DenverBachelor

If she called you, that's not breaking NC in my opinion. You didn't contact her. I don't know -- I don't think you need to reset the clock.

Today begins NC 22 for me -- 36 Days after the breakup. I cringe when I look back at some of the texts I sent her after the breakup as if nothing had happened. My mind has finally accepted that this is truly a new beginning (I hate to use the word end but that, too). The hardest parts are putting together my new life and going down that long road of rebuilding myself and working on my own issues. I miss her and our dog. Life will go on, though. I will always think it was a mistake and that her current boyfriend played a part in this -- but we're both here for a reason and I need to accept it. 7 years as friends -- 5 as best and 1.5 years dating. My goal is NC 60 and then I hope I am free on the inside to start dating again without taking these issues with me into those dates.

The one thing I could never understand is the compulsion of some dumpees to stoon in the dumper's e-mail, facebook, skype, myspace, etc. I mean its like purposely setting fire to yourself. There is absolutely no possible good that could come from it -- and the stuff you might see could very well send you into a tailspin. I don't know whether to admire their courage or laugh at their stupidity, but it seems like such an absolutely horrible idea in the first place. Geesh. I couldn't imagine coming accross an e-mail from her current bf. Jesus.