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First of all.......i just want to say to Starlette that I appreciate your input and I accept that you have your own views but I dont think its fair that you are judging me and not accepting that I really do love her. I honestly dont think you should be posting replies to people that are genuinely seeking help about matters, when you just give them negative responses. To Duncan, nameofthegame, and enadevoli I really appreciate your help. Of course we will be using protection!! Its sooooooo rare in my house to ever be home alone...we are a big family and theres always someone here. its pretty much the same at her house but i mean i guess we can just wait for the right time. i want it to be 'perfect' for her....so i dont want to rush it. I mean the last thing I want is for one of my brothers or sisters to walk in...or even worse, my PARENTS! LOL But thanks again for everyone's advice but if anyone else has some suggestions, please feel free to respond. thanks people.

hey thanks to both of you for your responses. i can pull the skin back over my head when it is soft but i cant pull it all the way back over the head when im hard. is it something i should be worrying about????

Starlette thanks for your help and advice. Dont get upset...I mean, we both really love each other and feel it is right. Believe me - im not just using her. I really care for her.

Thanks for your responses but we are both ready to have it....im going to use protection of course! We have been together for a while now and we both want to do it.

I cant rent a hotel because I am not old enough to - Im only 16 and I dont think I would be able to. Any other suggestions people?

hey people, i would really appreciate ANY replies...because i value everyone's comments. My girlfriend and I are ready to have sex....but the problem is we have no where to do it...I mean my house is out of the question because there is always someone here and her house is out of the question for the same reason. I want it to be an enjoyable experience for her but I have absolutely no idea where we can do 'it'! Can anyone suggest somewhere where we can do it where we will both enjoy it without getting caught by one of our parents or brothers and sisters?? Thank you.

Hey, you have every right not to say that you "love" him yet...i mean it is a term that is thrown around and we hear it every day....... My advice is that you should only say it to him if you really mean it........not because you feel obliged to....... Some people may not think it is a big deal but if you really do love him, then go for it - tell him! All the best!

Hey people...this is my first time posting a message and I would REALLY appreciate as many responses as possible. Im 16 years old and am planning to have sex with my girlfriend pretty soon. i have an uncut penis but my mates were telling me that if i want to use a condom, i have to pull the skin back on my penis when i put it on, is this true? that same night i tried to pull my skin back and i can easily do it if im not hard but when ive got an erection, i cant pull the skin back past my head. i really need some advice on this from guys or girls....anyone that knows anything about this.......is it a problem that i cant pull the skin all the way back?? do i have to pull the skin back when putting on a condom?? im really worried in a way because it sort of hurts if i try to pull the skin back when im hard.... waiting for your responses... your help is GREATLY appreciated........thank you