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she hasnt dated anyone. i think she knows i like her and she has talked about it to me.the situation is the important thing tho.i thnk she just wants to get over this before thinking about other stuff she did say she loved me tho.

hey there guys. me and this girl have got really close over the past few months and have become best friends.we tell each other everything and basically know each other inside out. now,before i got to know her as well as i do,i did ask her out but she said no on the basis that she had just finished seeing someone and wasnt ready to begin seeing others. in the past months,she has been through an abortion and the past yr has had her confidence drained after loads of guys have used her. we get on so well and love each other dearly.it seems that the only barrier is that she is still getting over what has happened and her truth for men.she made a point of saying that she loved me and that at times im the only thing that keeps her going. i really love her.she makes me happy and i love being in her company....and i myself have only got over past issues and now feel ready to love again. do i give her time or should i give up and move on. the problem is she is my best friend and moving on and looking elsewhere is too hard.i mean...if it were someone else,i would tell them to move on but i just cant. what do u think? M xxx

hi there..just have a slight issue over a girl i like. i met this new girl a few weeks ago.she is new at the university i go to and she is very pretty etc.as ive got to know her a bit,it was revealed that she had a boyfriend and that they have just broken up.as i understand it,she broke up with him a couple of weeks ago. now...i havent actually spoken to her about it but ive got info from her friends who are my friends also.she and her ex are still talking as i understand it. she hasnt really talked about it with her friends and im a bit confused as to what exactly is happening. in any case.....i do like her and it appears she likes having me around.she laughs at my jokes and is responsive and happy being around me.her friends ahve said as much.they have also discussed my feelings for her with me and said jst to give it time. now obviously im not going to tell her my feelings yet and i feel i need to get to know her more.but do u think its worthwhile me doing this or should i just move on?? any thoughts welcome. Mikey

hey guys.....a bit of a confusing situation with a girl...bear with! ok....i met some girls a few months ago and i quite liked her.it seemed she liked me from the signals ive got and i was going to ask her out at our ball.however my mate whos a gd mate of hers said dont bother so that was that.i had a chat with her and we decided to be gd mates. so ive been more relaxed about hanging with her but ive been getting more obvious signals that she likes me.ive been joking around a lot with her and she keeps trying to make a serious point about us.also,the other night,she was sitting on my lap,holding hands with me,hugging me at any oppotunity and being inimate.she also said she loved me out of the blue....but when i was in position to kiss her she didnt respond as such. i dunno what to think,im more than happy if she didnt like me in that way...just being mates is cool with me.but the signals she is showing whenever i speak to her and see her imply she wants more. what do u think?

i didnt actually ask her out in the end because of my mate's advice.i just had a chat in private with her cos i anted to clear it up with her.

hey there.there is a girl i like and it seemed to me that she quite liked me.there were all the signals like holding hands(albeit drunk)and dancing real close.we have talked loads as well. so i thought id ask her out at my uni ball.however,my mate advised me not to do this since she only think of me as a friend.i had a private word with her and this was the case but she felt bad about it.i really dont think she was stringing me along...she isnt like that. anyway.....i was just wondering if o had done anything wrong.she is a flirty girl with ppl...maybe i just couldnt tell between flirting and real flirting. any thoughts?

omg.....im going out of mind......this is so confusing!! right,here is the long story. i met kirsten and meredith couple of months ago and they are wonderful ppl.meredith comes from gravesend and kirsten comes from close by.ive got to know kirsten especially recently and i like her a lot.we have a lot of fun together and a good understanding that will only get stronger as we spend more time with each other.there is a connection there no doubt. while this has happened,i met with a friend of alistair called helen.she doesnt coem to RHUL but was friends of ppl who do inc. alistair and be.so i danced with her and made convo at the bar with her.and we kissed.but she dont come here so i havent seen her since.however,i got her digits and msn so we have been chatting and its been great fun too.but she is off this wk to her travelling and she will be far away when she gets bk(she lives in Bucks. and will go to Bristol uni in sept.) my thinking was that i would see if kirsten was relationship material and stay friends with helen(esp. given that i couldnt be anything more at this point).but helen put a spanner in the works by emailing me and saying that she REALLY REALLY likes me!!!she said she realised the bad timing of us meeting and stuff....so yeah.. as some of u may know,i was previously in a long distance relationship and i got burned so its not gonna be wise for me to do that again for my own sake.be told me that things could change very easily over the summer(which is totally correct)but i shouldnt rule anything out.tina said the same.the boys that ive spoke to said helen isnt really a viable option given the distance(and appreciating that ive been through a long distance one before)but i shouldnt opt for kirsten if i feel more for helen. its a tough one....cos kirsten grows on me every time i see her and helen is a very different person. anyway......if u can add anything to that please do.....

nah i think im beyond the stage of attraction.....i think we have some sort of a bond..just not the type of bond that makes us a couple.more just gd friends. she is quite cold tho....hasnt really let me into her heart yet....maybe it just takes time.

hey there,i know ive posted about this before but ive done some thinking and i just wanted to get some confirmation. basically,i like one of my friends alot.we have hooked up a few times(like made out a few times)but it never went further and i asked her how she felt and she said she liked me as a friend. so i left it,its cool between us but the feelings are still there for me.ive just been thinking about it and i think i will just leave it,but i will keep the friendship,i value it too much to lose and we are still getting to know each other...we havent knwon each other that long. any advice to add?

wow dude lol.i think u in more deep as me!

it pretty clear that she doesnt like me in that way.i mean we have talked about it and she said she would prefer me to be a friend. if there was any doubt i would be actting differently

hey there guys.hope u had a gd easter.my dilemma is with a friend of mine..who i have feelings for. ok,i have only known her since sept. when we met at university.it turns out we live pretty close to her but that was a coincidence.basically,i really fancied her and we have kissed on a few occasions...mostly when one or both of us are drunk. anyway....i decided not to persue it cos she didnt seem that keen on me in that way....but we have become quite close as friends.anyway....things have got a bit crazy lately with girls so i decided no girls for the foreseeable future....just concentrate on studies and being friends. however,i cant seem to shake off my feelings for her.i speak to her often on the net and i tend to very excited when i get the chance to talk to her.i think about her alot... i dont know what to do cos i really dont think we are going to get together and im happy as being friends but i still have those feelings there.pretty confused how to deal with it. any help please??

yeah we do flirt and i tease her all the time lol.and i do make her laugh...well we make each other laugh.i love spending time with her. the kisses....well we were normally quite drunk at time...but not normally that drunk...just enough to get shot of our nerves and inhibitions.she does like me but not enough to be my bf.....thats my impression. i just dont know what to do about.i mean im fine with us being friends.....just my feelings are getting stronger and im having problems dealing with them. PS atm means at the moment.just so u know lol.

hey there guys happy easter.i have an isse with a friend atm. basically,im a first yr at uni and i have met some great ppl,but one sticks out...a ladyfriend from the same town as i. basically i really fancied her to begin with and wanted to get with her....we had kissed and stuff but we never ended up going out as she thought of me as a cool friend rather than bf material. as soon as i realised this,i just thought forget it,be her friend and it will work out fine.ive just been her friend and we have got on really well.she appears to like my company anyway. but i just cant shake off these feelings.i think about her alot...even dream of having her in my arms and stuff like that.sad isnt it?? i really adore her but i just dont see us getting together.....i dunno what to do. what ya think?

help me! ok my ex got back in contact a few days ago after over 2 years and we talked for a while.she said she would talk to me the next day but never did. so i asked her if she would come online(MSN)to talk properly and she said yeh and told me she would at this time.she never did but she said she had stuff to do and she would talk to me later,so i argeed. she never did come online and she rejected my calls.so i got annoyed and asked her why she did that.she gave me an angry text saying she was sleeping! so yeah.... im so eager because there is unfinished business and some Qs i need answering like why she got back in contact etc. i dont see why she would get back in contact unless she wanted me back.thats what im unsure on... what do u suggest i do? just wait and speak to her.....im really impatient and i want this cleared up because its stressing me out.