Michelle03

I definatly think that havin no contact for the last little while could have made her realize what she lost, but dont be scared to talk to her and see whats goin on. It seems like she still likes u alot, and remember u have nothing to lose. So dont be afraid and go for it!! U only can gain from this, go for it!!! I really think its obvious she really misses u and wants u back

I think that it is quite obvious that she still likes u alot!! I have done these things in the past, WHEN I STILL LIKED SOMEONE!! If u still like this girl go after her, i really thikn it sounds like shes still very interested in u and u have nothing to lose at all!!! Talk to her and tell her how u feel!! If shes not interested then u have nothin to lose, ur already broken up. But i really think she still wants u, its very obvious. Andif she doesnt then ask her why she is still trying to contact u and ask what she wants.

I have been with guys who are and are not circumsized. I really think it makes no differnce what so ever to me, so dont worry about it. I have never heard of any girls that i know of sayin that it was gross so i wouldnt worry about it at all!!

I think by what it sounds like she is still intereted in you. Why dont u just aske her if she wants to be with u again or not?? What do u have to lose, ur not with her right now, and not talking to her so u have nothing to lose. Just try talking to her when she messages u and see what she wants. And yes, i know it sounds dumb but girls really do like guys that ignore them or dont seem interested, its a challenge and us girls always seem to fall for that. So just talk to her and see what she wants, it sounds like shes still into u, go for it u have nothin to lose!!!

I believe people ar often attracte dto what is a challange, or hard to get. So by u ignoring her it may be makin her want u more. But are u over her or do u want to get back together? U never mentioned that. But yes in my opinion it does make someone want u more "u always want what u cant have"

I think the best thing to do would be trying to talk to him. U will never know until u try. Try to talk to him and see how it goes, hopefully he will be able to speak some english or understand it. Do u know anyone that knows him, maybe try askin someone that knows him better if he can speak english. But i say just give it a go and try to talk to him, just make casual conversation at first and see how he reacts. If he seems interested in talkin to u, then let him know ur interested, the worst thing that could happen is that he wont be interested, but in that case maybe u can at least be friends. There are many guys out there so if one doesnt like u, dont get too hung up on it, there will be thousands more that will like u!!! But go ahead and try to talk to him, get to know him!!!

It made me feel not too good about myself. Mostly i did it because he said he really wanted to and i had never tried it before. I have talked to him and he said he feels really bad, he never thought it would bother him much. He said he is not mad at me at all, and doesnt think any differently about me because it was him who pursuaded me to do it. I just feel bad and dont want it to ruin our relationship, which i dont think it will, but i dont want him to think i dont care about him, or that i have feelings for his friend or anything. I have no feelings for his friend, it was purly experimental and that he wanted to do it. He said he just wants to forget about it and we should put it behind us and that he doesnt want me too fel bad because it was his idea. But we both stopped, he couldnt do it and i felt awkward. So does that mean that he does care about me alot and made the mistake of thinking it wouldnt bother him? By what he is saying do u think that things will be alright? He is acting completely normal and everything, i just dont want there to be any awkwardness when we are all togethr or i dont want him too worry about me liking his friend or something? So should i just drop it and let it be behind us and forget about it?

I think if he wants space give him space, and wait for him too contact u. But dont wait around for him, in the mean time, do stuff for urself, occupy urself by hanging out with friends and dont worry about what hes doin, that will only make it worse. I know its hard but that is the best thing to do. Sometimes when a guy realizes hes really losing u or that u are having fun with out him thats when he will realize what hes lost. So if he contacts u tell him how u feel, but dont let him play mind games with u o, its not good for u, u need to try and move on, it will taake time but it will happen eventually. So give him his space and do ur own thing for a while. If he really cares about u he will come back, if he doesnt its his loss. And one thing to think about, even though u love him, do u really want to be with some one that treats u this way??? U deserve someone that makes u happy and treats u with respect!! if hes not doin that then find someone that will. Take care of urself and i hope it all works out for u one way or another

I think alot of girls come to this point when there younger. I know I did, and i learned the hard way. Well first of all, no matter what u tell her, she will still do what she wants to in the end, but u can try to help her see how these decisions are affecting her, or will affect her. I think u should talk to her and tell her that even though she might be having alot of fun she is hurting other ppl. Explain to her hoe u feel and about how u feel this new guy will treat he, but make sure u arent to pushy or harsh or she may get mad at u. Just let her know what she is doin and that u are worried for her. Let her know that u care about her and dont want her to get hurt. As for her ex, i think that u should still be able to be friends with him if u alwyas have, im sure he needs someone too. But maybe just call him to let him know u still want to be friends, but dont call and hang out with him too much at first. Let what happened with him and ur friend blow over a bit first. U should also let her know that u would like to maintain a friendship with him, but u dont want her to be mad, so just ask her how she feels about it so that she doesnt think u are doin it behind her back. I hope this helped a little, good luck with everything, dont stress to much!!

Thanks foe the advice guys, i just talked to him and he said he was worried that i would be mad at him and not want to be with him anymore. he said hes sorry for even getting me involved in that and hes not mad at me. I still feel akward but i hope that ereything will be alright. He said he doesnt want anything to change between us either so i hope it wont. But im still worriied that he will think differently of me or something. He said what happened is bothering him a little and he doesnt know why he started it and he should have stopped it. But i told him how i feeel and that i care about him very much and only want to be with him and he told me he feels the same and that everything will be fine. Does it sound like my relationship with him is gonna be alright???? Thanks for all the advice so far!!!!

Hey, ya richgabe is right, u may never get sores but u could still pass the virus to other people. I f u are worried at all about having something the best thing to do is just go get a check up. Lots of stds can cause serious complications if not treated and many people have no symptoms but are infected. U can go to ur doctor and get checked or most citys will have an std clinic, just go get a check up if u are worriend and they will get u treatment if u are infected with anything, thats ur best bet.

I dont think that u are stupid at all, u cant control youre feelings, or who u fall in love with. I have had this happen to me and it is very hard. What he did wasnt nice though. He shouldnt lead u on. And as for the questions he asked u, it sounds as though he wants to hear how u feel about him, or how much u like him so that he knows that he can come back to u whenever he wants. Like hes keeping u on a string so he has u when he wants to, and that is no way to treat a person. But if u really care about him i think u should just be open and tell him how u feel, dont pressure him, just tell him how u are feeling, but u should also let him know that u wont wait around fo him forever, because i have found that many men guys will use that to there advantage, by doin whatever with other girls then coming back to u when they dont have anyone. So i think ur best bet is tell him how u feel and if he doesnt respond well then try to move on, hes not worth ur time if he doesnt care about u. I dont know if this was the kind of answer u were lookin for but i tryed to give u my best opinion, good luck with everything, hope i helped a little

The other nite i was out drinking with my bf and his friends, we got really drunk and he has always joked around about me and him having a threesome with his best friend. Somehow we ended up deciding to do it. My boyfriend really wanted to it was his idea, i wasnt against it, but not all for it. I am experimental though so i figured id try it. So we started having a threesome and we fooled around, then i was having sex with his friend and i could tell it was bothering him even though he told me to do it. So i stopped cuz i was also uncomfortable. So we ended it, and he said everything was fine, it was his idea, hes sorry etc. But i am really worried that it will affect our relationship, which has been amazing so far, we are great together. Any ideas on what i should do, he said it wont affect anything, but im worried, any help would be great, im feeling really bad, ashamed and upset i guess, sorry this is so long....

Dont worry so much!! You will find someone. Girls like guys who are confident and happy!! So try to be happy and have fun, guys look the most attractive when they are smiling having fun and being themselves. Be confident and act like it!!! Dont worry about finding a girl at this exact moment, just have fun and the right girl will come along. Go out have fun and meet new people, ask girls on dates, and be confident about it. You will find someone. And remember, if you cant love yourself, you are not ready to love someone else! or thats what i believe at least!!! So go have fun and keep your chin up!! hope it all works out!!

So about 2 months ago my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me and moved away. It has been really hard, but just when I thought I was never gonna get over him, I met this guy. Hes really nice. We started hanging out and he i awsome. We have been hanging out all the time lately. He calls me everyday when he gets off work, he picks me up and he even takes me out with his family all the time. He looks at me all the time and just smiles, he kisses me and hugs me and always wants to hold my hand and cuddle. I really like him alot, and I think he feels the same way. Sounds perfect right? Not really. He has a girlfriend that he has been with for 2 years, but she moved away about 4 months ago and now he never sees her and they only tlk like once evry week or 2. He hasnt seen her in 2 months. So I guess my question is, do you think he really likes me, or is he just using me because his girlfriend isnt around. He told me he wants to break up with her and date me, but should i believe him? I mean we hang out so much and he seems so into me, i mean he takes me out with his parents and holds my hand??? Do u think i should believe him and go for it, or is he just needing some ass?? I really like him, but dont want to get hurt? Any help guys?? Also, im kind of confused because I still love my ex soooo much. I still talk to him, and think about him alot, but this new guy also really interests me. Should i wait for the ex to come back tome, like I have been, or should I move on, its sooo hard!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! thanxs everyone for all the help u have given me soo far, it has really made a difference!!