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  1. That is a good question. I have been wondering about that too. It would be good to see what others think.
  2. Good news, she is back and didn't seem upset. She came by here to say hi, like we are old friends. Nothing has been said about my mistake. I have some flowers I bought for her to tell her I was sorry and want to be forgiven. But yet I think she may have already forgiven me. I have the flowers, and want to give them to her so they don't go to waste. Should I give them anyways to show my apoligy?
  3. She is actually the one that considered this to be a "trial relationship." The whole time I thought it was real, and it kind of bothered me a little that she didn't think of it the same way.
  4. I will get to see her tonight, she is coming back here to college. I am kind of confused, we go together great as friends. And when we are friends there is always that strong want to go further than friends. But when we try a relationship for a while, that fire in my heart is not as strong as I felt before.
  5. I said some wrong things on the phone this weekend to my "trial" girlfriend, and now I think she hates me. How do I tell her I am sorry? I at least want to keep her as my good friend that I had before. I am afraid that a relationship between us may not be the best. We probably are better off just as friends, but the problem with that is when we were just friends we always wanted more.
  6. It can change you. It changed me into a better leader and no longer near as shy as I used to. Just go and have fun. That is the best advice anyone can give you. And in having fun I don't mean getting drunk all the time and never going to class. If you go to class (and not sleep in class, but actually taking good notes) everyday you are almost garaunteed to do well.
  7. Definitely ask her if she wants to talk about it. Even if she says no, she probably actually does want to talk. I have several times with different girls asked them if they wanted to talk about what was troubling them, and they would first say no. Then after a while of just being there for them they would start talking about the problem, and talking about what troubles you to a friend is probably the best thing you can do for yourself.
  8. It is really hard to tell. He could like you in a gf kind of way, and it could also just be that he is a nice guy and thinks of you as a really good friend.
  9. There is this girl that I have been seeing on campus and talking to briefly that I think she likes me, and I would like to ask her out on a date. Although, I have never been able to speak with her alone, there has always been someone else around and I dont think that is the best time to ask a girl out when she has a bunch of friends around. Since I haven't had a chance to talk to her alone (and I don't know if I will get a chance anytime soon), I haven't been able to get her contact info from her. Although, I can easily look up her phone number (phone book or get it from someone we both know) and email address (we are in the same organization and I can pick her email address out of the group emails). So my question is: Is it alright to call or email her to ask her out on a date if she has never given that info to me, or would that seem kind of awkward to her?
  10. Meeting parents can seem very nerve racking, but it doesn't have to be. Just be yourself and act like a gentleman when you meet them. Shake their hands, compliment them, answer their questions about you, and ask them questions. It helps if you know a little about what they are interested in and like to talk about (basically brag about). Then ask them a question about it and get them talking. If they do the talking it takes pressure off of you, and believe it or not makes them think that you are really smart. When they are talking be very attentive and agree with them. This kind of stuff works with everyone, including picking up girls. These are principles that salesmen follow, and that is what you are doing: selling yourself. It can be hard to figure out how to do, but once you figure it out it will work great.
  11. Going to dances without a date can be a lot of fun, but if you would rather have a date just pick some guy that you kind of like (someone you know as a friend probably would work great). You don't have to do a bunch of flirting or anything before. Just go up and ask him if he would like to go on a date to the semi formal. If he says no, then don't let it bother you because he is too shallow minded to not just go to a simple semi formal. Just go on to the next guy and try again. The nice guys are the ones that will say yes. Also, if a dinner is usually associated with your semi formals, then you might ought to consider paying for the meal since you were the one that asked. There is nothing wrong with the girl paying these days.
  12. I know this doesn't help you any, but the choice is up to you. But, what I would suggest is to not jump into a relationship immediately. Maybe give it a couple weeks to analyze both choices. In fact it may help you to hang out with the second girl more often. Since you don't spend as much time with her as the other, you probably don't know her as well. If you get to know them both fairly well, you may find that one is either better or worse than you thought earlier. I wouldn't consider myself an expert on this, so I would definitely consider other people's ideas too. But this an idea that could help. You are the one that knows your situation best, and what you decide is probably the best choice.
  13. Unless you are maybe a wrestler and have to be a certain weight, I would not worry about a measly 7 or 12 pounds. There is nothing to be worried about if you only weigh 122. In fact if I weighed that much I would want to put on some weight. I would be so skinny that I would look like a stick.
  14. I definitely agree. If a guy is flushed, he is either embarrassed or really likes a girl and is probably thinking about asking her out. If that is the case, then he may be kind of shy. If he is flushed, it is doubtful that the only cause is because he is turned on.
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