long road...A journy I never wanted to take but her I am alone while you are with guy number what...8 or 9 since we broke up? It hurts that you are seeking so hard to find a bf but do not want to be with me again. Well you did to a certain point and wanted fwb's and we were for 11 months after the breakup and like a fool in love, I agreed. That ended in November and you still wanted me as you bff...what a joke. I have played the fool or I would already be healed. I am so glad I have finally went NC. It took way too long to let go. I don't know if I even have yet. I just think the pain it causes me of you feeling comfortable enough to tell me you are at another guys house or out with him and can not talk was it for me. So good bye, I hope to heal now and move on. I want to feel good again. This is going to be a long year of rebuilding my life. I know you will reach out again but you will not find me. You are blocked. have a nice life. I know you are toxic to me and have a lot of issues but unfortunately I still love you. God please take this cross away from me and free me from these feelings.

Well this is the getting back portion of the forum but people must know that very few get back together. I am not saying this to be a downer just stating the facts. I would hate to see people hold onto false hope and stay stuck hurting when they should be healing and moving on.

I know but trust me I did it for 11 months post breakup and it was not worth it. The cost was extremely high cuz I always wanted her back. Left me feeling used and empty. Not worth it my friend if hey don't want to be in relationship anymore. Trust me you are better off. I know you don't feel that way and I didn't either until I went through it. Still miss f-n her though even with all the pain. ugh, how pathetic lol

I hear ya bro. Once in a lifetime kinda sex. However, I really don't want her anymore only the sex!

I miss you so much...I know it is over and I am glad we had a good conversation before going NC. In some ways though I wish I hated you because it would be easier. Knowing that you love me and want me in your life as a close friend, still think about me all the time is both good and bad for me emotionally. All I can think about is that you love me but are not in love with me. I need to stop thinking about you. I am glad we are not in contact but I need to find the motivation to get my life together and start over without you. I just can not stay in this state of depression any longer. I have to force myself to go to the gym. I know this is the one thing that will help me the most. Ugh, now just to do it. I hope you are doing ok although I know you are not. Your life is a mess and I wish I was your partner and could help you with it. I want so badly to text or call you but I won't. I hope you are struggling like I am at some level. I know you are but as soon as you find your new boyfriend I am sure that will all change.

So I went on a date tonight with another girl and she thought I was awesome, handsome and a real catch. I had a hard time on the way there because I started thinking about you, but after awhile I forgot about you and was able to pay atteniton to her and not even compare her to you! That was a big step for me. It means I am healing and getting over your lame ass! We went to dinner, had a few drinks and back to her house to watch the last half of the football game. it was really nice, we layed on the couch, held hands and cuddled. I did smell her hair and it did not smell like yours. I have to admit i miss your hair alot. All in all it was a great night. I do miss the girl you were when we were a couple but that is over so I am moving on. I love and hate you at the same time.

Ex, you said that I was your best friend and you loved me and could not live without me in your life. Ha! If I meant so much to you then why were you not willing to lose two hours sleep the night my dad died to come hang out with me? You have no problem losing sleep to go party...did I mean less to you than partying? I guess so..Then you would not cancel a pof date to hang out with me the next night knowing I really wanted my "so called" best friend there. Wow, that really showed me how much I really meant to you! Then you had the nerve to call me before and after pof dates! You knew how I felt about you and that I was trying to be friends even though it was hard for me. How selfish. Then I send you a nice letter requesting some time to heal and you just delete me off fb and never respond. What a joke. Well I hope you have a great life and I feel sorry for those who you consider your "close friends" they are in for a world of pain. You are one of the most selfish people I have ever met good riddance! PS. I hope I run into you someday just so I can look into your eyes with disgust!