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  1. I'm bored, so I'll make a post. In my freshman year of high school, I had my first real boyfriend. We were together for 8 months and spent almost everyday together. Then like literally the last day of school, he dumped me D: He was a senior so he wanted to freely date in college, I guess. I was sooo devastated. I cried almost everyday, sent him pathetic e-mails that he would respond coldly to, the works. Well four years later, I see him on campus! We don't say anything to each other, but I start receiving little texts from him. I respond, but by this time I am completely over him. I can't even remember what I saw in him in the first place. Eventually I get a text that went something like "What would you say if I told you I never lost feelings for you? That I've continued loving you after all this time?" Psh. I knew that was BS. He just saw that I wasn't 15 anymore. He asked me if I would hang out with him, and I responded with "I don't think sooo." Never heard from him again But I was nuts over this guy back in the day. I mean I probably would have had his baby D: Another one~ I was kind of seeing this guy then suddenly he started to ignore me. I confronted him about it, and he was really rude, responding with "What do you want?" He told me I wasn't what he was looking for unless I was willing to change. Sooo, I went NC. A few months later, texts me to hang out and apologizes for being like that, blahblah. REJECTED! Another guy I started seeing. He was pretty great. He seemed to really like me. Then I find out he's seeing someone else as well I confront him, and he doesn't try to fight for me or anything, so it ends. Months later, he texts me out of the blue and asks me to a show. I go and we have a good time. On the way back, he goes, "I know it doesn't matter anymore, but I was going to stop talking to her. . ." I really liked this one and considered trying again, but I asked a friend online for advice. He told me, "Honestly, you're a great girl, and anyone who cheats on you doesn't deserve you." So I didn't give him a second chance. But years later, he's tried on several occasions to hook up again and I deny him. We're still friends though One guy I had known and liked since I was ten tried to get with me. He was texting ALL the time and trying to get me to hang out. Finally we kissed and started something. It was great. Then suddenly it all stops. I had no idea why. I was so heartbroken and pathetic, continuing to text him. Eventually I meet someone else and get over it. A year later, we run into each other on campus. He says he has a new phone and asks for my number and starts texting me to hang out again. Unfortunately or fortunately, I don't know, I was really into someone else so I denied several of his attempts to hang out until he eventually stopped. I'm not certain that he wanted me back or anything, but I'm glad we're back on friendly terms. Last one! The guy I originally came here for. I loved this kid. I was obsessed with him. It was awful. We broke up, but continued talking. When school started again and I lived closer to him, we began an fwb. He had me wrapped around his finger and was constantly bailing and being a jerk. Finally one day I called him and broke down crying telling him to leave me alone, and he was super cold and mean D: I was crying for weeks after, but I never heard from him. Four months later, he calls out of the blue! He meekly asked me out for lunch and contact began regularly again. I still really liked him, but for some reason, I felt more like friends. I don't know if he wanted me back, but eventually I started telling him about my problems (including boy problems), so nothing happened. We're still friends, and I'm glad we're on good terms and I don't feel like crying everytime I see him. And I guess I have similar stories more or less with most guys I've been with. They all came back after I was over them. It took NC for all of them and running into me after a long time for some of them. It seems like guys only like me when I don't like them It's like when I start showing my feelings, they want to run or something.
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