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  1. whats good y'all? i saw this girl today who i knew from back in the day. we never really hung out, we just talked here and there. i always thought she looked good, but i was thinkin stuff like i'm probably not her type or she probably has a boyfriend. i don't see her wantin to get into dating me or goin out or nothin. but then again, i don't know. i can't read girl's minds. i just go off past experiences. anyway, before we said bye, i said that we should keep in touch. she said let me give you my number, then i gave her my phone to put it in, then she called it so she could save my number on her phone. with her, i think i got more of a chance of hookin up with her than i do of dating her, but i'll take either one. that is, if she is the kinda girl that is into casual hookups. i don't want to scare her by askin her to do somethin that she might take as askin for a date, yet i don't want to just be like "yo, you wanna hookup?" either. i mean it's easy for me to ask if she wants to get some friends together to do whatever, but i guess i'm just greedy and want to see if i have a shot. i was thinkin of askin her if she wants to rent a movie, but i don't know if that'll work. any advice, especially from the girls, would be appreciated. thanks a lot...
  2. thanks everyone for their responses.. yea, you're absolutely rite, eddie. i mean yea, it's weird that i did get shy a little towards the end, but the real reason why i didn't ask for her # or nothin is b/c once we got to my floor, that would have required me to lean against the elevator door to keep it from closing so i could pop the question. and i felt like i'd be putting her on the spot to answer this b4 i'll let the doors close so she can go to her floor. once that crossed my mind, i started gettin shy, then walked off. i had some alternatives: i coulda ran upstairs to catch her as she got off the elevator. i coulda hurried up and asked her real quick b4 the elevator closed. but by the way she reacted, it doesn't sound like she gets complemented a lot or has a boyfriend, so it's obvious that i blew it. figures that now that i want to run into her again, i'll probably never ever see her. i have a good feeling that at the very least, she would have given me her phone number since i made her feel that much better. oh, well, it's too late now. anymore advice would be appreciated. thanks...
  3. thanks for the advice.. i was talkin to someone that said not to beat myself up over not askin for her #.. she said that if it's meant to be, then i'll run into her again b4 school's out. if not, then someone else will come along. but i can't help but think that i once again passed up on an opportunity. but usually when this has happened b4, i've always ran into the girl somehow, someway, so hopefully, history will repeat itself. any more advice would be appreciated. thanks a lot...
  4. sup y'all? i was walkin back to my dorm a while ago and i got in the elevator. there was this girl that i ended up in the elevator with. i've never talked to her b4, but i've always seen her around and i think she's beautiful. she's like the type that looks really good, but good in an unassuming way, like not drawing a lot of attention. whenever i've walked by her in the past, she usually just has her head down. well, in the elevator b4 i got 2 my floor, i was like "hey, i've always seen u around campus. i just wanted to tell u that i think u look good." then she started blushing, smiled and said "aww, thanks. i feel so much better now. i can actually finish this 15 page paper i got." i was surprised i got that good of a reaction from her. that's never happened to me. i wanted to keep it goin, but the elevator doors began closing and after gettin shot down so many times in the past by random girls i ask out, i said "good luck on the paper", then walked away. i'm hopin to run into her again cause there's only 3 days left of college, but with my luck, i'll probably never see her again. what do y'all think bout this (especially the girls) and do u think i woulda had a chance with her? thanks a lot..
  5. just curious as to what y'all (especially the girls) think about this. there's this really cute girl that lives down the hall from me in the dorms. i've never really talked to her, but i saw comin in the opposite direction in the hallway today. as i got close to her, i said "excuse me. i know we don't know each other, but do u wanna maybe get together sometime?" she said "umm. well, me and my friends are goin to the bar tonight if u wanna come." i said "oh, that's cool. yea, i always see u around and i been meanin to ask u for a while." then she said "my name's melissa." then i told her mine, then asked if i could give her a call. she said that there's somethin wrong with her phone and she's gonna get a new number in a week or so if i wanna ask then. i said "oh ok. what room u live in." she said "yea, i live down the hall." i thought to myself, "huh? i asked what room. down the hall doesn't help." so i took that as a sign and said "ok, cool. i'll be in touch." she said "ok", i said "take care", then that was it. damn, i wish i could just ask her to hook up cause she might be thinkin i wanna go out with her and be her boyfriend when actually, i don't see her as a girlfriend, i just think she's hot as hell. but askin her to hook up out of the blue like that might offend her, no matter how nice u try and ask. what do y'all think about this girl and whether or not she's interested? thanks a lot. i appreciate it.
  6. i guess this isn't really an asking out for a date situation. 2 make a long story short, there this cute girl that looked as if she was kind of checkin me out the first day of class. i talked to her after the second day of class and she told me she was engaged. (she's only 18!) we talked for a few after that and after each class since then. we give each other a hug and kiss on the cheek b4 leavin, so thats cool. buying the $125 (yes, $125) textbook is necessary to do good in this class and she don't have one. she mighta been thinkin "why buy one when i can use his". after class last week, she got up real close to me and said in a sweet voice, "i have a favor to ask. can i borrow your book?" so then i knew that using my book was her plan all along bein that she's the only one without it. i said let me think about it. later that week, she text messaged me and instead of sayin "hi", asked if she could use the book. then, i asked if she'd be willin to make a deal. she said "deal? u mean, meet up?" i knew she had a man, but just 4 the hell of it, i said in a joking way that i'll lend her the book if i can get a kiss. she said "i can't. i'm engaged." i said "i know, i'm just playin, but i am gonna think of somethin tho." she laughed and said ok, then i said i can copy the pages for her at the library, and even tho she said ok, i didn't hear from her till 2day. she asked if i wanna work on the paper 2gether with her this week. i was thinkin, don't she just want the pages. then i realized that on the last paper we had to do, i got an A- and she got a C, so not only is she using me for my book, but also to help with the paper since i got a better grade. what sucks is that it's a win-win situation for her and i'm gettin absolutely nothin out of this. i like helpin people out and i've done that many times, but not when they deliberately don't do somethin like not buy an expensive book b/c they know they can sweet talk me to use mine. and the teacher knows that we talk good, so i'm afraid that if her paper is too similar to mine, we're both gonna fail. what do y'all think i should do? i wish i could get a kiss. lol. but if any of y'all think i should try and get somethin in return, what should it be? thanks...
  7. sup y'all.. thanks a lot 4 the feedback. i appreciate that. but i made up my mind and i'm gonna stop pursuing this girl. i don't think she really wants 2 get together and i'm gonna stop wastin my time tryin to figure her out. i mean yea, she gave me 2 numbers and even when i said it's ok if she's busy or whatever which was my way of givin her a way out, she still sounded interested in gettin together, but she obviously isn't sure if she wants to go thru with it or she's just playin games. 2day once class was over, i purposely took my time packin up and she walked out the door and didn't even say nothin or look at me. and all of last week, she kept sayin that she'll be on campus next weekend and we can get together then. i asked her yesterday if she'll still be here for the weekend and she was like "yea, my friend wants me to go down to a party at this college, but i should be around tho." not only is she implying that hangin out with me is not that important, but she's already startin to slowly back her way out of gettin together again. she's tryin to drop hints, so i'm gonna save her the trouble of dropping anymore and just stop talkin to her. i'm convinced that if a girl likes you, somethin deep down inside u will tell u that cause even if a girl gives u her # and enthusiastically says yes to hangin out, it means absolutely nothin until it really happens.
  8. sup y'all? 2 make a long story short, there this cute girl that i asked to get together a couple weeks ago. she said sure and gave me two numbers to call her at, which was a good sign. well, we havent done nothin yet b/c out of the 2 times we planned on meetin up, she "forgot" to call me. she seems really interested in gettin 2gether, which is also a good sign, but it's like her actions don't reflect what she's sayin. i asked her 2day if she'd be cool with doin a date kinda thing just 2 see her reaction. she said nonchalantly "sure, whichever." that reaction told me that she already knows i like her and doesn't care if it's a date or just hangin out. i don't know if she "forgot" 2 call me those times b/c she's hesitant bout gettin serious since she and her man just broke up 4 months ago, but said yes anyway b/c she thinks i'm cute or whatever. i'd be happy just hookin up w/ her, but i don't wanna just come out and say that cause it could backfire and end up offending her, but i'm wonderin if maybe she just wants to hook up, but is too shy to say it. what do y'all think about this girl? advice from other girls would help as well. thanks a lot...
  9. whats up everyone? theres this girl thats in one of the classes i have. we both live on campus, but i didnt know she did until recently. we never talked before, but when i saw her outside and recognized her from my class, i started makin conversation with her. i think she's real cute and even tho i'm not thinkin along the lines of us gettin serious, i obviously wouldn't mind hookin up with her. i'm black and she's white, so i'm not sure if she likes me like that even tho i've gone out with all different types of chicks. anyway, i was like "i didn't know u live on campus?" then she said, "yea, what building you live in?" we talked for a couple more minutes, then i asked if she wanted to do somethin later. she said "sure", then i asked if i can get her number. she said "yea", then said she'll give me her dorm # b/c her cell is off sometimes. then she said "well, actually, which # do u want?" i said it didn't matter, then she said "ok, well, i'll just give u both." i was surprised and it looked like that was a good sign. i called her that nite and we were talkin for a little. she said she was doin homework. then i asked if she was stil cool with comin over later. she said "yea, sure. after i'm done with this. is that ok?" i said "yea, definitely." then i gave her my dorm # and she said she'll call me later. she never did and i called her a couple days later and we talked for a while. she said "sorry i didn't call u. i got tied up doin homework." i said "that's ok." i figured either she was busy or maybe she changed her mind about gettin together for whatever the reason. she said she was comin back from home tomorrow. i said "thats cool. well, whenever u wanna talk or hang out, just give me a call." i figured she'd say "ok, bye". but instead, she said "alright. well, i'll call u tomorrow when i come back." i didnt think she'd say that, but i said "cool." the day's almost over, and i haven't heard from her yet. i wasn't 100% expectin her too. i don't know if she thinks i asked her to get together cause i wanna go out with her or just be friends. i have a slight feeling that she thinks it's cause i like her. whether it be for friends or if she maybe does like me, i feel like she does want to get together, but at the same time, she's not sure if she wants to or maybe she was legitmately busy cause if i didn't call her 2 days later, i don't think i woulda heard from her until our next class, which wasn't for another 3 days. what do y'all think about all this? sorry this is so long. thanks a lot...
  10. hey y'all.. i created a topic recently called how to know if a girl that's staring at you likes you.. whoever gave me feedback on that, i appreciate it.. one person made a good point about how i should get to know her first before askin her out b/c i might get shot down doin it that way.. my usual approach is say like if she's in a class i have and i've never talked to her, i'd say somethin like "so, how'd you do on that test?" then we'd exchange names, talk for a few, then i'd say, "hey, would u be cool with maybe gettin together sometime?" but i've had no luck, even with girls that looked like they were starin at me. it'd be one thing if i was like "yo, u wanna go on a date", but i figure that if the girl likes me, then the way i been doin it should be alright. some people i know have said that i should ask if i can call her sometime, but no matter how you slice it, the result turns out the same. do you guys, especially the girls, think that the way i've been askin is ok? thanks a lot..
  11. You're situation isn't as hard as some other people I know. I know you really like her, man, and I myself have felt like I'd do anything to get with a girl. But before you comtemplate jumpin thru hoops by joining the YMCA even when you're not 100% sure she works there, as one of the guys said earlier, ask her brother to hook y'all up. And if you do happen to bump into her again, don't be afraid to ask her out. In the long run, you'll be more relieved if she says "no" than spendin every moment wonderin she'll say, and this applies to any other girl. Good luck, bro...
  12. I hear what you're sayin, man. Since you only see her when she's with her friends, then you're gonna have to just go and do it even tho it's easier said than done. Just be friendly and ask if she wants to hang out sometime. But the reason why I really feel you should ask if you can call her sometime is b/c if she says "sure" to hangin out, then you gotta still make plans with her anyway and if you have such a hard time talkin to her in front of her friends as it is, then askin to call might be the best way unless she wants to make plans right then and there and usually, girls don't like pressured into making a commitment. The important thing is don't let her friends intimidate you b/c whether she says "yes" or "no", you're not gonna see her friends for the rest of the day.
  13. hey, y'all are right.. thanks for takin the time to try and help me out. i appreciate that. yea, i'm at college. most people here are laidback. as far as the myth about it's easy to find girls at college. well, that can be true in some cases, but 95% of the girls i've asked out here are already taken. i do talk to a lot of girls here, which is cool, but this is the second girl out of all the girls i've talked to that actually seemed interested in having a conversation with me, especially since all i asked her about was an assignment we had in class. the first girl does like me, but she has a man, so we're just friends. i would be very surprised if this girl doesn't have a boyfriend cause she looks good. i'm not shy about askin girls out, but i was thinkin of tellin her that i like her before askin her to hang out, but i don't know.. what do y'all think? again, thanks for the feedback...
  14. sup, y'all? there this girl in my class that looks really good. we've never talked at all or had any kind of eye contact. i see her sometimes talkin to this one guy in class, but they ain't goin out, they're just acquaintances. as i was leavin class 2day, she was walkin behind me. i tried to make conversation by askin her about the assignment we had, then we were talkin for like a couple minutes. once we got outside the building, i expected her to be like "ok, see ya later." but surprisingly, she said "so where you goin?" then i said "to the administration building real quick". then i asked her and she said she was goin to work. i asked if she lived on campus and then she told me no, then told me where she lives and where she works at, all without me askin. i wanted to ask her out, but every girl that i've asked out has in one way or another turned me down whether it be by hesitating or by them having boyfriends. and these are girls that i've had brief eye contact with. so it would kind of be poetic justice if this girl says "yes" being that we've had no eye contact or never talked before. i can't tell if she's being friendly or if she is interested in me. i know it's hard for y'all to answer this not being there, but what vibes do you get from her as far as that's concerned, especially what y'all girls think as well. thanks a lot...
  15. sup, everyone. i go to college and live on campus. theres this other girl that was in a class i had. she lives on campus too. we talk once in a while, but have never hung out or nothin. i was gonna ask her to get together to watch a movie or somethin, but i'm scared to ask that cause she might think i'm tryin to be her boyfriend. i could be wrong, but i get the vibe that she doesn't like me like that. so i was thinkin about askin her to hook up, but obviously, not using those exact words. that way, i won't scare into thinkin i wanna go out with her. but at the same time, i don't want her to take offense into me askin to hook up. i asked that once before, but that girl had a man, yet she responded nicely b/c i guess i wasn't bein a jerk about it. what do y'all think as far as my chances on this. especially the girls, how do y'all feel about all this and would any of you girls consider doin somethin like that if the guy asked you in a nice way?
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