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  1. Agreed. The first one very ... for lack of a better word.. rudely turned you down by not answering, its almost like leading you on. You arent using the other girl in any way shape or form, and something clicked. Thats the start of something great, the sparks of a bonfire. There was no foul play, you did nothing wrong, have fun with Sally.
  2. Take a chance. It could be worth everything.
  3. In my experience, relationships with pretty, nice, "hot", ditzy or stupid girls never last. Theyre fun as far as fooling around and physical stuff, which may very well be all youre interested in, but as far as intellectual, intelligent conversations, they just dont hold up very well. "Being in 8th grade i found it might be a problem if i went out with someone in a different grade then me because if they were cheating on me i wouldnt know any better" -A huge part of relationships is trust. Trust is the basis and is a must in relationships. You arent supposed to worry about them cheating on you until you catch them acting strangely or you start to hear stuff, because you wouldnt date someone that you didnt trust, right? Grade doesnt matter, its if you and she both act maturely about it, and honor each other by staying true. And thats something that you need regardless of age or grade. I'd say ditch the ditz, go for the one that can outsmart a rock.
  4. What he said about not opening doors or whatever, do it, most women, the ones that arent bitches anyway, find it kind and sweet. Just like most guys still pay for dinner on dates and stuff like that. Its traditional, yes, but rarely frowned upon. Second, as everybody else mentioned, relax and be yourself. The more fun you have, the more fun they have. If youre stressin about being with someone, people notice, and its unattractive. Just be you. My last piece of advice is, if you like someone and you think youve got any shot at all, DONT WAIT. Theres always the chance of rejection, and yeah that stings for a little while, but youve got to take the chance eventually. Better sooner than later. Just ask them if theyd wanna hang out sometime with you, grab lunch or something. Nothing serious, but make sure they know youre interested in being more than friends. Good luck.
  5. My first date i went to the cinema and we had a blast because we were pretty good friends beforehand. Its not as awkward, i think, if you have a base friendship first keep that in mind. Personally my favorite and easiest date is to take them out to a nice resturaunt for dinner, go to the mall or watch a movie, then meet up with some people, maybe at your house. Oh yeah, I'm 17, so this probably doesnt apply too well for the adults. But adolescents, try it!
  6. School first, ladies later. But definitely remember, ladies. Go for it.
  7. How did you find out she cheated on you? Did you come out in the open and tell you or did you find out from someone else? Maybe you explained that and i missed it, i dunno. Anyway, without being hasty, if she didnt come to you and tell you, I'd say get out of the relationship. If she was as in love as you, she wouldnt have cheated on you, and she would have had enough respect for you to at least tell you if she did. Be judgemental, be firm on your position, and dont take her back without making sure that you arent putting yourself up for another shot to the balls. I've been cheated on, and I know how much it hurts, and how deeply that penetrates. And how it really won't ever go away.
  8. Yeah, i agree. Dont make yourself needy, and dont make excuses, and dont lie, but explain things how you percieve them.
  9. Pysal131

    is it rape??

    statiatory rape, yes
  10. I havent posted any on this site because I just found out there was a poetry section ^^ And yeah, id totally like to see the other poem, so ill check that out today. All my poems are on my AIM profile. My screen name is : Pysal131
  11. its good. Suggestions though, because i myself am a poet in the making, try and use different words, have a broader vocabulary. Dont get me wrong, its really good, but i think you said 'tree' like 5 or 6 times. Keep it up
  12. I had the hardest time with my first kiss. I'd think it was the oppurtune moment, and then.... i just didnt have it "in me", if you know what im saying. The best suggestion i can give you is not to be afraid. If you think its the right moment, and you think that you ought to, then do it and dont be afraid of doing it wrong. Most girls just think its cute, at first, if you arent a good kisser. Just make sure you learn from mistakes!
  13. I think you're misunderstanding the situation, but thank you for your help regardless, its truly nice to have someone trying to understand and concieve a plan We already broke up over an issue that was dead, but she said that the fact that the issue ever came up turned her off to the relationship.
  14. Self respect and love have to come first! whats there not to love? You're gay, so what, youre a human being. You have feelings, youre original, you think things nobody else can think, you live things nobody else has. Everything about you is unique and special, dont lose hope!
  15. I appreciate that, and when she came home everything we did was together. However shes away at college, and thats a lot of driving every weekend for a high school kid
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