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Brigadoon

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  1. Thank you! We have our ups and downs like anyone else but I'm glad things have worked out and I hope we last the distance. I really wouldn't have though we'd get back together though so just goes to show there's no point in trying to predict what'll happen lol
  2. I worked very hard to get over my fiance when we broke up and by the time he came back a year and a half after we broke up I didn't even think there was anything left as it all seemed to be gone. I was still fond of him as a person because I was over all the hurt but I had a lot of good memories so we hung out together and ended up back together. We got married this October just gone and it seems very strange to be writing this here, on the forum where I used to come when I was crying my eyes out from the hurt and humiliation of the breakup. Just goes to show that NC/LC and doing your best to genuinely get over a relationship and move on with your life does wonders for you either way - I hope it works out that way for anyone who's reading this and hurting right now.
  3. Hey guys Meant to get back and update you all as I remember always wanting to know the full story back in my early days here but I've been up the walls in college etc so sorry for the delay! Background really was we were together for nearly two years and broke up on the 13th of July 2009; two months after we got engaged. We had been having problems with communication for pretty much our whole relationship and my boyfriend is a good bit younger than me so he was somewhat on the immature side when dealing with emotions so we never managed to sort it out. He straight away fell into an absolutely disastrous relationship that kept breaking up and getting back together but went on for the one and a half years we've been apart. On the 16th of January 2011 I found a missed call from him and he came over, told me that he had always wished things had worked out differently and wanted to try again at some point if I did. Two days later we got back together I had seen him maybe four times in that year and a half.
  4. It happens alright - it just happened to me Broke up 18 months ago and got back together completely out of the blue last week. It's early days and we're taking it slow but I've got a good feeling about it and because we both let go and moved on with our lives while we were apart all the problems from the last time have been forgiven and forgotten about. We've been able to press the 'reset' button and start completely afresh
  5. I agree totally; this thread was a lifeline to me when I needed it. Whether or not it was realistic the hope kept me going while I was dealing with it bit by bit. I commend Lavenderdove too though,; we do need some form of balance or else we start to make moving on the back up plan instead of working towards moving on and leaving the door open to go back if you see what I mean.
  6. 1. My mother won €1500 on the lottery; does that count? 2. My brother was cycling home in a thunderstorm when his bike got struck by lightning (which would explain a lot) AND (lol) a guy I was seeing for a while got struck by lightning TWICE! I know a good few people who've gotten back with exes; seems to happen about a year later for the successful ones and I've had exes turn up looking to try again too
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